[Jose Pedro]

Hello everyone

It's a long post, so here you have a summary:
TL;DR: Man meets girl, days later she shit tests him , man asks for help dealing with shit test.


Last Thursday, I met a girl doing daygame, asking her for a gym. Interaction was a little bit short, but went well, she felt comfortable with me and even asked my name twice during it, even though I had to ask for her number.

The problem starts when I tried for first time to set up a date with her,at the beginning of this week, through Whatsapp, because when I asked her when is she free she said first "It's complicated". I know that my second try should have been next week, not this one.
Anyway.
Texts since 2/15/2017, maybe you can tell me where could I have done better (just to clarify, I used voice notes; she uses text):

2/15/2017
20:10 Jose Pedro: You look tired, hope your leg day went well
20:42 Her: Whoa, lol you saw me?
20:48 Her: Probably meant that message for someone else
21:16 Jose Pedro: Do you think that message was for somebody else?
21:59 Her: Yes, lol
21:59 Her: Anyway, how is your day going?
22:30 Jose Pedro: Good good, about to make dinner, how about ebony squatter? (she is black, just to clarify things)
23:02 Her: Lol, haha
23:02 Her: What's for dinner?
23:02 Her: I'm studying at the moment
23:02 Her: Almost ready for bed

2/16/2017
13:07 Jose Pedro: That's why you say "almost"
13:16 Her: Lol
13:17 Her: How's your day going?
13:17 Her: And how was your dinner?
13:33 Jose Pedro: Went well, thank you, dinner was tasty
At that moment I decided to set up another day to meet her (Now I realize I should have waited more time to try again)
13:33 Jose Pedro: You seem fun to talk, when are you free?
13:34 Her: Free? It's hard to say
13:35 Jose Pedro: It's not hard, you say one day, night, or whatever, choose a sexy dress and that's all, and we meet
13:37 Her: Haha
13:37 Her: Sexy dress? Haha
13:37 Her: You're crazy,lol (I read when she said "you're crazy" and I'm not a nutjob, it should be an IOI)
13:38 Jose Pedro: And you like it, sure

Now a misterious silence on her part happens...

13:45 Her:Haha
13:45 Her: I like your confidence
Now the shit test:
13:45 Her: But I think you have the wrong idea (I searched it on google to find how to do something with that test).

I finished my meal, read a little about shit tests in some manosphere blogs, and decided to ignore it, saying something that had nothing to do with what she said.

14:07 Jose Pedro: I can just think of the chicken, it was perfect! (shit test passed? not passed? fucked up?)
14:19 Her: Hahaha

Now I finished writing this post, and I would like to have some help regarding to what to do with this girl and that shit test. My gut keeps telling me to next her.

Since the first "It's complicated" she said I thought nexting her, but I think that in order to learn game I should know how to deal with shit tests, so decided to give it a try.

Best regards,
Jose Pedro

[brokinetic]

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

2/15/2017
20:10 Jose Pedro: You look tired, hope your leg day went well
20:42 Her: Whoa, lol you saw me?
20:48 Her: Probably meant that message for someone else

1) She is coming up with two text msg and longer than you. She also replied in about 30 minutes. Not an excellent sign( 30 mins reply time) for a highly interested girl. But still workable.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

21:16 Jose Pedro: Do you think that message was for somebody else?

2) First mistake: You should wait longer before replying. Normally twice longer than her.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

21:59 Her: Yes, lol
21:59 Her: Anyway, how is your day going?
22:30 Jose Pedro: Good good, about to make dinner, how about ebony squatter? (she is black, just to clarify things)
23:02 Her: Lol, haha
23:02 Her: What's for dinner?
23:02 Her: I'm studying at the moment
23:02 Her: Almost ready for bed

3) You din't reply back. Good sign. She should be waiting for your message.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

2/16/2017
13:07 Jose Pedro: That's why you say "almost"

4) You should have waited a few days(but you already stated that you were just testing and learning). Only text her back the next day if she reinitiates first.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

13:33 Jose Pedro: You seem fun to talk, when are you free?

5) Don't ask if she is free. Nobody is anyway. Just tell the time and date.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

13:35 Jose Pedro: It's not hard, you say one day, night, or whatever, choose a sexy dress and that's all, and we meet

6) Good job on this text. This is how it should be.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

13:37 Her: You're crazy,lol (I read when she said "you're crazy" and I'm not a nutjob, it should be an IOI)

7) I won't personally say its a sign of IOI, but she is having fun, so you are doing well.

(02-17-2017 07:26 AM)Jose Pedro Wrote:  

14:07 Jose Pedro: I can just think of the chicken, it was perfect! (shit test passed? not passed? fucked up?)
14:19 Her: Hahaha

8) You did OK in the shit test by avoiding the context. Next time amplify her shit test. Tell her you aren't looking for anything serious and just wanna have fun. Put your intention out there with a pinch of subtleness.


You should surely text her in a few more days and try again. Put your intention out there at a point you think its doable. If she is interested in you, she will come out. If not, move on to another girl.

Check these two threads. They could be usefull. You can post this kind of questions here.

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thread-6078....rable+text