[GyopoPlayboy]

Sounds like you suck at fucking.

[FOBolous]

(04-22-2018 06:12 PM)Mig Picante Wrote:  

Don't waste any more time on this woman.

Your last post is trying to justify keeping in touch.
You'll just get more frustrated as I don't think it will pan out the way you hope.

She strung you along to see if you were still interested and it was all on her terms.

Being "friends" was my original intent when she first reached out to me and we reconnected. That's why it took a month and a half for us to hook up. We hung out a few times before that night, and I had earlier opportunities that I didn't take cause I was trying to be just friends. Then I gave finally gave in that night cause of the alcohol and cause she was being super extra affectionate.

but yea, I'll worry about what to do next week. I'm too busy this week. One of my friends has a girl in town with her friends for the week and he wants me to wingman him. Then on Friday, i promised this other girl that i'll take her out.

Thanks everyone for their input. One of the reason why i love this forum so much (i've lurked for awhile before signing up) is because this forum helps keep guys centered, even keeled, and focus.

[PapayaTapper]

(04-22-2018 11:45 AM)FOBolous Wrote:  

(04-22-2018 11:24 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

Another perspective here. I guess I never understood why a woman would stop a man in the middle of coitus IF she's enjoying herself fully.

A normal woman should have an understanding that it is her job to make the man satisfied until he releases himself. From my experience I know this to be true.

So for a woman to leave in the middle, you're either fucking her wrong or she's a total nutcase. Just pick one but in either case, avoid the bitch.

Well we dated for 3 months and that 3 months was filled with sex. Even after we officially ended, we hooked up a few more times before we stopped talking to each. If there's something wrong with what I'm doing, she wouldn't have came back for more.

I'm a "talker" during sex. The turning point that night happened when, while we were going at it, I told her we're going fuck all night...which I think "woke" her up and made her realized what she was doing. That was when she made me stop. Funny cause when we hooked up before, it use to really turn her when I tell her that. i guess the difference is she was single then but is supposedly talking to someone new right now.

so i guess she's a "nutcase." she's slutty, but she is conscience about being slutty. If we do end up hooking up again, I'm going to stfu until i finish lol




so yea, i guess the consensus among the forum is i should initiate NC and move on?

This is a girl you were already sexual with (as opposed to trying to for the first time). Additionally girl shows slut tendencies (hooking up with ex while "sort of seeing" a new guy. (Although I suspect this might have been a shit test and she was looking to see where your head was at re you and her)

1. Sexualize every contact. Meaning every exchange should be her knowing your a man that needs to jizz. You dont need another

Examplein text)

Her: "hey how are you?"
You "busy right now?"
Her "What you doing?"
You "thinking"
Her "About what?"
You "doin you again/ doin you in the ass/ the way you looked sucking my dick...etc etc"

This is a girl you already banged multiple times in the past. No need to slow play and try "not to scare the cat".

2. Stop giving a fuck. No need to go "no contact" when you dont care about the outcome. NC is for when you care too much and want to "detox" from the emotional connection.

If you do the above you could have yourself a nice fuck buddy

[heavy]

I recently had to go no contact with an ex.

I can tell you, it's crazy the difference between these two:

"I'm over her and not going to talk or text"
vs
"I haven't thought about her because she hasn't popped up on my IG or Facebook because I unfollowed her"

I had no idea until I pulled the plug, how much easier...I mean the difference between impossible to almost too easy...to forget about her so much more.

I say this because when I got divorced, I really was over it. I didn't need to go no contact. But this is the first chick I had to pull the plug with.

[LeBeau]

Your next move is to request to move this thread to the Newbie Forum where it belongs.