Correlation =/= causation.
If you get a chick horny and wet enough to bang you on the first date, then you decide whether to bang or not but it's still fair game. We live in a culture where sexual openness is encouraged and we are on a forum figuring out what buttons to press to get that end-game.
This is probably the problem here because Hank seems to have his own standards in a way that he doesn't find day1 bangs attractive and it's unnecessary for him to catch shit for that. That's his problem, not yours. He's laying out his own recipe. Many ways to skin a cat.
In the same vein, if you're on a forum where 99% of men are actively trying to get laid ASAP in to the interaction then you can expect some resistance when you mention that you aiming for a bang on the 3rd date. Again, many ways to skin a cat.
My point here is this:
The morality of the girl doesn't change if she puts out on the 1st or 3rd date. Girl A who wants to bang on the first date will still want to bang on the first date, regardless on whether you direct that sexual energy or not. If you don't, she is disappointed. If you bang her, then she is either satisfied or not depending on how you handle the post-coitus interactions.
Same for a girl on the 3rd date.
If you fuck Girl A on the 1st or 3rd date, it makes no difference to her character. I always say its testament to your game and you bring it out in her but if you ain't banging a girl that's DTF because you want her to fit your ideal then that's some next level cognitive dissonance.
Anyways, this is the beauty of a forum. Varied experiences, different outcomes and desires.
There are people gaining value from posts like this so move on if it doesn't resonate with you or you don't feel like it's something relevant/useful to you.
If you get a chick horny and wet enough to bang you on the first date, then you decide whether to bang or not but it's still fair game. We live in a culture where sexual openness is encouraged and we are on a forum figuring out what buttons to press to get that end-game.
This is probably the problem here because Hank seems to have his own standards in a way that he doesn't find day1 bangs attractive and it's unnecessary for him to catch shit for that. That's his problem, not yours. He's laying out his own recipe. Many ways to skin a cat.
In the same vein, if you're on a forum where 99% of men are actively trying to get laid ASAP in to the interaction then you can expect some resistance when you mention that you aiming for a bang on the 3rd date. Again, many ways to skin a cat.
My point here is this:
The morality of the girl doesn't change if she puts out on the 1st or 3rd date. Girl A who wants to bang on the first date will still want to bang on the first date, regardless on whether you direct that sexual energy or not. If you don't, she is disappointed. If you bang her, then she is either satisfied or not depending on how you handle the post-coitus interactions.
Same for a girl on the 3rd date.
If you fuck Girl A on the 1st or 3rd date, it makes no difference to her character. I always say its testament to your game and you bring it out in her but if you ain't banging a girl that's DTF because you want her to fit your ideal then that's some next level cognitive dissonance.
Anyways, this is the beauty of a forum. Varied experiences, different outcomes and desires.
There are people gaining value from posts like this so move on if it doesn't resonate with you or you don't feel like it's something relevant/useful to you.