[btownbuck89]

When a girl who has had a very promiscuous past meets a guy she thinks could be long term boyfriend/husband material, what are some ways in which she will try to hide who she really is?

I guess the question I'd like answered, in addition to hearing all the different responses, is will a woman actually act inexperienced in the bedroom? Is that even possible? I'm not talking about a woman who doesn't want to fuck you as opposed to one that does; I'm curious as to whether or not whores will actually deny themselves pleasure in the bedroom in order to convince a man that she isn't who she really is?

[Zanardi]

(01-15-2017 11:11 PM)btownbuck89 Wrote:  

When a girl who has had a very promiscuous past meets a guy she thinks could be long term boyfriend/husband material, what are some ways in which she will try to hide who she really is?

Substract a lot from her notch count is a very easy thing to do.

[btownbuck89]

(01-15-2017 11:45 PM)Zanardi Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 11:11 PM)btownbuck89 Wrote:  

When a girl who has had a very promiscuous past meets a guy she thinks could be long term boyfriend/husband material, what are some ways in which she will try to hide who she really is?

Substract a lot from her notch count is a very easy thing to do.

Yeah I get that but I am particularly curious about during sex if a slut who is trying to reform herself will actually act like a bit of a dead fish to try and convince the guy she is with that she isn't a whore.

Again, this is different from her fucking a guy she really doesn't like. I'm talking when interest level is PEAK high and you're dealing with a slut, what is she like in bed? Will she try to blow your socks off or will that expose her?

[Windom Earle]

Sluts don't always equate to freaks in the sheets. That's a misnomer.

She may be the biggest slut and the worst dead-root you've encountered (no coyness employed).

The true sign is they won't be able to feign legitimate LMR because it's a foreign concept to them.

[Travesty]

One sign that is hard to fake:

A girl that has been promiscuous usually has tried many different things with many guys including positions, oral, anal, cum in mouth, cum on face whatever....

She will usually have what she really does and does not like down pat, and many times not be as flexible upfront I believe as a girl that has less partners and is willing to try something she may have done once or twice before with a different partner (or hopefully never) and she hasn't decided how much she really likes it or not.

Sluts have enough experience they know for sure with certainty what they do and do not like because they probably have tried the same things will multiple guys and decided what works and what doesn't.

A been there done that attitude.

Also if at ANY point she tries to take control in the bedroom, or tells you outright what makes her cum that is a tell she decided she has tried enough ways with enough guys again.

A girl with little experience in partners will never try to take control in the bedroom or direct.

[btownbuck89]

(01-16-2017 01:08 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

One sign that is hard to fake:

A girl that has been promiscuous usually has tried many different things with many guys including positions, oral, anal, cum in mouth, cum on face whatever....

She will usually have what she really does and does not like down pat, and many times not be as flexible upfront I believe as a girl that has less partners and is willing to try something she may have done once or twice before with a different partner (or hopefully never) and she hasn't decided how much she really like its or not.

Sluts have enough experience they know for sure with certainty what they do and do not like because they probably have tried the same things will multiple guys and decided what works and what doesn't.

A been there done that attitude.

That's more along the lines of what I was thinking. This girl who I dated for a year and a half whom I'm pretty sure, in retrospect the more I think about her, was hiding a promiscuous past. When we first started dating I mentioned that I liked cumming on a girl's face and she said "no" with a tone of "NO! I definitely do NOT like that", i.e. I've done it before and I don't like it.

Eventually I got her to do it with me to where it became routine, but the way she said "NO" when I first brought it up definitely makes me think she did it a-lot. Hard to explain but you know when you hear it.

[Travesty]

^ I had a girlfriend way back where I first put my hand on the back of her head during a BJ to push her down a little more. She told me a stern NO, like I was a bad dog. Immediately knew she had some other guy making her gag before. That relationship did not end well!

If a girl ever brings condoms for the first bang - even under the pretense of being "safe" is a promiscuous girl.

[btownbuck89]

(01-16-2017 01:17 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

^ I had a girlfriend way back where I first put my hand on the back of her head during a BJ to push her down a little more. She told me a stern NO, like I was a bad dog. Immediately knew she had some other guy making her gag before. That relationship did not end well!

Yeah man I know that feeling.

Is it possible though that some girls know about certain sex acts from gossip with their girlfriends or even porn and just don't want to do them? I know I'm hamstering a bit here, and I guess I'm just trying to ignore the gut feeling that this girl I loved was a massive whore.

Another potential sign I wanted to get your input on: The lack of any type of detail whatsoever about previous relationships she's had. Even though she seems experienced in the way she kinos you and her attire and shoe collection is one of a woman who goes out on the town a-lot, etc.

[btownbuck89]

(01-16-2017 01:17 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

If a girl ever brings condoms for the first bang - even under the pretense of being "safe" is a promiscuous girl.

^ can you elaborate on that a bit? I feel like a promiscuous girl wouldn't bring a condom and be OK if you went raw in her the first time. Wouldn't a good girl who knew sex was going to be a possibility on the 3rd or 4th date show up with a condom just to be safe?

[choichoi]

(01-16-2017 01:17 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

If a girl ever brings condoms for the first bang - even under the pretense of being "safe" is a promiscuous girl.

I think you're wrong here. I've had girls beg me to take the condom off: "I'm on birth control". Bitch you out your fuckin mind. This, I am certain, is a tell-tale sign of a promiscuous girl.

At the end of the day, promiscuity is detrimental to the psychological, physical, and spiritual well-being of both men and women.

[Meat Head]

Most sluts dont hide their sluttery. It is obvious to anyone with eyes to see.

[choichoi]

(01-16-2017 07:02 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  

Most sluts dont hide their sluttery. It is obvious to anyone with eyes to see.

Please share some examples. What behavior tendencies or visual cues make her sluttish-ness obvious?

[TooFineAPoint]

Hoop earrings

[Meat Head]

@choichoi. Tattoes. Dressing. Vulgar language etc etc. Maybe it is just me, but the sluts I knew were very open about their sluttery.

[Fightersword]

It's hard for them to hide everything. It sort of affects them: their attitude, their willingness to commit, their bedroom activity etc. changes a lot as their cock count goes up.

There's a certain way girls tend to learn to act if they're big into porn/slutting around that reflects in their attitude and the bedroom. I wouldn't go so far as to say they all act the same but you'll notice patterns when you deal with a lot of sluts. A lot of sluts are pretty open about it honestly (as this is more acceptable in this age sadly), but I've run into some that try and fake being chaste good girls. You'll definitely see some red flags pretty quickly if ones trying to hide things from you.

[Hypno]

(01-17-2017 01:46 AM)choichoi Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 07:02 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  

Most sluts dont hide their sluttery. It is obvious to anyone with eyes to see.

Please share some examples. What behavior tendencies or visual cues make her sluttish-ness obvious?

http://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut

http://www.returnofkings.com/23539/26-mo...hes-a-slut

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http://www.returnofkings.com/38722/35-si...is-a-whore

[btownbuck89]

(01-17-2017 10:38 AM)Fightersword Wrote:  

It's hard for them to hide everything. It sort of affects them: their attitude, their willingness to commit, their bedroom activity etc. changes a lot as their cock count goes up.

There's a certain way girls tend to learn to act if they're big into porn/slutting around that reflects in their attitude and the bedroom. I wouldn't go so far as to say they all act the same but you'll notice patterns when you deal with a lot of sluts. A lot of sluts are pretty open about it honestly (as this is more acceptable in this age sadly), but I've run into some that try and fake being chaste good girls. You'll definitely see some red flags pretty quickly if ones trying to hide things from you.

Can you list some of these? Particularly the ones who try to appear "chaste" and innocent when you're in bed with them

[Unchained]

(01-17-2017 02:05 AM)TooFineAPoint Wrote:  

Hoop earrings

The bigger the O, the bigger the hoe

[questor70]

(01-16-2017 01:24 AM)btownbuck89 Wrote:  

Is it possible though that some girls know about certain sex acts from gossip with their girlfriends or even porn and just don't want to do them?

Any woman, despite inexperience, who is the least bit curious about sex, is going to at least hear about things second-hand, either from friends or reading a Cosmo or what not. They may not know about extreme stuff like bukkake, fisting, rimming, or watersports, but they'll know about more than the basics.

What they may NOT know however is how their body can perform. A woman's body is much more complicated than a man's and it requires a skilled operator. Women often never get to know their own bodies enough to even know what it can do, placing the responsibility on the men in their life to drive. If these men do a crappy job, they may feel that this or that just doesn't "work" for them.

So I've learned never to take their word for it when they say they can't do certain things like g-spot orgasms or cumming from intercourse alone. Odds are they can, but they've never been with a guy who could or would make her do it.

[Hypno]

So I've learned never to take their word for it when they say they can't do certain things like g-spot orgasms or cumming from intercourse alone. Odds are they can, but they've never been with a guy who could or would make her do it.
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sometimes you get the inverse problem - you'll get with one who has been ridden hard and she's waiting for you to ride her equally hard, but they play coy. For example, to hit the G-spot at right angle, you really have to fold her in half, and she knows it because one or two guys have rung that bell and she wants you to ring it but if she tells you how she'll give away how big a slut she it. catch 22.

the other thing to be aware of is when women hit 29-32, they carousel slows down for them, and they look for a beta orbiter to jump to. A mid 40s, short, balding friend of mine who is financially very successful recently got remarried to a 32 year old former swimsuit model. Right now he is very happy but you can just imagine the sort of cock carousel she rode.

[John Michael Kane]

The question is not whether or not some women will hide their past behavior. You aren't ever going to get a minute-by-minute play-by-play of her past life. Instead, each man needs to cultivate a series of tools which can spot obvious signs of slut tells.

A small list:

Tattoos
Lots of revealing pics on Facebook
Tons of male friends, no or few female friends
Poor or no relationship with her parents, especially her father
Any history of drug abuse, or extreme alcohol consumption
Doesn't believe in God
Promotes left-wing causes

If your girl has any one of the above, it would be automatic grounds for termination of a LTR, much less marriage. Harsh? Absolutely. That's the point. When you're filtering for a quality long-term woman, you need to realize most won't meet your standards, and that's how you lessen your risk of getting into a relationship with a woman that will make your life miserable.

Conversely, filtering gets you the woman you want. Practice the proper filters and you won't have worry about her past, you can extrapolate from all the signs that are already showing.

[btownbuck89]

(01-17-2017 06:36 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

The question is not whether or not some women will hide their past behavior. You aren't ever going to get a minute-by-minute play-by-play of her past life. Instead, each man needs to cultivate a series of tools which can spot obvious signs of slut tells.

A small list:

Tattoos
Lots of revealing pics on Facebook
Tons of male friends, no or few female friends
Poor or no relationship with her parents, especially her father
Any history of drug abuse, or extreme alcohol consumption
Doesn't believe in God
Promotes left-wing causes

If your girl has any one of the above, it would be automatic grounds for termination of a LTR, much less marriage. Harsh? Absolutely. That's the point. When you're filtering for a quality long-term woman, you need to realize most won't meet your standards, and that's how you lessen your risk of getting into a relationship with a woman that will make your life miserable.

Conversely, filtering gets you the woman you want. Practice the proper filters and you won't have worry about her past, you can extrapolate from all the signs that are already showing.

Excellent response. Thank you.

[RatInTheWoods]

You can usually bet she has been a whole lot sluttier than you can imagine. I have heard some stories, seen some things, and pitied the poor fool who was shacked up with her afterwards.

It shits me when a woman plays innocent, won't do certain sexual things to you, that you know she has let many other dudes do in the past.

But if you are framed as boyfriend material, they will go through with this act, they can't help it.

[lapalco]

Just look how far a woman will go to hide what they really look like. Makeup vs no makeup. Padded push up bras. Yoga pants that makes a flabby ass look world class etc...

[El Padrone]

Sluts don't think they're sluts.

So you gotta come at her with an open non judgemental mind, dropping ''gems'' of your own doings to draw her out.

Women are not very intelligent (otherwise we'd still be running game in the Garden of Eden), their best efforts at concealment can't escape a red pilled man's flagging.

Notch counts?
Curses, foul words and insults?
Justifications?
Fuckbuddies?
Asking you what you like?
Abortion?
Financially irresponsible?

She's a slut.

On the other hand, if a woman's loyal and respectful to you, but was previously a slut, dump her still.

Even with ''love'', respect and loyalty, you can't turn a ho to a housewife.