Harami good job on putting yourself out there man. I read your thread and I would like to make a few comments that may help you;
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Thanks!
In the hair approach, I say it very seriously without any intention to follow up. They keep on checking for a long time, unless she has a friend to help out. It's just fun to watch them struggle.
I have a response ready for when they ask, what is it? " It's dandruff, use shampoo." They'll know I'm kidding. Then it can be turned into a conversation.
You need to stop doing this, you are shooting yourself in the foot from the start of the interaction. Remember that you are a stranger to the girl, pointing at her hair and saying that she has dandruff is bad. Heck even a friend could take this sort of comment really bad. Why would she continue talking to you after that? Also, I don't see how this can be turned into a conversation but even if you find a way to do it. Chances are that the girl will just ignore you. The previous approaches you described were much better imo.
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Me: where do you go to college?
Her: I go to sector 11
Blah blah i ask about colleges there
Me: what's your course?
Her: time pass, short-end blah
(I'm forgetting some bits here)
Her: you look like you're from here.
Me: yeah but I go to XU so idk, what's your name?
Her: (she knows what's up) what's yours?
Me: (I tell her a long ass name)
Her: (laughs) mines short M
Me: what's it short for?
Me: (I tell her about typical regional names)
What song were you listening to?
Her: it's (regional) you won't understand
Me: no I listen to P songs. Blah blah
I ask her to teach me the regional language , pointing out the words she spoke. She giggles.
Me: though phone's used to save numbers as well.
She giggles. Doesn't give in.
I look at the policeman while he passes by.
Me: what's your age?
Her: I'm 12
Me: sure I'm 9 then. Or 13
She giggles.
Me: do you have a boyfriend?
This approach was pretty good your indirect opener was relevant to the situation and helped you segue to the conversation, 1000x better than the hair approach. During the interaction, YOU NEED TO DO LIKE THE GIRL DID I don't know if you noticed but instead of asking you "where are you from?" she said "You look like you are from here".
You can do the same for all the questions you asked, for example I bet that you go to college X. Then you make a funny story about what led you to that conclusion. Was it the hair? Her smile? Her vibe? What she is wearing? You pick whatever you want and you make it funny. Then, to the next question instead of "what does M stand for?" It's your chance to make it funny, give her a stupid knickname Minion, you are a little Minion. Girl will laugh at these stupid jokes. Whatever crosses your mind. To the next one, instead of what music do you listen to "I bet you are a Lady gaga, miley cyrus or whatever you want fan... Provide stupid funny reason and sexualize it at this point. It needs to be light and subtle, this is where game becomes an art. Then you continue until you are near the stop where she is getting off (which you know since you asked her, good move on your part). One stop before you tell her that it was nice talking to her and that you could chat some more. Don't wait for a response pull the phone out of your pocket and give it to her. She will know what to do with it from there. Lastly, don't ask about boyfriends.
