I've realized that identity (along with frame) is a very important part of game. Now that I think about times past when a girl gave me IOIs and I didn't approach it was mostly because I didn't really know how to present myself ("who I am"). And the problem still exists and it seems to stem mostly from some insecurities. For example:
Having a nerdy job,
Having a small social circle,
Having a hirsute body,
[some stuff that may be construed as race trolling]
I know that game is all about what you can pull off as opposed to what you really are but still don't know what I can/should present myself as. For example I can't present myself as a musician because I can't play any instruments but can to some extent present myself as a photographer because that's my hobby. It is said that a strong frame results from strong reality and my reality is shrouded with doubt and uncertainty.
Having a nerdy job,
Having a small social circle,
Having a hirsute body,
[some stuff that may be construed as race trolling]
I know that game is all about what you can pull off as opposed to what you really are but still don't know what I can/should present myself as. For example I can't present myself as a musician because I can't play any instruments but can to some extent present myself as a photographer because that's my hobby. It is said that a strong frame results from strong reality and my reality is shrouded with doubt and uncertainty.
A whore ain't nothing but a trick to a pimp. (Iceberg Slim)
Beauty is in the erection of the beholder. (duedue)
Grab your life by the pussy.
A better question to ask is "What EXACTLY do I want out of life and what EXACTLY am I doing to get EXACTLY that? If you can answer that question truthfully you will be the most Alpha motherfucker you will ever need to be. (PapayaTapper)