[Tod6264]

I guess I’ll have to move on. She texts me saying she misses me and is thinking of me and stuff, when I was replying positively back things were going well. Then when I start going cold and not texting as much she snapchats a story of her with another dude at some kinda speakeasy bar. And on the day of our date(today)she says she’s gotta reschudule after I tell her I’m on my way. Then I offer to bring wine tonight and she doesn’t respond but continues to use snapchat.

Just sucks cause it’s tough finding quality on tinder and bumble and this girl was actually attracted and seeing/fucking me 2 times a week for he last 3 weeks. And now the attraction seems to be lost but maybe I’m just overthinking.

[JackinMelbourne]

Did we not mention that she's Tindering and texting other people in between texting you? You're one-itising, she knows it AAAAND she's fucking with you for lols. You're on the back burner when she has nothing else on. When that happens, take the bang. In the meantime, for your own sanity, remove her from the pedestal and work on other women too.

[jcardial]

(04-25-2018 10:39 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  

Shit well I already sent

No worries, if you wanna do something later tonight I’ve gotta bottle of Pinot Grigio. But good luck with the interview!


Thing is like 3/6 times we’ve hung out it’s just been me bringing wine over to her place at night

Getting too boring with dates:
You got stiff armed trying to invite yourself over and then immediately made a weak open invitation to her that conjures imagery of you drinking a bottle of wine in a wife beater wishing on a star that she come around. Once you start sleeping with a girl it's not good to get lazy and transition to exclusively lame apartment dates. You've got to sprinkle in more exciting stuff, or she'll just start to think you're boring or broke. You're coming across as a desperate one trick pony with your "I have a bottle of Pinot" play (which naturally became her backup plan) and she chose the more exciting guy who invited her to a hip speakeasy bar.

Reacting to the stiff arm:
Obviously you can't act pissed, but it's cringe worthy you're so enthusiastically wishing her luck on her "interview" when the only thing she's interviewing is a new dick. She was chasing before, but you got way too comfortable and lazy and paid for it. The way to recover from over enthusiasm and chasing too much (as we warned you) is to pump the breaks but you insisted on continuing to slam on the accelerator to not seem inconsistent from your needy approach. You can't needily push for a reschedule right after getting Heisman'd.