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Do your professions or hobbies have any impact on if women find you attractive?
02-10-2018, 08:35 PM
Meh... it's been written about but I'll write about it again...
1. Professions like lawyer, dentist, doctor, accountant, financial planner, teacher, salesman, realtor, banker, insurance executive, engineer, IT professional, investor, etc. don't really get those panties wet. At least if you lead with it. ("Hi, I"m Hank. I'm a lawyer. I'm so important. What I do is so high profile. I'm practically on MSNBC every night. I have so many cases.") Younger women are pretty "meh" to professions that are upper middle class but relatively boring. Most women only enjoy the perks that come with a decent profession -- nice dinners, fancy gym, big house, disposable income, etc. But...
2. Professions like MMA fighter, tattoo artist, DJ, promoter, bartender, professional athlete, musician, etc. - those will get you laid. For two reasons. First, women are physically attracted to those kinds of men. Second of all, those types of men are around hot women all the time. Women don't give a shit if these guys are poor. They'll suck the skin off their dicks every week while often latching onto a beta bux. Her dentist fiancé might bring in $250k a year and treat her right, but like, the MMA fighter is, like, so hot. And he has tattoos!!!!
3. Your contributions to society mean nothing to women. You can win a Nobel Peace Prize, cure cancer, and end poverty in Somalia, and she'd still rather suck off the bartender with tattoo sleeves. Women give zero fucks about your contributions to society. If your goal is to contribute to society, do it for yourself, not to pickup chicks. It doesn't help (although it's personally meaningful).
4. In terms of hobbies... yes, they affect your ability to pool poon...
Hobbies women are attracted to: hunting, cooking, camping, hiking, MMA / BJJ / kickboxing, mountain climbing, cars, music, cycling, fishing, bodybuilding / the gym, sports, kayaking, woodworking, home improvement projects, motorcycles, off-roading, guns, skiing, snowboarding, tattoos, Crossfit, etc. Basically, anything either creative or physically challenging. Eventually she will want to do your hobbies with you, if she's into you.
Hobbies that turn women off: video games (sports games with friends are the exception), MMORPGs, anime, sitting around and texting all day, television, spending all day on the internet, watching porn, wearing gay shit like pink shirts / pussy hats ("but you're such a good ally! However, I'll be fucking your friend in the bathroom..."), complaining, talking about your depression / health problems, not having hobbies, weird shit like stamp / coin collecting, comic books, etc. Hobbies that are passive and she can't do them with you.
Hobbies that are neutral: art, ballet, opera, literature, wine / beer / spirits, interior design (when done right can get ginas flowing, though), writing, church / scripture (though I've observed most women find my faith to be attractive; most of my girlfriends eventually ask to attend church with me), politics, "foodie" (can go either way -- if you're fat, works against you, if you're fit, they'll find it sexy that you know all the good restaurants to eat at), running (most girls like guys who are a bit beefier but some don't), vaping, etc.
Bottom line: your professional life doesn't have much an effect on your dating life. Hobbies that are active, dangerous, or creative attract women. Hobbies that are passive make women think you're a dork. Other hobbies should be for you -- if she's into you, she'll think it's cool. If she thinks you're a dork, she'll think your hobbies are dorky.