AFC here and I need some advice.
Last weekend I met up with an acquaintance at a club. We were planning on meeting another group of people there, but they didn't show up so we were alone the whole night. We started dancing together after a while and ultimately ending up making out on the dance floor. We both had a lot of fun, but she ended up leaving the club after an extended makeout session. She texted me on the way home to tell me she "had a lot of fun, thanks!"
I invited her out the next night but she already had plans and didn't counter with an alternative plan. Now I'm wondering what I should do next.
The girl is really cute and genuinely fun to hang out with, so I'd really like another bite at the apple. She's on the rebound and from what I've heard has been hooking up with a lot of guys. Furthermore, she hangs out in a big group of friends, mostly consisting of beta orbiters.
I know I fucked up in not pushing to bring her home. I haven't scored since a breakup with a girlfriend last year, and among other things was concerned about my performance. And as Monday morning quarterback, I realize that I missed some telltale signs that she was DTF, and as a result I may have come across as Beta or too gentlemanly.
Should I text her? If so, when and what?
Last weekend I met up with an acquaintance at a club. We were planning on meeting another group of people there, but they didn't show up so we were alone the whole night. We started dancing together after a while and ultimately ending up making out on the dance floor. We both had a lot of fun, but she ended up leaving the club after an extended makeout session. She texted me on the way home to tell me she "had a lot of fun, thanks!"
I invited her out the next night but she already had plans and didn't counter with an alternative plan. Now I'm wondering what I should do next.
The girl is really cute and genuinely fun to hang out with, so I'd really like another bite at the apple. She's on the rebound and from what I've heard has been hooking up with a lot of guys. Furthermore, she hangs out in a big group of friends, mostly consisting of beta orbiters.
I know I fucked up in not pushing to bring her home. I haven't scored since a breakup with a girlfriend last year, and among other things was concerned about my performance. And as Monday morning quarterback, I realize that I missed some telltale signs that she was DTF, and as a result I may have come across as Beta or too gentlemanly.
Should I text her? If so, when and what?