[Geomann180]

I just want to give you a +1 for seeking out advice in the proper forum, taking all perspectives you got to heart, and following up with the forum.

Too many guys come on here wanting validation for a course of action they already chose and even when they do take advice, don't always follow up on it.

All my best to you in your future endeavors, OP.

G

[Geomann180]

double post

[HagansAvenue]

Thank you, G. I appreciate the well wishes and the +1.

This thread was beyond helpful. The sex would’ve been good, but I would’ve moved too fast before seeing the red flags... no regrets.

[astro]

The first older girl I banged ended up being fucking nuts. She stalked me, and eventually the girl I began seeing after her, for months. It wasn't anything extreme, but had I not bounced when I saw the red flags popping up I know it would have been much, much worse. It's an often overlooked thing, but I think knowing when to bounce is actually more important than knowing when to escalate. You need to get well rounded enough to read all situations instead of just getting your dick wet despite what negative outcome you will be met with.

I am with everyone else, you just avoided some shit!