Hey Forum,
Being a hobbyist photographer is one of the many hats that I wear. I’m no pro but I know how to work my camera and my work has garnered enough interest from girls to model for me. This Saturday, I have a scheduled shoot in the afternoon with a hot, 19-year old blonde, and new in town. I asked her online if she would like to work with me, seeing my work she gladly said yes. After confirming the time of shoot with her, I ask till when is she willing to work. She said till whenever. Good, because as I reveal my photo shoot routine you will see crucial times where I need to game.
I’d like input/opinions from the players here how to escalate to bang based on the information I give, please.
I re-read the Early and Middle Game sections of “Bang” but most scenarios and techniques apply to the approach and date situations. Although, some things like keeping “the vibe,” “strawberry game,” “ the hair stroke,” and “stare game” might apply or transfer…I believe this is a special case/scenario where the girl is already in my place, near my bed (I live in a studio), agreeing to do a shoot (= date scenario?), and being photographed (= gamed?). The missing piece would be how to end this shoot with a bang. I’ve come close before, but no dice.
My photo shoot routine:
1. Contact girl, arrange time, meet me at my place.
2. Small, light get-to-know-you-how’s-your-trip talk, maybe refreshments, then she changes clothes and makes herself look pretty in the bathroom.
3. Photo shoot. Most of my game is played in this stage.
I do a variation of venue change here (if you can call it that). Most of the time, I start somewhere like inside my room or around the neighborhood then end up on the rooftop. It is also during this time I do some push/pull play or compliment/neg her. This does 2 things: draw out her expression/poses for more interesting photos and create an emotional state in her.
Examples of what I might say during a shoot (all were said in a non-needy, playful / commanding / coaching / sometimes “high-energy” way) depending on what she does:
-Give me another pose, that one was just ok **Click** Muuuch better **Click** There we go, you’re doing better ** Switch your legs up **click** Very nice, hold that pose ** Click, click**
-Show me more “sexy” with your look** click ** you call that “sexy”? C’mon step it up ** Yess**click, click,click** (if she does steps it up) Whoa calm yourself, don’t tease the photographer …need to be professional here (smile)
Overall feedback from previous models about the interaction: they actually appreciate this interaction because it pushes them and it feels like they're working on something worthwhile. One noobie model whined about this but only because she didn't know the game on modeling during a photoshoot.
I also would like to refer you guys to Rivelino’s post on this, that was helpful to me.
Perhaps I should attempt a kiss here?
4. We de-compress. I ask, “need a drink?” Usually it’s cold refreshments, water’s the usual choice. Follow up with, “I also make a killer peach margarita.” They politely decline and still choose water. Maybe I haven’t found the girls into drinking alcoholic in the afternoon yet….
5. We sit and wait around for all 500+ of her pictures to burn in my disc drive. It takes around 40 something minutes to finish, my estimate. It is during this time that I’m most confused of what to do or say to bang them. I’ve done the following, sometimes 2 or 3 at the same time:
-Talk: reflecting on the shoot, modeling stories, future plans, life etc. any topic goes
-Foot massage (to quote Jules from the movie Pulp Fiction, “I’m the foot-fucking master!”). This is probably a beta move for some of you, but I’ll say it anyway: I love giving them to girls because many respond well (read: horny) to it. But up until now, don’t know how to parlay it to a bang.
-Watch and comment on YouTube videos together…weak
-Put up music. Adele on iTunes or Last.fm. Every chick loves Adele, even the ones who don’t know her music. When she’s on every chick loves the way her music and voice sounds. But does it get their juices flowing? Maybe… Perhaps I should put on The Weeknd instead?
Also during this time, the girl would sometimes take out her phone and text/call her friends or family.
One story where I came close (?):
I was shooting a cute, blonde, 20 something year old tattooed chick from Colorado on my rooftop. One of those Suicide Girl wannabes. She was responding well to my photo shoot game with playful responses of her own (laughing, giggling, “Oh yeah?” “I’ll give you sexy” “What do you want to do with these legs?” etc.)
Kept my cool and just smiled.
I don’t know if it was the sunny and breezy weather, my game, she was a freak in the first place, she was comfortable…but eventually she just felt like taking off her dress and going topless and she did!
Again... kept my cool and shot as normal.
When we got back to my place we were both tired but satisfied with the shoot. She plops face down on my bed while I tell her it’s gonna take a while to burn the disc. It’s ok she says, I’ll take a little nap.
Fuck.
Set up the disc burning, took a swig of cold water, washed my face then went towards the bed. I gently grazed her feet rubbing and massaging them.
Mmm, feels good she says.
I continue to do this for the next 30 something minutes. I also went up and down her long legs. She was liking it the whole time.
But I didn’t know how to transition to a bang. We hugged and kiss on the cheek goodbye, maybe we’ll work again with a different concept.
Feedback/opinions/tips would be appreciated, what could I have done different or should do next time (especially this coming weekend)? Thanks guys.
Being a hobbyist photographer is one of the many hats that I wear. I’m no pro but I know how to work my camera and my work has garnered enough interest from girls to model for me. This Saturday, I have a scheduled shoot in the afternoon with a hot, 19-year old blonde, and new in town. I asked her online if she would like to work with me, seeing my work she gladly said yes. After confirming the time of shoot with her, I ask till when is she willing to work. She said till whenever. Good, because as I reveal my photo shoot routine you will see crucial times where I need to game.
I’d like input/opinions from the players here how to escalate to bang based on the information I give, please.
I re-read the Early and Middle Game sections of “Bang” but most scenarios and techniques apply to the approach and date situations. Although, some things like keeping “the vibe,” “strawberry game,” “ the hair stroke,” and “stare game” might apply or transfer…I believe this is a special case/scenario where the girl is already in my place, near my bed (I live in a studio), agreeing to do a shoot (= date scenario?), and being photographed (= gamed?). The missing piece would be how to end this shoot with a bang. I’ve come close before, but no dice.
My photo shoot routine:
1. Contact girl, arrange time, meet me at my place.
2. Small, light get-to-know-you-how’s-your-trip talk, maybe refreshments, then she changes clothes and makes herself look pretty in the bathroom.
3. Photo shoot. Most of my game is played in this stage.
I do a variation of venue change here (if you can call it that). Most of the time, I start somewhere like inside my room or around the neighborhood then end up on the rooftop. It is also during this time I do some push/pull play or compliment/neg her. This does 2 things: draw out her expression/poses for more interesting photos and create an emotional state in her.
Examples of what I might say during a shoot (all were said in a non-needy, playful / commanding / coaching / sometimes “high-energy” way) depending on what she does:
-Give me another pose, that one was just ok **Click** Muuuch better **Click** There we go, you’re doing better ** Switch your legs up **click** Very nice, hold that pose ** Click, click**
-Show me more “sexy” with your look** click ** you call that “sexy”? C’mon step it up ** Yess**click, click,click** (if she does steps it up) Whoa calm yourself, don’t tease the photographer …need to be professional here (smile)
Overall feedback from previous models about the interaction: they actually appreciate this interaction because it pushes them and it feels like they're working on something worthwhile. One noobie model whined about this but only because she didn't know the game on modeling during a photoshoot.
I also would like to refer you guys to Rivelino’s post on this, that was helpful to me.
Perhaps I should attempt a kiss here?
4. We de-compress. I ask, “need a drink?” Usually it’s cold refreshments, water’s the usual choice. Follow up with, “I also make a killer peach margarita.” They politely decline and still choose water. Maybe I haven’t found the girls into drinking alcoholic in the afternoon yet….
5. We sit and wait around for all 500+ of her pictures to burn in my disc drive. It takes around 40 something minutes to finish, my estimate. It is during this time that I’m most confused of what to do or say to bang them. I’ve done the following, sometimes 2 or 3 at the same time:
-Talk: reflecting on the shoot, modeling stories, future plans, life etc. any topic goes
-Foot massage (to quote Jules from the movie Pulp Fiction, “I’m the foot-fucking master!”). This is probably a beta move for some of you, but I’ll say it anyway: I love giving them to girls because many respond well (read: horny) to it. But up until now, don’t know how to parlay it to a bang.
-Watch and comment on YouTube videos together…weak
-Put up music. Adele on iTunes or Last.fm. Every chick loves Adele, even the ones who don’t know her music. When she’s on every chick loves the way her music and voice sounds. But does it get their juices flowing? Maybe… Perhaps I should put on The Weeknd instead?
Also during this time, the girl would sometimes take out her phone and text/call her friends or family.
One story where I came close (?):
I was shooting a cute, blonde, 20 something year old tattooed chick from Colorado on my rooftop. One of those Suicide Girl wannabes. She was responding well to my photo shoot game with playful responses of her own (laughing, giggling, “Oh yeah?” “I’ll give you sexy” “What do you want to do with these legs?” etc.)
Kept my cool and just smiled.
I don’t know if it was the sunny and breezy weather, my game, she was a freak in the first place, she was comfortable…but eventually she just felt like taking off her dress and going topless and she did!
Again... kept my cool and shot as normal.
When we got back to my place we were both tired but satisfied with the shoot. She plops face down on my bed while I tell her it’s gonna take a while to burn the disc. It’s ok she says, I’ll take a little nap.
Fuck.
Set up the disc burning, took a swig of cold water, washed my face then went towards the bed. I gently grazed her feet rubbing and massaging them.
Mmm, feels good she says.
I continue to do this for the next 30 something minutes. I also went up and down her long legs. She was liking it the whole time.
But I didn’t know how to transition to a bang. We hugged and kiss on the cheek goodbye, maybe we’ll work again with a different concept.
Feedback/opinions/tips would be appreciated, what could I have done different or should do next time (especially this coming weekend)? Thanks guys.
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