Hey guys. Noob here. I read Bang about a year ago and was really encouraged by it. I'm an older guy (33) and have kind of (unknowingly) accepted a beta role. I'm pretty average all around in the looks and cash department. On my best day I'm probably a 7 or 8 in terms of looks but I know with some game added, I can be a 10. I have never knowingly used game. I was recently accused of being a player by a solid 9 and kind of let her think that while thinking to myself, oh how I wish! After reading the book, I realize that I have used it (game) and not even realized it. I also learned a lot of other things that really encouraged me. My biggest weakness is approaching. I don't know why but I almost never do it. Most of my limited success comes from when I'm introduced to someone and I take it from there. Anyway just wanted to give a brief intro and I hope to learn a lot from you guys.
As for my question, it's probably been asked before but let me set it up. I met up with some friends (a couple) after a football game the other night. She happend to have 4 or 5 girls on the way. Jackpot! Anyway, one of them was kind of hot and I wasn't interested in the rest. I ended up talking to her and her friend next to her most of the night. I noticed her friend, probably a 5 or a 6, checking me out a lot and giving me a lot of eye contact while the hot one didn't seem as interested. What would you do in this situation? Would you give up on the one you wanted that seemed only mildly interested or just go for the one you KNEW was interested? I'm pretty picky so I stuck to the one that was hot and ended up pissing the other girl off. I didn't get any either way so I feel like I kind of cut off my nose to spite my face. So what would you do here? Thanks in advance.
As for my question, it's probably been asked before but let me set it up. I met up with some friends (a couple) after a football game the other night. She happend to have 4 or 5 girls on the way. Jackpot! Anyway, one of them was kind of hot and I wasn't interested in the rest. I ended up talking to her and her friend next to her most of the night. I noticed her friend, probably a 5 or a 6, checking me out a lot and giving me a lot of eye contact while the hot one didn't seem as interested. What would you do in this situation? Would you give up on the one you wanted that seemed only mildly interested or just go for the one you KNEW was interested? I'm pretty picky so I stuck to the one that was hot and ended up pissing the other girl off. I didn't get any either way so I feel like I kind of cut off my nose to spite my face. So what would you do here? Thanks in advance.