[MaceTyrell]

Last two LTRs have not had fathers in their lives. Given them benefit of the doubt as I also grew up without my father. I think it shows up on a very basic level where they just don't know how to properly speak to a man.

However, I'm growing tired of granting said benefit. I've had enough positive male role models in my life to fill in that void.

They are well-suited as plates, but that's about it.

The other type that doesn't get much attention are he girls with weird relationships with their parents - an LTR from a few years back actually told her parents about the VERY FIRST date we went on. I needed this forum in my life back then.

[wonderer1]

(01-16-2017 12:34 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  

Last two LTRs have not had fathers in their lives. Given them benefit of the doubt as I also grew up without my father. I think it shows up on a very basic level where they just don't know how to properly speak to a man.

However, I'm growing tired of granting said benefit. I've had enough positive male role models in my life to fill in that void.

They are well-suited as plates, but that's about it.

The other type that doesn't get much attention are he girls with weird relationships with their parents - an LTR from a few years back actually told her parents about the VERY FIRST date we went on. I needed this forum in my life back then.

How did they speak to you?

[General Stalin]

The relationship your parents share becomes your archetype for how romantic relationships and families are supposed to work as you develop through adolescence. If you are brought up in a poor/broken family unit then this can negatively impact your abilities to for healthy bonds and relationships with the opposite sex as you reach maturity.

A father is the first man a woman ever loves in her life. Her father grows to be the representation of what a male figure is to her. A poor relationship with her father will generally cause her to have a poor relationship with men in general, especially romantically. Weak fathers, abusive fathers, absent fathers. All of these scenarios can manifest themselves into a myriad of different social and behavioral issues for a girl as she grows into adulthood.

Keep in mind, these same issues apply to men as well.