she texted me again 20 min later
“Either your busy or hella ignoring me”
“Either your busy or hella ignoring me”
Quote: (01-28-2018 06:47 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:
Playing beer pong, cards, everything going good. But then I Tried to put my arm around her and she goes “i feel bad I think you may have gotten the wrong idea. I’m kind of seeing somebody. What did you expect to happen tonight?”
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Girls hate certainty. Don't ever give it to them.
Quote: (01-29-2018 06:03 PM)Westcoast99 Wrote:
she texted me again 20 min later
“Either your busy or hella ignoring me”
Quote: (01-28-2018 06:53 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:
This girl is not LTR material, especially seeing her at the party smoking weed, tequila, and cursing like a sailor. And I am looking for a LTR. However I still am not happy being used like that. Thank you.
Quote: (01-31-2018 09:53 PM)Westcoast99 Wrote:
Unrelated question- 3 set Italian group I approached solo in Madrid, the least attractive one was feeling me...how do I weasel my way to the more attractive ones?
Quote: (01-29-2018 07:25 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:
An Advanced Game tidbit:
I stayed in on New Year's Eve: I was too tired to go out after six solid days of cleaning out a very feral house and trying to get an abandoned kid on his feet. My girlfriend wanted to go out to a party with her friends, and was getting sulky that I didn't want to go.
"I need a quiet night to rest. Go out, have fun."
You think she would have understand just how much I'd been dealing with, and see that I'd earnt the rest, but, well, Girl Brain: she instantly had to speak in Emotional terms. "Aren't you worried about me going without you?"
Me, really having no time for this: "If you meet a man tonight who has more to offer you than I do, then you have my permission to fuck him."
She was silent for a minute, then called me 'arrogant', but she was home by 1 am, and wasn't drunk.
Quote: (02-01-2018 03:45 PM)Kieran Wrote:
If you're making threads for advice on how to get this girl then you're too invested and won't be able to behave in a way that's attractive to her when you're around her. Stop reading this thread, stop thinking about how you can get her, and stop any investment of time and effort in her. The investment makes you feel something for her, then you spend time thinking about her or how to get her, and this increases the feeling of want / investment in a vicious cycle. Write off any effort you've put in as a sunk cost, get yourself back centred, and don't communicate with her until you are. Then make her investband get her thinking about you and chasing your validation not the other way around.