Something interesting I've been thinking about cold approaching lately about how far to push:
I've recently been cold approaching a lot on trains and been getting girls good initial reactions (think smiling/happy faces) responses then eventually asking me personal questions in the interactions BUT bailing shortly after:
- As an example today a girl asked me what I studied and how old I was while jiggling her leg towards me and smiling etc. When we both got off the train (we were going the same way) she immediately sped off increasing her walking speed to the extent that I'd literally have to chase after her while saying over her shoulder that it was nice talking and she'd she me around.
My question is, in the event of 'disinterest'/lack of 'interest' (by her walking off quickly/putting earphones back in the ear etc.) should I have called after her to hang out since she asked personal questions (ie better than nothing) rather than just letting her go? I'm just confused as to why she'd ask personal questions if you're not interested...
Similarly I've had situations where she gave me great IOIs and asking me personal questions but when I message her to hang out she doesn't reply. Thanks!
I've recently been cold approaching a lot on trains and been getting girls good initial reactions (think smiling/happy faces) responses then eventually asking me personal questions in the interactions BUT bailing shortly after:
- As an example today a girl asked me what I studied and how old I was while jiggling her leg towards me and smiling etc. When we both got off the train (we were going the same way) she immediately sped off increasing her walking speed to the extent that I'd literally have to chase after her while saying over her shoulder that it was nice talking and she'd she me around.
My question is, in the event of 'disinterest'/lack of 'interest' (by her walking off quickly/putting earphones back in the ear etc.) should I have called after her to hang out since she asked personal questions (ie better than nothing) rather than just letting her go? I'm just confused as to why she'd ask personal questions if you're not interested...
Similarly I've had situations where she gave me great IOIs and asking me personal questions but when I message her to hang out she doesn't reply. Thanks!
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