Quote: (04-03-2018 08:46 AM)Alpha Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2018 08:00 AM)PondScum Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2018 06:45 AM)Alpha Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2018 02:57 AM)Mr.WHORES Wrote:
Fuck marriage. Playa for life. Kudos to you tho.
Yo so I got married a few years ago and let me tell you: This is the correct answer.
From your blog:
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And “banging sluts” isn’t real purpose.
My wife showed me that. I owe her a debt for showing me that being a real man, being good at being a man, means more than being cocky at a bar and having quips.
Would you care to elaborate, if you haven't already elsewhere?
You juxtaposed these two sentences as though they were at odds, but they aren't.
I elaborate in that post. The entire post is literally an elaboration on that point.
But in short: If your entire goal for your entire life is to "Bang Sluts" you're probably going to feel pretty empty after a while.
I never say that marriage is the answer. I say that purpose is.
I point out that having "game" doesn't make you a man, and that it doesn't always build lasting character. Something that I realized under the scrutiny of marriage.
When you're with someone day in and day out they will see you at low-status, low-value times. They will see weakness, they will watch your failures.
I thought I had everything going on until my wife pointed out that I really didn't. I hope I can point that out to other men before they get wrapped up in a marriage. Encourage some introspection.
I still advise against marriage because, in this day and age, someone seeing you at your weakest is grounds for divorce.
Marriage is not easy, and these days it gets harder as traditions are bucked and conventional expectations are cast off. Add to that fact that marriage will often take a lot of energy away from pursuing a purpose, and it just isn't something I'd recommend.
I'm not against banging sluts, I'm just against making it the be-all, end-all purpose of your life.
I read "playa for life" as "stay single", not "make your life's mission to slam as many hoes as possible."
I really enjoyed this post, very deep insight into the 'reality' of today's problems plaguing men,
of which there are many.
The media has brainwashed and indoctrinated us to no understandable end,
that hedonism is the true path of joy.
When in truth, yes, degeneracy can be enjoyable - for a while.
However the most deeply felt happiness I have ever experienced was surprisingly NOT while getting a blowjob, a tit job, the first time I pounded a women anally or when experimenting with all varieties of drugs as a young man.
These are simply fleeting moments of enjoyment, sometimes even resulting in long-term regret.
Things that have made a lasting imprint of bliss in my mind:
1) Watching my son win his first wrestling match.
2) Seeing my daughter excel at Shrimping, the Lockdown and the Rear Naked Choke in Kids Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class.
3) When I finally saved up enough money to purchase my first English Bulldog - which I had been wanting my whole life.
4) My Wife breaking the mold, she does all of the cooking and cleaning in our household.
This alone has taken so much stress off my life and I'm pretty sure most women now a days don't know how to make a PB&J sandwich.
However, just like Alpha,
in good conscience - I cannot recommend Marriage to today's Single man.
I just don't want to see my brothers getting bent-over by the horribly lopsided legal system.
Too many good bros have committed suicide because of that predicament.