Wondering what the consensus is on this topic, among the more experienced players.
Going by previous relationships, if a chick did something I really, really didn't like, my response would always be nuclear and disproportional.
Example: we were in bed, I reached for the condoms but clumsily the others spilled out the box. The box was supposed to contain 12, but only 3 fell out. She asked me where the others were, I said I gave them to a buddy (true, I did) and that's that. She turned crazy and started yelling "no, no you f*****g didn't, you used it to bang some hoe, didn't you."
I didn't rise to the challenge immediately, but kept calm, said point blank "no, get a grip on your emotions" switched the light and turned over to sleep.
She carried on and after 5 minutes I became irate and told her to GTFO the house. She packed what little she had with her (she only came over for the night) and left.
I went to sleep. 10 minutes later, she wants to be let back in and is ringing the door. I let her in, don't say nothing and go sleep.
Question I have is how often can you use this sort of tactic / GTFO / walk off etc. without her thinking "he done it previously, he took me back will probs be ok."
Once? Twice? Three strikes and you're out?
Going by previous relationships, if a chick did something I really, really didn't like, my response would always be nuclear and disproportional.
Example: we were in bed, I reached for the condoms but clumsily the others spilled out the box. The box was supposed to contain 12, but only 3 fell out. She asked me where the others were, I said I gave them to a buddy (true, I did) and that's that. She turned crazy and started yelling "no, no you f*****g didn't, you used it to bang some hoe, didn't you."
I didn't rise to the challenge immediately, but kept calm, said point blank "no, get a grip on your emotions" switched the light and turned over to sleep.
She carried on and after 5 minutes I became irate and told her to GTFO the house. She packed what little she had with her (she only came over for the night) and left.
I went to sleep. 10 minutes later, she wants to be let back in and is ringing the door. I let her in, don't say nothing and go sleep.
Question I have is how often can you use this sort of tactic / GTFO / walk off etc. without her thinking "he done it previously, he took me back will probs be ok."
Once? Twice? Three strikes and you're out?