My first threesome was a bit of a letdown.
The other two guys were pretty inexperienced, so it ended up being rather awkward.
The other two guys were pretty inexperienced, so it ended up being rather awkward.
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Quote: (04-19-2017 10:11 AM)C-Note Wrote:
When you're laying on your back and one girl is pleasing you below and the other is making out with you, and you're running your hands over each of them, it feels like you're floating in a sea of feminine flesh, which I found to be a sensation unique from being with just one girl.
Anyway, once it happens for the first time I think it's really a load off your mind, because you know you've captured that flag and no longer have to worry about it anymore. So, if it's a priority of yours, then I suggest putting some time and studied, methodical effort into getting it checked off. Like others said here, there are several strategies elucidated in this forum for getting it done. Also, Strauss' Rules of the Game book has an appendix in which he gives one or two good strategies.
Quote: (04-20-2017 02:40 PM)Jean Valjean Wrote:
Quote: (04-19-2017 10:11 AM)C-Note Wrote:
When you're laying on your back and one girl is pleasing you below and the other is making out with you, and you're running your hands over each of them, it feels like you're floating in a sea of feminine flesh, which I found to be a sensation unique from being with just one girl.
Anyway, once it happens for the first time I think it's really a load off your mind, because you know you've captured that flag and no longer have to worry about it anymore. So, if it's a priority of yours, then I suggest putting some time and studied, methodical effort into getting it checked off. Like others said here, there are several strategies elucidated in this forum for getting it done. Also, Strauss' Rules of the Game book has an appendix in which he gives one or two good strategies.
Strauss also talks about it in the original The Game: "Just suggest an innocent three-way massage." He pitches the idea to girls by calling it a synchronized "dual-induction massage". Proposing a massage is always a good way of getting girls to take their shirts off so you can escalate kino.
I agree with your comment about how once you've done it, you feel happier having captured that flag, although Strauss does mention that typically the reason girls want to do a FFM threesome is so they have an excuse to explore their lesbian sides.
My threesome experience was as follows. During college, my live-in girlfriend, whom I'll call Liz, had an Iranian friend, whom I'll call Angel, who had been over at our place many times. Angel was a girl who seemed pretty unashamed about being a slut; she would, for instance, be hanging out with our social circle at college and then leave to go fuck one of our friends in the bathroom. This one guy in our group, whom I'll call Jason, who never got any play, said he felt sad to see her go off and do that because he thought it was degrading. He made Angel irate by asking if she'd been "staying out of bathrooms".
Anyway, one day, Liz and I were in bed and she started asking me a bunch of vague questions about whether I would want to have sex with another girl if given the opportunity. I figured this was a trap, but being the kind of guy who tends to err on the side of honesty, I didn't say, "No," but rather said, "I wouldn't want to do anything that would hurt you." She started asking, "If it wouldn't hurt me, though, would you want to do it?" I still figured that this was probably a trap, so I continued being cagey, without outright saying, "No, I wouldn't want to do it."
This line of conversation continued for about 10 minutes with my continuing to give evasive replies, until finally, the truth came out that she wanted to have a threesome with Angel. I agreed to it, so she set up a time for it to happen, and started building up my anticipation by asking, e.g., before sex, "Are you looking forward to having sex with more than one woman?"
The day arrived, and I went away to go buy something to enhance the experience, and when I came back and walked in the bedroom, Liz and Angel were already on the bed topless and kissing. I had known, of course, this was going to be happening, but I played innocent and turned to go, and they told me I could stay. So I got on the bed and took off my shirt.
By this point in my life, I had only had sex with one girl, and I was pretty eager to discover what it was like to be in a pussy other than my girlfriend's. So I took off Angel's pants and panties, and the rest of my clothes as well, and started kissing her, sucking on her tits, etc. (asking her permission each step of the way, as though I were a student at Antioch College), and ultimately banged her.
As I was taking off Angel's clothes, Liz took off her clothes too. But my focus was mostly on Angel because I didn't actually care about my girlfriend's presence anymore, since I had already banged her many times and could continue banging her in the future. In fact, my girlfriend was kind of heavy and therefore was weighing down that side of the bed and causing the surface to be uneven, so I kinda wished she weren't there. The thought of getting my girlfriend involved in simultaneously pleasuring me didn't really cross my mind all that much, because my thought was, "Hoorary, I get to fuck another chick besides my girlfriend" and I wanted to get totally absorbed in exploring that experience rather than trying the combination of the two. (After all, if you're a scientist conducting experiments, you want to isolate variables in order to draw valid conclusions.)
I forget the exact sequence of events, but I remember watching for a long time while Liz and Angel went down on each other and thinking, "Okay, when do I get to get involved in this?" I guess it didn't occur to me that one or both of them might have an unoccupied orifice or two; or maybe they were just focused on exploring their lesbian sides together. Anyway, I ended up banging Liz in front of Angel, and then Liz left for work.
Then I got naked with Angel again, and my girlfriend came back to retrieve some item she'd forgotten. She walked in on us and told us to not have sex without her present. I suggested that from that point onward, both of them should be my girlfriends, but Angel said, "I don't think Liz would like that," and Liz did in fact push back against the idea. (Oh well, it was worth a try. Whenever I'm in a relationship, I always seek buy-in at some point to add another woman to the relationship.) Angel continued to come over sometimes to see us, and I used to just randomly start making out with her sometimes when Liz wasn't looking.
My girlfriend started complaining to the whole social circle about how I had had unprotected sex with Angel after she'd told me not to; and when Jason heard about the threesome, he complained to Angel, "You've had sex with everyone I know, except me!" which caused her to become irate. (Fortunately, the poor guy finally did get a girlfriend a few months later.)
Anyway, Angel was a disappointment, because she just wasn't as good in bed as my girlfriend. Liz had a combination of having the tightest pussy, giving the best blowjobs, doing whatever I wanted in bed, and worshiping every part of my body, that I've never experienced from any other girl. She refused sex a lot, but when she didn't refuse, she was awesome.
One might argue, "That wasn't a threesome, because you didn't get pleasured by both girls at once," but hey, it was still a way by which I could have sex with another woman besides my girlfriend, without having to hide it from my girlfriend, and without it counting as cheating, so that's something. Both girls ended up saying that they'd decided that they weren't bisexual, because they didn't really get turned on all that much by the stuff they did with each other.
I had another possible threesome opportunity years later, when my first wife and a woman she knew from another state were talking about how much they wanted to get together to have a threesome with me, but the other chick already had a boyfriend and I wasn't really wanting to bang her unless she was going to dump him and be my girlfriend, and let me impregnate her. Plus I didn't feel like driving several hours. Plus I already had the threesome flag.
Next time, maybe what I want to do, is bang one girl while another girl licks my ass. Maybe I'm just not very creative, but I'm having trouble thinking of a lot of permutations of what one might want to do during a threesome. I'm not sure the male body, having only one penis, was really designed with the idea of being pleasured by two women simultaneously in mind.
Actually, you know what I really want? I want to get two girls pregnant, and then when they're at about the six- or eight- month mark, see them standing barefoot together in my house, their bodies facing each other as they smile at me with their bellies (bulging outward to escape their blouses and skirts) pressed together.
Quote: (04-20-2017 02:40 PM)Jean Valjean Wrote:
Actually, you know what I really want? I want to get two girls pregnant, and then when they're at about the six- or eight- month mark, see them standing barefoot together in my house, their bodies facing each other as they smile at me with their bellies (bulging outward to escape their blouses and skirts) pressed together.