[newbeginning]

I'd like some help please. There is a girl who is coming up to my city for the weekend to see me. Its a 1.5 hr train ride and she texted me saying that she finds it "a little burdensome" to come up to my city three weekends in a row (this will be the third time shes coming). What should I text back? She already agreed to come up to see me but she's texting how she doesnt like the effort it takes to come up here (the other two times she came here for family related events). I'm wondering how i should hold frame. I do want to see her but I dont want to look like I failing a shit test of hers. Not sure how i should text back. I was wondering whether I should just tell her to stay home and rest (she can come of her free will - i dont need to cajole her) or just kid around and say whew im glad it you're only a little burdened.

[UlteriorMotive]

We have a thread for these issues.

Click here (What should I text next thread)

[newbeginning]

Thanks i'll post over there

[Gustavus Adolphus]

Can't let this thread go to waste!

Welcome newbeginning.