Whether it's social circle game, online game, night game or day game, flaking/ghosting is a fundamental part of the game that will always be there.
For example, let's say that I meet a girl from social circle, I have her on FB/snapchat or whatever. I ask them out to hang out, if they give me some lame excuse and they don't suggest another time to meet up, I might ask one more time again, but most likely know it's not going to go anywhere. In my experience, at that time they might not even text me back.
I am seeing some posts where a girl flaked and wasn't really interested in meeting the guy, but then they end up meeting later (maybe a month or 6months laters whatever), and they bang.
How does this happen???
Is it from online, day game or social circle?
So if a girl didn't respond to your text, you just text them some time later? For instance...keep them on snap/insta/fb and then contact them 3months or 6months later? Wouldn't it be the same and attraction has died down a lot?
How do you go about this? You just pretend that you not getting a text or being flaked on doesn't bother you at all and act nonchalant/indifferent? I feel like that's a low-value behavior and the girl will do the same thing again and either ghost/flake thinking that he doesn't care and she will continue to step over the boundaries thinking he has no backbone.
For example, let's say that I meet a girl from social circle, I have her on FB/snapchat or whatever. I ask them out to hang out, if they give me some lame excuse and they don't suggest another time to meet up, I might ask one more time again, but most likely know it's not going to go anywhere. In my experience, at that time they might not even text me back.
I am seeing some posts where a girl flaked and wasn't really interested in meeting the guy, but then they end up meeting later (maybe a month or 6months laters whatever), and they bang.
How does this happen???
Is it from online, day game or social circle?
So if a girl didn't respond to your text, you just text them some time later? For instance...keep them on snap/insta/fb and then contact them 3months or 6months later? Wouldn't it be the same and attraction has died down a lot?
How do you go about this? You just pretend that you not getting a text or being flaked on doesn't bother you at all and act nonchalant/indifferent? I feel like that's a low-value behavior and the girl will do the same thing again and either ghost/flake thinking that he doesn't care and she will continue to step over the boundaries thinking he has no backbone.
"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
- Heat
"That's the difference between you and me. You wanna lose small, I wanna win big."