[Mercenary]

(03-31-2018 01:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

A "chair modified" version of reverse cowgirl is one of my favorites. If done properly its a low exertion way to bang the snot out of a chick*.

Yes, totally agree.
Very good and informative post PapayaTapper.
I also like the position where the man sits in a chair and she's on top of you facing away...I have used that many times.

In this far superior position you can easily pull her hair, choke her, play with her tits, turn her face and kiss her, kiss her neck, pull her arms behind her, grab her hips and get a good rhythm going, rub her clit, look at her whole body in a full length mirror (if you've got one)...the list of good stuff goes on and on.

However, I do not think it's called reverse cowgirl in this case.
Might have another name.

[MikeS]

(03-31-2018 09:58 AM)LexisNexis Wrote:  

I think it was designed for porn. Same with the sideways position with her facing out.

Some positions definitely feel like they function a lot better as a spectator piece rather than when you're actually doing them.

[PapayaTapper]

(03-31-2018 01:28 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

(03-31-2018 01:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

A "chair modified" version of reverse cowgirl is one of my favorites. If done properly its a low exertion way to bang the snot out of a chick*.

Yes, totally agree.
Very good and informative post PapayaTapper.
I also like the position where the man sits in a chair and she's on top of you facing away...I have used that many times.

However, I do not think it's called reverse cowgirl in this case.
Might have another name.

Probably not. But the technique I described isn't really a chair position either. Its more of a hybrid since the "ramp" is at an angle to the floor rather than horizontal and the slide that make it different (and way better) than standard RCG.

A cursory search didnt turn up a specific image so I dont think its common

[Mage]

I think reverse cowgirl is a position that looks good in porn - you can see most of female body and little of man's body - therefore it has gained popularity. Then people want to try out things that they have seen in porn - some have the integrity to confess to themselves that it is not so great in real life - others double down and try to convince themselves they like it because the cool guys on screen do it.

There is a whole set of positions whose main advantage is making female body visible to camera but which are rather uncomfortable or provide little pleasure in real life.

The truth is that missionary position which has been labeled as boring and too conservative is in truth the most natural and most pleasurable position for both partners. You may experiment with other positions and sometimes a little change is interesting but the thing is you won't invent anything more constantly satisfying than that.

Aside from missionary the doggy style and normal cowgirl and perhaps a few others that mainly have to do with sex taking place without bed have some uses and natural applications, but the rest it pretty much useless acrobatics for bored people who have either seen too much porn or hate the ageing look of their partner and try to find something new to excite them without looking for a new partner.

[Montrose]

Missionary is totally useless, unless you have the generally misguided desire to express affection to your partner, because the penis doesn’t thrusts toward the anterior vaginal wall (aka G spot) and that is a major drawback for vaginal women - and it’s not a very convenient position to stimulate the clit either. Fails on both accounts. Also, I dislike missionary because, like the Chinese say, ‘when you’re on the mountain you can’t see the mountain’.

[Geomann180]

(03-31-2018 01:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

This one was handed down from Papa PT so you kiddies pay attention.

*snip*

I have the strangest erection right now.

G

[Batman_]

I hate it. Regular cowgirl is so much better. Especially if you get her to lower her chest down to yours, it makes it super easy for both of you to thrust/ride. Plus it's super intimate.

[wi30]

Team missionary, no eye contact, procreation only.

[Mage]

(03-31-2018 03:36 PM)Montrose Wrote:  

Missionary is totally useless... because the penis doesn’t thrusts toward the anterior vaginal wall (aka G spot) and that is a major drawback for vaginal women

Not sure if serious... it totally does if done from the right angle.

(03-31-2018 03:36 PM)Montrose Wrote:  

Missionary is totally useless, unless you have the generally misguided desire to express affection to your partner, Also, I dislike missionary because, like the Chinese say, ‘when you’re on the mountain you can’t see the mountain’.

I recognize a man who fucks women with average faces. It is true missionary is good only with women who have beautiful face. It's just like I said in a previous post - if a partner has some deficiencies - you are going to look for more and more specific positions that lessen them.

I agree many positions offer a better view - but I don't think any position offers more skin contact. Some people like that too.


Another thing to consider is room temperature - when it''s hot I like to have as little body contact as possible, like doggy style or with female legs up, but when it's chilly it's nice to warm each other in missionary.

[Dulceácido]

Ya'll are trippin'. Reverse cowgirl is one of the best positions--EVER!

Obviously, not a lot of Latina lovers here because there is nothing more beautiful than a bountiful ass plowing down on you...

[Conquerer7]

How about just enjoying the sex and not putting everything in either an 'Alpha' or 'Beta' category? I may be biased as my main has a big booty.

[yankeetravels]

Reverse cowgirl is definitely not a beta position to me. It's a position probably more preferable for porn, but I've had a handful of girls do it for me, just to see what it was like. The main perk I'd say for it is if the girl really knows how to ride a dick and you want to view her ass. Personally, it's my favorite position to view the ass.

The problems like above, are that the dick is in a more bent position and thus less comfortable to thrust, whereas the cowgirl lets you grab the ass and is a prime thrusting position, but you have to give up the ass view. I guess it depends on what you prefer to view and if view or feel is more important to you during sex. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Gotta try the chair position in the future though. I can think of a couple of girls I wish I would have thought of trying that on when I was with them. Also, missionary for me is mainly for when I'm looking for a different position to conserve myself or for when a girl doesn't know what she's doing in bed.

[RatInTheWoods]

I get a bit disturbed by those dicks that can bend backwards like that... Doesn't seem natural or manly. Mine points north proudly, I can not tuck it backwards towards my ass.

[dosequis]

A friend of a friend of mine said that he knows this porn clip with Keiran Lee and Ricki Raxxx where they're in some kind of a hospital bed (apparently!) and they do the reverse cow girl and he sort of lifts this chick up while doing it and puts her legs together at times which makes it less "beta" and more dominant, which is what the OP is looking for.

But again, I'm only referring this. But something to recommend if you happen to be into this kind of stuff and want to see how it's done.

[goodington]

You can also grab and squeeze her hips or ass, firmly guide her up and down, encourage her to grind on your cock, that sort of thing. It helps if the girl actually works out and actually has the strength to move herself up and down (and a firm ass).

[BlastbeatCasanova]

I always thought it sounded good on paper, just doesn't do it for me. Heck, a lot of girls don't even know how to ride when it comes to standard cowgirl. Girl laying flat on her stomach and me pounding away with that ass in full view/access is probably my personal fave

[Enigma]

(03-31-2018 09:38 AM)realologist Wrote:  

Limiting beliefs thinking you can't fuck a girl from that position.

Need to work on your glute bridge and hip thrust game.

You can also grab her hips, waist, ass, or upper thighs and use your arms to generate motion.

Normal cowgirl is actually one of my favorite positions to fuck a girl.

[Akwesi]

Do what Papaya Tapper said: sit up and do it; and do what Dulceacido said: bang a girl with a real ass. Problem solved.

[SteezeySteve]

If the girl knows how to ride and really wants to please you its dope.
Gives you a chance to rest after going full throttle.

Also on a chair is better than a bed.

How to apply reverse cowgirl:
Fuck the girl hard for a while in mish or doggy
Switch to the chair and let her ride you and blow you
Switch to doggy or mish once you got your stamina back
Repeat as needed...


You have to give her what she wants good and she'll put in the work to ride you like a champ...

Dudes hate on american girls but how many of these virgin chicks from 3rd world countries can deep throat and know how to ride you reverse cowgirl with no training?

[Stakes Is High]

i usually default to positions where I am the one doing the work.. positions that allow me to be in control.. however, i do enjoy this positions for the following reasons:

• if playing with a butt plug, this is a good position that allows for insertion, letting her work it in herself... then admiring how it looks- telling her how sexy her ass looks when filled
• allows for dedicated spanking
• allows for some rest, yet keeping momentum
• morphs into her getting her feet planted, then lifting her ass up and down in a sort of assisted-squat, which allows you to control her movement and also upward thrusting
  

[yankeetravels]

(04-01-2018 07:04 PM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  

Dudes hate on american girls but how many of these virgin chicks from 3rd world countries can deep throat and know how to ride you reverse cowgirl with no training?

You'd be surprised man. I've fucked Filipinas that really know how to ride a dick.

[Vladimir Poontang]

(03-31-2018 01:05 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

That's one happy metronome.

[ksbms]

(03-31-2018 11:00 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

I get a bit disturbed by those dicks that can bend backwards like that... Doesn't seem natural or manly. Mine points north proudly, I can not tuck it backwards towards my ass.

I can knot mine into a pretzel, like this:

[travolta]

yeah generally reverse cowgirl sucks. It's only good if the girl is experienced and extremely wet.

[Jetset]

In general, this is reserved for women I neither care about enough to put effort into or to look in the eye.