I tried a technique I learned in med school to try and seal the deal with a girl I've hung out with a few times but has been super skittish when it comes to the idea of sex. For those of you who want to jump straight to my question, the paragraphs are organized as follows. P2 science of what I did, P3 Backstory and how I did it, P4 Where I made my move, and P5 my question/ How could have I done better.
I'm a med student so I have learned a lot of fascinating things about the body, especially the female body. While doing some rotations with a chiropractor, he showed us some pressure points on the back, that when stimulated the right way cause a large percentage of women to orgasm. This is due to blood to rushing to various parts of the body including the vagina and can result in one of the best orgasms. I didn't believe but I googled it after and saw a bunch of stories from several massage therapists or women who went to get a massage having intense orgasms from the massage when these pressure points were hit, even when they were straight females getting them from another female.
I decided to try it out with a girl that I have hung out with a few times but have been unable to seal the deal with because she is skittish, this most likely due to just getting out of a long term relationship a few weeks ago. She likes me a lot but wants to go slow. We were watching TV at my house with a mutual friend and she complained that her back was sore and asked for a massage. About 10 mins into the massage, after I loosened all the muscles, I started gently stimulating the pressure points and she lost control for a second and hunched over. I asked if that was because it hurt and she responded that she wasn't sure and that it just felt weird. I continued and moved back and forth from the muscle to the pressure points, each time increasing the intensity. Each time I hit the pressure points she would fall into her own lap. She began moaning slightly and I pretended to ignore it and continued. She eventually got up to get a towel because she was "slipping off her wood chair." I hit it one more time and she moaned for a second, grabbed my legs that were wrapped around her to hold her still, and then got up fast and went to clean up her dishes. She didn't say a word to me but told our friend that it was probably her first real orgasm and it was great.
Prior to all this, she asked if she could stay later than she had planned so she could get a full massage because of her soreness. After she got up to do her dishes I decided I was going to make my move and began setting up a massage table I had and pulled my friend aside and asked them to leave. They gave me the nod and left. I asked if the girl if she still wanted to stay and she said yes and began to get situated on my table. I went to go grab something and when I got back she said: "nevermind I have to get going." I asked her if she was going to return the favor for a great massage and she asked: "what more do you want I already got you dinner." I blanked on what to say so I shrugged and said true and she left. She texted me later saying she was going to go to bed early now because she was tired and that was it.
Should I have just been up front? She didn't want me to know she was orgasming because she was trying to hide it. I didn't think it was working until she started quietly moaning and my friend confirmed it later. Because she was trying to hide it I thought being too direct may have been off putting because she would then have figured out that I knowingly tried to make her orgasm. So how do you get a girl to return the favor after you get her off?
I'm a med student so I have learned a lot of fascinating things about the body, especially the female body. While doing some rotations with a chiropractor, he showed us some pressure points on the back, that when stimulated the right way cause a large percentage of women to orgasm. This is due to blood to rushing to various parts of the body including the vagina and can result in one of the best orgasms. I didn't believe but I googled it after and saw a bunch of stories from several massage therapists or women who went to get a massage having intense orgasms from the massage when these pressure points were hit, even when they were straight females getting them from another female.
I decided to try it out with a girl that I have hung out with a few times but have been unable to seal the deal with because she is skittish, this most likely due to just getting out of a long term relationship a few weeks ago. She likes me a lot but wants to go slow. We were watching TV at my house with a mutual friend and she complained that her back was sore and asked for a massage. About 10 mins into the massage, after I loosened all the muscles, I started gently stimulating the pressure points and she lost control for a second and hunched over. I asked if that was because it hurt and she responded that she wasn't sure and that it just felt weird. I continued and moved back and forth from the muscle to the pressure points, each time increasing the intensity. Each time I hit the pressure points she would fall into her own lap. She began moaning slightly and I pretended to ignore it and continued. She eventually got up to get a towel because she was "slipping off her wood chair." I hit it one more time and she moaned for a second, grabbed my legs that were wrapped around her to hold her still, and then got up fast and went to clean up her dishes. She didn't say a word to me but told our friend that it was probably her first real orgasm and it was great.
Prior to all this, she asked if she could stay later than she had planned so she could get a full massage because of her soreness. After she got up to do her dishes I decided I was going to make my move and began setting up a massage table I had and pulled my friend aside and asked them to leave. They gave me the nod and left. I asked if the girl if she still wanted to stay and she said yes and began to get situated on my table. I went to go grab something and when I got back she said: "nevermind I have to get going." I asked her if she was going to return the favor for a great massage and she asked: "what more do you want I already got you dinner." I blanked on what to say so I shrugged and said true and she left. She texted me later saying she was going to go to bed early now because she was tired and that was it.
Should I have just been up front? She didn't want me to know she was orgasming because she was trying to hide it. I didn't think it was working until she started quietly moaning and my friend confirmed it later. Because she was trying to hide it I thought being too direct may have been off putting because she would then have figured out that I knowingly tried to make her orgasm. So how do you get a girl to return the favor after you get her off?