[Mikestar]

I don't really know where this post should go but i've made an observation which has occured to me many times. Whenever I am alone doing nothing or not socialising girls do not message me and do not pay interest. Suddenly when I am out with friends, with other girls or keeping busy (despite not showing it on social media) I get bombarded with messages, calls and interest. Can girls sense if you are a bored loner? Anyone have a theory behind this?

[Disco_Volante]

Yea, reading other people is their biggest advantage. Most of it is non-verbal and subconscious. They can't articulate why they're interested in you or anything, they just feel it. It's their hindbrain telling them. I'm starting to think women aren't really conscious but more like automations.
Socially we men are way behind them, we have to learn social cues the way women do naturally.

That's always the flaw when smarter nerds get into game, they're projecting their logic onto women ignoring that women are operating on a more primal level which can't always be quantified.

[debeguiled]

(10-01-2017 05:39 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  

I don't really know where this post should go but i've made an observation which has occured to me many times. Whenever I am alone doing nothing or not socialising girls do not message me and do not pay interest. Suddenly when I am out with friends, with other girls or keeping busy (despite not showing it on social media) I get bombarded with messages, calls and interest. Can girls sense if you are a bored loner? Anyone have a theory behind this?

You are positing that the theory of social proof

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_proof

Quote:

Social proof is one type of conformity. When a person is in a situation where they are unsure of the correct way to behave, they will often look to others for cues concerning the correct behavior. When "we conform because we believe that others' interpretation of an ambiguous situation is more accurate than ours and will help us choose an appropriate course of action",[1] it is informational social influence. This is contrasted with normative social influence wherein a person conforms to be liked or accepted by others.

is not only social but metaphysical.

They don't just know when they observe, they just somehow know.

I do not doubt that many men have reported this anecdotally.

Finding a way to test and prove this in a systematic manner will be almost impossible.

And even if you do, you will be accused by the just-the-facts skeptics and atheists of suffering from confirmation bias,

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

Quote:

Confirmation bias, also called confirmatory bias or myside bias,[Note 1] is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's preexisting beliefs or hypotheses.[1] It is a type of cognitive bias and a systematic error of inductive reasoning. People display this bias when they gather or remember information selectively, or when they interpret it in a biased way. The effect is stronger for emotionally charged issues and for deeply entrenched beliefs.

no matter how tight your theory, rigorous your testing, or iron clad your evidence.

I think you are correct, by the way.

I just wouldn't talk about it to anyone.

[King of Monkeys]

There's no real firm evidence for what I'm about to say, but I still believe it's true. I don't think it's just girls that have these intuitions that guide their actions, but everyone has experienced or does this on some level. Sometimes I'll be walking around, and someone I haven't seen in awhile will pop into my mind without me consciously thinking about it, and then I'll run into that person later that day.

For as much as people know about how our bodies and brains work, I think there are even more things that are still not understood about how the human body operates. In the same way the subconscious can pick up all the combinations of verbal and nonverbal cues to make a split judgement on a person, maybe this extends to the environment in some way.

Maybe our subconscious is picking up on very subtle changes in the environment around us and ends up sending a simplified signal to our brains that says "something bad just happened" without really knowing who or what that feeling is related to and then your phone starts to ring. Or when you get an uncomfortable feeling in your gut that tells you to stay put at a greenlight, and seconds later a semi comes barrelling through the redlight and pulverizes the guy next to you who stepped on the gas.

Again, I have no idea what's really going on, but this is my best guess.

[Mercenary]

If you have have gone more than 10 days without masturbating (nofap) and suddenly you notice all this extra eye contact and smiles amd glances from cute girls everywhere, you will know what that they do have a very, very powerful 6th sense.

[Mikestar]

^Ironic - it's day 5 of my nofap after a long time and these theories spark to my mind.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Two things:

-It's cuffing season. Girls are just dumping their boyfriends and looking for something new around this time. I've been hit up by a lot of old leads almost repetitively within even hours of each other. One from almost 3 and a half years ago too.

-More importantly once your mind is occupied and there is no free time things you were yearning for when you had the time start to pop up. It isn't just women. Business opportunity, girls, old friends, etc. All of them just coming up for me atleast as I've been busy as of late too.

You can blame this on the temptation of Satan to make you idle, a sense of purpose in your day to day that leads to others picking up on it, or atleast in my opinion it's simply how the world is. You're responded too in kind dependent on how you use your time. It's simply fate working.

[Laska]

Girls that I know constantly see romantic interest in others that isn't there, but that's probably narcissism.

[brianmark]

(10-01-2017 05:39 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  

I don't really know where this post should go but i've made an observation which has occured to me many times. Whenever I am alone doing nothing or not socialising girls do not message me and do not pay interest. Suddenly when I am out with friends, with other girls or keeping busy (despite not showing it on social media) I get bombarded with messages, calls and interest. Can girls sense if you are a bored loner? Anyone have a theory behind this?

Girls absolutely do NOT have a six sense. If you act like a bored loser girls can tell and so can guys too

[scrambled]

Why are girls switching relationships now? It's going to get colder, I would have thought they want to lock down someone

[Comte De St. Germain]

(10-01-2017 07:59 PM)scrambled Wrote:  

Why are girls switching relationships now? It's going to get colder, I would have thought they want to lock down someone

That's the point. New guy for the new year so to speak. It speeds up hardcore around thanksgiving and then afterwards they settle in till about March/April. It's all cyclical.

[Scoundrel]

[url=https://twitter.com/EdLatimore/status/808505114390622217][/url]

[brick tamland]

Important topic. It really deserves a thorough discussion. I would say there's no 6th sense, from the view that it is an additional ability they have compared to men - rather the 6th sense is a function of how their brains are so differently wired.
I'll just add the little that I can, as in general terms the issue of women's perspective of the world has been something I've been thinking about recently.
Part of the blue pill is believing that males and females are almost the same. That is the lie we grow up with. The truth hits you one day and you realise that women see the world in an incalculably and immensely different way than men do. I can't do the latter statement justice without doing a bit of work to substantiate this. Perhaps I can return to this thread with more. Nowadays women's self-interest is incompatible with any man's best interests.
I wish I knew this much earlier in life.

[debeguiled]

Der wimminz have teh sexth senze.

[Mage]

There is only one woman you have to game - Luck. And she likes bold and assertive people who believe in themselves slightly above reason.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Yes, girls definitely have a sixth sense. However, but they pay for it dearly - with a lack of common sense.

[Suits]

If women have a sixth sense, then why are they so dumb and easily manipulated with game?

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

↑ see above - they are very skilled at attention to detail memorization and noticing patterns... but they choose to ignore them, mostly because ignoring them feels better.