Quote: (03-04-2017 10:34 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
Quote: (03-04-2017 10:19 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:
Quote: (03-02-2017 03:53 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
^He is 22 WTF
My wife's parents got married at that exact age in the early 80s.
I have friends from my fly over town that got married at the same time.
It isn't as far fetch'd as one might thing. Not to mention 4 years of a solid LTR is more than enough time to make the jump to a long term relationship especially if his girl was a virgin.
This whole "you're young, go out and bang broads" is complete hogwash. If you found a good girl at a young age and everything checks out why not marry her?
Going out and indiscriminately banging sluts isn't healthy as most of us have attested here.
Important question. Were these friends hesitant when they married? Did the man in these relationships still long to sow his wild oats?
Nope, they just did it and it was sort of a surprise when I heard the news. This was the guy's second relationship. It was the girl's first.
Quote: (03-05-2017 12:55 AM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (03-04-2017 10:19 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:
My wife's parents got married at that exact age in the early 80s.
This isn't the 80's - that's 30+ years ago.
Are you willing to say things are the same when it comes to relationships and marriage ?
Honestly, outside of the big cities: yes it is. Go to a city that has under 100,000 people. The ones that don't run off to the big city are the ones that got married young.
Go live in fly over country for a while. It's a whole different world out there.
Quote: (03-05-2017 12:55 AM)kaotic Wrote:
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This whole "you're young, go out and bang broads" is complete hogwash. If you found a good girl at a young age and everything checks out why not marry her?
Going out and indiscriminately banging sluts isn't healthy as most of us have attested here.
I don't believe going out and exploring women to find out what you truly like is hogwash.
I do believe that some men aren't built for the player lifestyle, they just want to be happy with 1 woman and build a family around that, which is absolutely respectable.
BUT this day and age they need to be a man armed to the teeth when it comes to handling women, relationships, and masculinity.
This isn't your Gramps 60+ year marriage in the good ol' days.
There are ways to arm men with the knowledge of what bad women look like without encouraging one to go out and take a sampling. The only reason we had to go out and do the sampling was because of the destruction of such knowledge by the left. The constant "red pilling" going on out there is quickly forcing this knowledge back into the public's psyche.
If anything, the advice of, "Go out and see what you like" is helping contribute to the decline of good women in the world.
I'll repeat it again: if you're young (under 22) and you've found a women that respects you, cooks for you, wants to run a home, wants children, and is a virgin you've hit the lottery. You will rarely be able to find a girl like that again.
Most men aren't going to have the skills to bang 18 year old virgins as an older man. The men who claim that they can are the exception, not the rule.
Women are water and their experiences are the glass. The earlier you get them, the sooner you can mold them into what you want. The knowledge we posses here can restore the old dating customs of the past.
If we want to avoid this dystopian future for our children, it's time we start encouraging people to stay for good in healthy and functional relationships as young as possible.