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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 03:51 PM
There is a disorder, called Complete Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome, that produces humans who are genetically and chromosomally male, but whose bodies cannot process androgens (male hormones). Thus, they are born as female-looking as they come, yet they have no uterus or ovaries (rather, their testicles remain inside, undescended).
They usually are not discovered to be [essentially] male until they hit puberty, when they grow boobs but no secondary hair (no pubes and no armpit hair, both of which are normally caused by testosterone, in both males and females--but remember, testosterone has no effect on these people) and they don't commence menstruation, for obvious reasons.
Sufferers of CAIS typically identify as female, but often feel "different". They often have masculine-skewed proportions and facial features, but they still look entirely female, and can even be quite pretty.
I follow on Facebook one particularly pretty CAIS sufferer who posted a YouTube video about what it's like to live with the condition. "She" married a dude recently, and immediately took down her YT vid (imagine how hard it was on the poor cuck to have his wife's condition made public).
I find this "girl" fascinating: she's pretty and sweet, and she looked great at her wedding in a shoulderless gown. She works as a makeup artist (very feminine) but specializes in horror movie wound/decay makeup (very masculine).
The reason for all this background info is to give you an idea of what actually happens, every day, to many people in this world, and to ask further: what should we, and they, think about it?
If you've read some of my other posts, you've seen that I have little sympathy for homosexuals and trannies. Yet CAIS people really are males trapped in female bodies.
What do we make of them? What should they make of themselves? Should they embrace their female bodies and enjoy sex with men, or should they embrace their male brains and go lesbian?
This is a legitimate question I've had for years. I'm hoping RVF can provide some insight not found in more feelings-based venues.
FWIW: I have no stake in the outcome, and I know nobody in real life who suffers from this disorder. I've merely a thinker, and curious about mankind.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 03:54 PM
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 04:03 PM
Tell me what percentage of the population this is, and I will tell what percentage of my time I will spend thinking about it.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 04:05 PM
I'm a a traditional physician. These people are women. But they are biologically XY so they are chromosomal males. That only matters for the Olympics in my opinion. They have short vaginas. I would not say they are males trapped in female bodies, at all. They have no androgen effect and they developed as default females. How could they be males or "trapped" in any sense of the word? To be male you have to have endogenous androgen production to levels that change you from birth to your eventual male phenotype. That requires a receptor to make sense of the androgen. BOTH.
Partial CAIS is an entirely different scenario.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 04:17 PM
Well in relation to your question,I have no direct answer but I did learn about conditions such as this from one of my early tutors in life,who incidentally had a vagina.
She used to be my math support teacher when I was in primary school but we sort of kept contact, her actual carreer was biology and she specialized in the study of sexual anatomy. One fine day at age 14 I met her in a cafetin by chance and I asked her what was she doing,she said she was preparing an exam and I had the unfortunate gale to ask about what.
She said "sexual malformations",when she saw my interested expression she showed me her books which were about all kind of hormonal imbalances and aberrant sexual developments in human beings, from males that had such a low count of masculine hormones that even in a nude pic it was hard to make out the testicles,to hypertrofiated phaluses and tits and all kinds of stomach turning stuff.
I can safely say I lost a great deal of sensibility that day, to the point where I can now eat a sandwich while a graphic documentary about excrement plays in the background
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 04:22 PM
Kid Twist: that was an illuminating answer. I take it then, that you would counsel such a patient to consider herself female, and merely sterile?
Also:
(1) What are your thoughts on surgery to remove the gonads?
(2) What's your take on PAIS? As I recall, there are about 6 levels of androgen insensitivity. That's a can of worms.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 04:28 PM
Mage: for argument's sake, pretend you're the one born neither fully male nor female. Would you be able to accept a "no love, and no fun, for you!" verdict?
Hell, even Nick Vucovic (not certain I got the name right-he's the Aussie with no arms or legs) didn't embrace (no pun intended) that defeatist attitude, and now he gets it on the regular.
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01-25-2017, 04:57 PM
^ I respect your take on the issue.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-25-2017, 11:38 PM
Why are we discussing sexual identity issues in the RooshVForum? This is not what I signed up for.
It's a condition. Bummer. 'We' don't have to build up an entire gender identity theory just because of a tiny percentage of people have a condition. This feels like a troll thread.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-26-2017, 02:05 AM
Why discuss? Because the subject blows my mind, and I can't wrap my head around it. That's why it was posted in the "Deep" forum. Should people with CAIS be attracted to chicks or to dicks? It's a valid question that I thought I could ask in this purportedly cerebral venue.
The irony, that you would accuse me of trolling, and not the other way around....
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-26-2017, 10:04 AM
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-27-2017, 01:37 PM
1st amendment and shame have nothing to do with anything here. My words stand on their own.
I agree with a lot of what you said in your 5:42 post but that has nothing to do with this CAIS issue. Your take on it is counter productive in dealing with it in real life, and perhaps everybody's, to a certain extent, but ours are at least attempts.
Please don't go on calling me names now. I'm neither a progressive, nor a troll, as anyone can see in my hundreds of posts.
Stating that the issue is not complex is an ideologue's stance. I don't find it helpful to discussion, since it has nothing to do with principle or virtue.
If it had to do with those cases, I am all for it, and other strong opinions. Don't make people your enemies that are not.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-28-2017, 09:23 AM
If you have a dick, you're a man. If you have a vagina, you're a chick.
A man afraid of taking on the challenges of manhood thinks he's ''trapped''. A woman scared of the real essence of womanhood thinks in deranged tangential terms.
They're both forms of self imposed delusions.
You're either male or female.
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-30-2017, 12:28 PM
^ Yet I was called names for the same claims. Yet the CAIS woman can't.
I'm all for the importance of biology. Mage's arguments above don't consider that biology (the default state we have with CAIS for example) created a woman due to inexpressible chromosomes or DNA segments. Yet he still wants to make it either/or
As I pointed out and El Padrone did as well, it's just silly, it's too 1 dimensional.
As a further point or support, how is a sterile XX woman any different than a CAIS woman?
She's not.
Does any of this matter in the larger scheme of life? No.
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01-30-2017, 06:55 PM
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What do you tell someone who is literally a man in a woman's body? (CAIS)
01-30-2017, 08:19 PM
"What do you tell them" ?
The time of day, if that's what they asked for. I'm not a doctor and they probably don't need my unsolicited $0.02 on their condition.
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