Hey,
I'd like some advice. I've been gaming for a while now and have had decent success.
I've alway been very good at first dates, I would say it's my strongest out of all the stages from getting the number to getting the notch.
However, the last two girls I've taken out have came up with the "I don't feel a connection" bullshit. Just for your info: I usually take a girl out to a resto/bar, sneak in the conversation my adventures and life experiences at first and let them talk and qualify themselves to me. I then switch venus to a bar where I start escalating pretty hard and go from there. I'm very good at keeping the conversation interesting and fun, I also always wow bitches. Till now each one would text me after a date how much of an amazing time she's had, that's if I didn't get the notch the first date. Usually happens second date...
Anyways my last 2 dates:
Girl 1: 7.5, when I went for the kiss at the second venue she was surprised and said "I didn't expect you to do that, I felt we weren't connecting". Anyways she wouldn't come back to my place unless "You have to take me out on a second date". We did makeout alot and got very sexual at the end in some random park near my place. Now she texted me out of the blue for a second date which most probably will turn into a bang.
Girl 2: 9 model, sadly she doesn't drink which makes it more difficult for me. I couldn't escalate at all with this bitch, she also didn't want to go to a bar at all. So we first went to a restaurant for dinner then after that to the beach close to her place. Later moved to a park near my place but again couldn't escalate, since she was making it hard for me and at the end she only wanted to hug when I went in for the kiss. FYI: She was questioning me like crazy and viewed all my social media profiles and linkedin to see if I'm worth it I guess. Anyways two days later she sends me a text "Your a sweet guy but I didn't feel a connection, etc..." so I replied "You're right I wasn't feeling we were connecting too, anyways, it's always nice meeting new people. Take care" keep in mind I approached her in the club because she was eyeing me aggressively and then moved all the way to come stand next to me.
I feel I have become emotionally dead! I'm not feeling it at dates anymore, I'm starting to get really robotic for some reason. I'm not excited anymore, I go out on dates feeling like it's more work than having a good time.
I think I lost my charm and humour since life has been tough lately and stress has been getting to me. Any ideas on how to move forward?
I'd like some advice. I've been gaming for a while now and have had decent success.
I've alway been very good at first dates, I would say it's my strongest out of all the stages from getting the number to getting the notch.
However, the last two girls I've taken out have came up with the "I don't feel a connection" bullshit. Just for your info: I usually take a girl out to a resto/bar, sneak in the conversation my adventures and life experiences at first and let them talk and qualify themselves to me. I then switch venus to a bar where I start escalating pretty hard and go from there. I'm very good at keeping the conversation interesting and fun, I also always wow bitches. Till now each one would text me after a date how much of an amazing time she's had, that's if I didn't get the notch the first date. Usually happens second date...
Anyways my last 2 dates:
Girl 1: 7.5, when I went for the kiss at the second venue she was surprised and said "I didn't expect you to do that, I felt we weren't connecting". Anyways she wouldn't come back to my place unless "You have to take me out on a second date". We did makeout alot and got very sexual at the end in some random park near my place. Now she texted me out of the blue for a second date which most probably will turn into a bang.
Girl 2: 9 model, sadly she doesn't drink which makes it more difficult for me. I couldn't escalate at all with this bitch, she also didn't want to go to a bar at all. So we first went to a restaurant for dinner then after that to the beach close to her place. Later moved to a park near my place but again couldn't escalate, since she was making it hard for me and at the end she only wanted to hug when I went in for the kiss. FYI: She was questioning me like crazy and viewed all my social media profiles and linkedin to see if I'm worth it I guess. Anyways two days later she sends me a text "Your a sweet guy but I didn't feel a connection, etc..." so I replied "You're right I wasn't feeling we were connecting too, anyways, it's always nice meeting new people. Take care" keep in mind I approached her in the club because she was eyeing me aggressively and then moved all the way to come stand next to me.
I feel I have become emotionally dead! I'm not feeling it at dates anymore, I'm starting to get really robotic for some reason. I'm not excited anymore, I go out on dates feeling like it's more work than having a good time.
I think I lost my charm and humour since life has been tough lately and stress has been getting to me. Any ideas on how to move forward?