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07-25-2017, 06:45 AM
More than 50% of my bangs have been very half staff.
I've probably lost another 10 due to being no staff. It's really not uncommon, and girls for some odd reason don't actually care that much, and most just blame themselves.
Don't lose your confidence over this it all, it's pretty normal for some people. Also, condoms are the absolute worst, and that's 99% of the problem
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07-25-2017, 09:22 AM
Quote: (07-25-2017 06:45 AM)Sonoma Wrote:
More than 50% of my bangs have been very half staff.
I've probably lost another 10 due to being no staff. It's really not uncommon, and girls for some odd reason don't actually care that much, and most just blame themselves.
Don't lose your confidence over this it all, it's pretty normal for some people. Also, condoms are the absolute worst, and that's 99% of the problem
As they should. It is the woman's job to get us aroused. For some reason it's become a running joke in our current culture that "haha, he couldn't get his dick working...what a loser." But the truth is, the blame lies solely on the woman.
Performance Anxiety is definitely a thing. However a woman should be able to recognize this and make us feel relaxed.
After all, we take the blame when a girl can't get her pussy wet. It's never HER fault. It's always the man. These fucking sluts can take a little responsibility as well. They aren't fragile flowers.
"Once you've gotten the lay you have won."- Mufasa
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07-25-2017, 03:38 PM
Quote: (07-25-2017 09:22 AM)Vill@in Wrote:
As they should. It is the woman's job to get us aroused. For some reason it's become a running joke in our current culture that "haha, he couldn't get his dick working...what a loser." But the truth is, the blame lies solely on the woman.
Performance Anxiety is definitely a thing. However a woman should be able to recognize this and make us feel relaxed.
After all, we take the blame when a girl can't get her pussy wet. It's never HER fault. It's always the man. These fucking sluts can take a little responsibility as well. They aren't fragile flowers.
x2 and I kindly remind them of this if my staff isn't working fully. This is a good way to $hit test them too to see if they're willing to massage you down there and give you a bj to try to help you out.
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07-26-2017, 08:24 PM
It's called performance anxiety, O.P. It's normal, especially if you've never slept with a girl before or you're sleeping with a new one for the first time. You can pop a pill if you want, but I'd bet good money it's not a physical problem you're having. It's a mental thing. The thing is, man, you can't will yourself to have a boner. You have to RELAX and let it happen. In that way, it's kind of like getting sleep. The harder you try to fall sleep, usually the more you'll toss and turn. You can't force yourself, you have to surrender to it and allow it to happen...same goes for "rising to the occasion."
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07-27-2017, 07:25 AM
If I was back in the game I'd keep a pill handy. If Mr Winky wasn't playing ball I'd pop a half of one of those suckers in a heartbeat and just work the foreplay until king boner made his appearance.
The last thing you want when your hard work is about to pay off bigly is to be spending the night worried that your dick isn't going to turn up to the party.
Besides, bar the chick with solid steel on the first outing and you'll not only be more likely to get her to plate status but you'll also avoid future performance anxiety with that same chick. God forbid you go soft a second time at least she's just going to think "he railed me out last time so he must genuinely not be feeling well or something."
p.s. Grats on the notch.
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07-27-2017, 04:49 PM
How old are you the author?
I guess what happened to you is quiet normal. I already lived a similar situation, especially when you are virgin or stayed a long time without having sex with a girl. There was that time, I wasn't hard and I was trying to make the foreplay longer, she told me she doesn't like foreplay and that she has her dildo for that at home, and then she continued:'' why don't remove your boxer and start your job, are you a premature ejaculator.'' Those words hit me hard but my banana succeeded to erect and I fucked her in many positions. The sex lasted 18 minutes, I was somehow proud because I didn't have sex for more than 7 months, I wasn't watching porn and I was taking propecia against thinning hair which is a disadvantage because it drops your libido. I asked her in the morning whether she enjoyed our night, she said the sex wasn't so good. I expected that because after we finished having sex, she told that she broke up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago and in those 2 weeks she already slept with two guys, she already slept with 18 guys and she's only 19. she was so sure about the things she likes and she thought she deserves everything she wants despite being fat ....
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07-27-2017, 04:49 PM
sorry for my English
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07-27-2017, 05:39 PM
How long you fuck a girl and how good you fuck her are two very different things.
The girl from the picture looks nice. You probably were just nervous.
If I read the internet and believed everything I'd ever read I would think every guy had a raging boners, fucked girls 8 times a night, made her orgasm 10 times, has a 7.5 inch penis.
Reality. Most guys are in one of two camps when they fuck a girl the first time.
1) Has difficulty keeping a full mast or even getting hard.
2) Gone in 60 seconds.
Forget thinking about how your performing and just keep a rhythm. (i.e. dont change positions every 30 seconds.)
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07-28-2017, 05:25 AM
for me, when the girl gets several orgasms during intercourse, that means that you fucked her good but maybe I'm wrong
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07-29-2017, 02:07 AM
Look ideally you fuck a girl good and she cums at least twice. If she's easy and you're feeling her she comes 4+ times.
It doesn't matter, you can come in 4 minutes and if your game is up to par. Girls love sex, they get off on it. But it's not just the sex that they like.
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07-29-2017, 03:51 PM
Thank you to everyone who spent their time to reply. Thank you for the kind words. I have since obtained boner pills. I'll post again when I have something worthwhile.
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01-30-2019, 04:48 AM
Wow, she looked gorgeous! I wouldn't have called her fat from her figure.
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02-01-2019, 02:09 PM
She looks thick.. Huge difference between thick and fat.. I think your own focusing on that, may have killed your buddies drive... That or him getting fap'd earlier in the day. Which is something you need to make sure you do not do.. Do not fap before going out.. cause alcohol will relax your muscles and body.. add internal exhaustion from fap'ing.. and you got a weak drive to start things off with... Good luck on your next venture.