[Polniy_Sostav]

Hi ,

after 20 minutes of chat (online gaming) I ve got a 36yo woman giving me her number , saying that "i can add her on whatsapp " . She of course did that after knowing what my job is. I am not used at all to have a woman giving her number without me asking for it. I am a bit paranoid so I feel something is wrong.
As a relative newbie I wonder what is that supposed to mean ? I don't want to reveal my location but I live in a very conservative and very poor European country where online gaming is almost non-existent compared to other countries.
Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

[Uhondo]

I've been handed two numbers off of Tinder in the last week. Didn't have to ask, and don't mean to self-flagellate, but I don't think my game has gotten to that level. Consider also that my profile is basically a shell, since I don't spend much time on dating sites.

It leads me to the following conclusions:

1) Damaged goods; post wall women who've ridden the carousel ad nauseum, and are now looking to for a beta to "settle" with; or
2) Escorts (or whatever one may choose to call them). Believe me there are loads of them online nowadays.
3) You can never totally rule out some nefarious motive, given the circumstances you have mentioned in your post

My opinion in 1and 2 above is further reinforced by the information that I obtained when i took the game off of tinder. One of the girls is a single mother, and told me that her ex still has access to the child.

So, OP, unless you have advanced game and a killer profile, consider the above.

Obviously your situation could be different, so i suggest you do some digging yourself to find out.

It goes without saying that utmost care must be taken whatever you choose to do.

[Steelex]

No reason to fear a woman my friend.

Go check her out.

[Polniy_Sostav]

Thank you.
I am since that simply writing to her from time to time. If it goes on this way I will meet her in a neutral ground in a few days.

[RatInTheWoods]

If you haven't seen her, shes probably low value (fat) because an attractive woman doesn't have to chase men, she has to fight them off with a stick.

[questor70]

Not sure if it's relevant in this case but as I've been mentioning elsewhere, women seem to be getting progressively more casual about giving out their number. I surmised that they might find it easier to gather orbiters via text (SMS) than to keep responding to app alerts, enter the app, work the app's quirky UI, etc... That would explain some of the behavior I got where I had their number, exchanged some texts on and off throughout the week, but could never actually lock them down for a meetup.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(05-14-2017 10:39 AM)Uhondo Wrote:  

I've been handed two numbers off of Tinder in the last week. Didn't have to ask, and don't mean to self-flagellate, but I don't think my game has gotten to that level. Consider also that my profile is basically a shell, since I don't spend much time on dating sites.

It leads me to the following conclusions:

1) Damaged goods; post wall women who've ridden the carousel ad nauseum, and are now looking to for a beta to "settle" with; or
2) Escorts (or whatever one may choose to call them). Believe me there are loads of them online nowadays.
3) You can never totally rule out some nefarious motive, given the circumstances you have mentioned in your post

My opinion in 1and 2 above is further reinforced by the information that I obtained when i took the game off of tinder. One of the girls is a single mother, and told me that her ex still has access to the child.

So, OP, unless you have advanced game and a killer profile, consider the above.

Obviously your situation could be different, so i suggest you do some digging yourself to find out.

It goes without saying that utmost care must be taken whatever you choose to do.

Not sure of the logic at work here

A girl gives you # from tinder and you think 'because my game isn't at that level' there must be something wrong? Sounds strange.

OP, hit the girl up. Or don't,.


Yeah of course she could be a pro, or have some other agenda, that's why you adapt to a situation as it changes, and not be a fucking autist, pick up on hints, ect.

Jesus christ

[Steelex]

If you're scared, just bring your rape whistle.

OP you're a pussy. Unless she's asking you to meet up in a dark alley at 2am in a bad part of town, what's the worst that could happen? That she's fugly? She's a hooker?

Ohhhh noooo not a hooker, what will you do?!

[Uhondo]

Quote:

If you haven't seen her, shes probably low value (fat) because an attractive woman doesn't have to chase men, she has to fight them off with a stick.

This is what I mean.

But I guess it depends on what OP is looking for.

[Corollary]

[Polniy_Sostav]

(05-14-2017 09:54 PM)Steelex Wrote:  

If you're scared, just bring your rape whistle.

OP you're a pussy. Unless she's asking you to meet up in a dark alley at 2am in a bad part of town, what's the worst that could happen? That she's fugly? She's a hooker?

Ohhhh noooo not a hooker, what will you do?!

I am not physically scared of her. I just don't believe in Father Christmas and even if she is relatively ugly , I can sense that something is not honest from her.

That's probably my paranoid side.

[Stroked351w]

I bet you won't meet her.

[brick tamland]

Is she generally what you're looking for online? Do you have a good reason to meet this 36 y.o. IRL?

[Simeon_Strangelight]

Very good-looking guys get it all the time with 5s and 6s offering them sometimes even instant sex.

A 36yo woman - that is about the Game level I would expect. I have had wives slipping me their phone numbers while their husbands were standing a couple yards away.

Call her, hit it - especially if you are not used to it, then do it.

Since you met her only online then the usual careful appraisal should be valid, but criminal activity initiation via online is actually quite risky unless she is all on paid-phone, but even that is ever more difficult nowadays - you would have to use homeless guys for identification of SIM cards to be in the clear.

So blast away.

[Jack_Smith]

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Go make that pussy sing, son. No more typin...

[ChrisGaines]

So did OP reach out to this girl? No harm in sending a message and taking it from there

[Polniy_Sostav]

Back after some months of hibernation.
The girl deleted me in a millisecond after I've mentioned that I am married.

[RexImperator]

This happened to me a few months ago. It was a case of #1 above. Went on the date but as I got a closer look at her I realized I had no desire to seal the deal.

[Heightcel]

Have had quite a lot of this on Tinder, doesn't mean that much, I feel girls here in Mexico give out their number really easily, it has no value, even less than Europe

[Polniy_Sostav]

(12-27-2017 05:34 PM)Heightcel Wrote:  

Have had quite a lot of this on Tinder, doesn't mean that much, I feel girls here in Mexico give out their number really easily, it has no value, even less than Europe

I just feel that only desperate women do this , or the ones who give themselves 250 options as if men were a supermarket..

nothing new in fact...

[eradicator]

Why the fuck are you taking to a 36 year old anyways?

Unless you are 50+, you can set your sights a little younger

[Polniy_Sostav]

(12-28-2017 03:47 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

Why the fuck are you taking to a 36 year old anyways?

Unless you are 50+, you can set your sights a little younger

I am 31. I usually aim for 22-28 , but at times 18-21 and 29-40 is acceptable