[kaotic]

I'm sitting here writing up this review of a pretty awesome year and I've realized I've changed quite a bit as far as my game and lifestyle has.

I look back at love, relationships, my standards, and health.

I'll also talk a little about politics.

The Game Highs:

-Consistent bangs all throughout the year
-I DON'T HAVE HERPES (3 Negative Tests Prove So)(A test in late 2014 claimed to be positive)
-Ended plates faster than ever.
-Expanded my taste in all sorts of different women.
-Over my ex, occasional fleeting thoughts (she's the closest LTR I've had)
-Have another main girl this year whose rad
-Had some decent fake tits this year.
-I attained my goal of banging more Asians. (See below)
-Took an 18 year old V card


The Game Lows:

-Nexted 2 of my harems: MILF Trainer for feelings and the Virgin wants to stay chaste
-It's been over year dumping my last LTR, like I said, fleeting memories
-Didn’t get any solid 9’s this year, closest was the 7.5/8 asian girl
-Had a harem collapse at one point


Major Lessons Learned:

-Don’t waste your time or other people’s time (tried and true)
-Don’t waste your time on women you aren’t going to be with (I made sure of that this year)
-Don't deal with women's bullshit, I had shorter patience dealing with that
-If you aren't feeling a date, immediately bounce. (Did that more often)
-Be more easy going on dates, keep them open and fun (I got bored at one point this year)
-Stop fucking over analyzing things and roll with, YOU HAVE TO BE FLUID!


The Notch Count:

-28 new notches this year (a new record)
-Banged over 100+ women in my lifetime, a personal goal of mine.

The Break Down:

15 were first date bangs
17 were one night stands
8 were 2nd date bangs
3 were 3rd date bangs
2 were straight come over to my house bangs
12 were girls I rebanged at least twice
6 were new plates at one point during this year

Included is the most Asians I've banged in my entire life this year:

-An older Cambodian/Vietnamese 35 year old I had some amazing sex with over half the year. I nexted her because she was shady, annoying, and biological clock was ticking.
-An older 45 year old Filipino I banged in the back of my car outside a bar, fucked her only twice.
-The hottest Asian (Chinese/Filipino) I've banged to date, 22 year old with a banging body - unfortunately couldn't plate her. Banged twice only.
-Biker girl whose 28 and my main plate/LTR she's a Hapa girl (Filipino/Dutch) super rad to hangout with and really sweet.
-39 year old Korean who was a fucking freak and had a questionable room, banged once.
-40 year old Hawaiian surfer girl who was pretty cool but banged twice and I ghosted on

Now to look back on goals I had this year.

Things I needed to work on in 2015:
-I NEED TO DAY APPROACH MORE. It’s that simple. FAILED, RETRY FOR 2016 PASSED IN 2016 (I did approach more but the results were less than satisfying.
-I need to rely on dating sites less. FAILED, RETRY FOR 2016 FAILED in 2016 (However, I did use dating apps LESS than last year.)
-I need to gain more mass/strength in the gym. PASSED PASSED in 2016 (with new PR's and more weight gain)
-I need to push against LMR just a little bit more. PASSEDPASSED in 2016 (Had a few fish that took alot of skill to reel in)

2015 Fuck Bucket List:
-Another threesome with hotter girls. (Mine were 2 7's at best) PASSED (BUT LOWER QUALITY) RETRY FOR 2016 FAILED in 2016
-Fuck more 18-20 year old girls. (I'm getting better at it). PASSED PASSED in 2016 (Even took an 18 year old virginity)
-Get a foreign flag in the states. (I've never had one). FAILED, RETRY FOR 2016 PASSED in 2016 (I got 3 foreign born flags in the states)
-Travel to get foreign flags. (I just want to travel in general). FAILED, RETRY FOR 2016 FAILED in 2016 (Too busy, not enough funds to travel, I made an effort to renew my passport this year)
-Fuck more Asian girls. (Had my first 2 this year) FAILED, RETRY FOR 2016 PASSED in 2016 (An asbolute breakout year for Asians this year)

3 of the goals I failed in 2015 I smashed in 2016. I plan on redoubling my efforts but also focusing more on the quality of women I'm with in 2017


Life Highs:
-Hit a max squat of 315 (3 plates)
-Look better, feel stronger, facial hair/head hair is on point
-Got my motorcycle license and bought a Harley, I love riding
-Met my first forum members: Rhyme or Reason (red_pillage), SamuelBRoberts, AneroidOcean, PapayaTrapper, Travesty, Comte De St. Germain, Eradicator.
-Created a group chat for a Mega Meetup for members in 2017.
-Took more time off my weekend job to see friends, music, trips,etc (Well worth it.)
-Made $10K more at my main job due to working my ass off
-Bought some more rifle parts, will enjoy building my rifles


Now about women, sex, and love.

The_e_man posted a thread about hitting 100 notches, which is awesome, but in that thread it was LINUX who asked some serious hard hitting reflection questions.

I wanted to answer those questions below:

What has getting 100 lays taught you about life?

It's taught me more about myself and my capabilities than I ever knew was possible. I've learned how to interact with with girls, how to handle first dates, destroying LMR, breaking past the first bang, and to filter women.

You have to go out there and work your ass off, NOTHING EVERY COMES EASY.

I learned I can literally change my life if I just put in effort, the will, and most importantly my confidence skyrocketed.

What has getting 100 lays taught you about love ?

I went through a reflection/transitional period after breaking up with my ex.

She was quite literally the closest most intimate thing I've had to loving a woman, I'm not afraid to say that.

I've said it before, some women will just touch your soul and leave an imprint, she was definitely one of the few.

I was completely myself and pretty open (besides the other women). Honestly I was a pretty big dork around her but also the strong man in her life.

This new biker girl I'm dating, my feelings for her are growing, she's a sweetheart, I'm myself around her, one of my favorite things is how she always rolls over in bed to lay on my chest.

I've found a new love for just being around women and enjoying their company, this last year was the lowest amount of drama I've experienced with them.

I've experience some bad times having to end things but I've learned to grow from them and not burn women as much as I used to.

I still wouldn't mind being able to truly love a women, that's way more intimate than sex in my opinion, I also love more freely (with ego checks of course)

What has getting 100 lays done for your ego ?

Banging over a 100 women was a personal goal to begin with, it's always been since I've been on the forum.

My ego definitely has been inflated in a positive way, I'm not arrogant, but I am confident when going out with a woman.

My inner game has grown immensely with my ego as well.

My ego has been checked before, with some rejections, failed bangs, girls who ghost on me.

Has getting 100 lays changed your life for the good or the bad ?

There's 2 sides to this coin and I'll explain why below.

Banging this many girls has definitely satisfied me in the sexual category, of course I've got more goals, as I will every year.

It's changed my life as far as my outlook on marriage and kids. I don't want to get married anytime soon, the older I get the more possibility I'm not going to want kids. However, men like us NEED to raise kids like us, in an ever declining world. I don't think I'd mind being a strong father.

Banging this many girls has also changed my priorities in life, as in women are becoming secondary to life goals and hanging with my friends.

Time is the most important factor in my life since I work 7 days a week, I find myself using more of that time with friends, where girls can tag along when they want.

It's also making commit to other things in life, If I can commit to game, I can commit to work, or fun projects.

The dark side of the coin is becoming less sensitive and more jaded against women.

When you've banged this many women, you realize that alot of is tried and true theories of game, the same routine, bars, locations, lines, etc.

Women get boring, you're just going through the motions, you eject emotionally immediately after you bang them.

Basically you experience less and less connection with women, you also become more and more picky about the women you're with aka you wont put up with bullshit.

You see women and how manipulating they can be, and just plain nasty when shit hits the fan or they get called out.

This is probably the biggest thing for me, I don't want to become desensitized.

Are you awakened?

If we're talking about with women and game. ABSOLUTELY.

The past 3 years was a wake up call of what is possible and what the future can hold.

Has it made you happy or has it made you numb inside ?

It's made me extremely happy, but occasionally jaded.

Happy because of the different types of women that come and go, the fact I can lay them, have fun, enjoy their company for a month or a year.

Numb a bit because, AWALT, you can run almost the same recipe and get the same lay results.

It does eat a bit away at your soul, and you do become somewhat of a sociopath.

Right now I'd say it's 80 happy/20 Numb (more like I see the truth).

When you're beside the newest notch, do you want her to leave or stay ?

Honestly it really depends on how I feel about them.

If the sex was good, they were cute and/or had been drinking, I don't mind them spending the night - besides the morning sex is great before heading out to work or the weekend.

Some girls who are plates know what's up and leave, others I pray they leave because the sex was boring, or with their clothes off they weren't that attractive.

The more fun I had with a girl on a date, the more I want them to stay.

I've had the occasional girl I wanted to stay leave.

Can you be faithful during hard times knowing how easy it is to find someone else ?

Honestly, I haven't been "faithful" at all in my last serious relationship nor the one I have currently.

I'm faithful emotionally, as in my love/emotions are for one girl, but not faithfully physically, as in I banged girls who were just fun or were just plates.

Neither girl knew I had side pieces all the time and some mini LTR's.

It really depends on the "hard times" - if it was just a bad argument I probably wouldn't dump her.

If it was about getting engaged and having kids (at this point) I'd of ended things.

If it came to things like her messaging dudes on social media or text or whatever, that's an automatic next.

It is easy to lay the next girl, it's alot harder to find a legit girl you can have a relationship, especially the older you get.

Have you been able to run your game and get 100 lays without hurting anyone in the process ?

I would find it almost impossible to not at least hurt 1 in a 100 woman that you've banged.

Some of these girls are going to want you to themselves and you'll be declining to be monogamous and that will leave them hurt.

This I've done multiple times to women who wanted me to themselves, or when I can tell they're being super needy and complain about not being able to see me as much as they want.

Dumping my last LTR was the most amicable ending to a relationship I've had, I know I hurt her, but less than a month later she was in a relationship to another dude. Not sure what that says about our relationship.

I've never been caught cheating on a woman, in bed, in public, on online comments, or on my phone. That stuff is airtight.

The most recent one that probably hurt bad was the virgin card I took, then again, she's sent me screenshots of dudes asking her to fuck, or doing some guys hair in corn rows - I didn't feel as bad when we ended it.

Do you get your lays though honesty or manipulation?

I don't do super deceptive manipulation, I don't lie about my job, my worth, etc.

Of course I've embellished stories or a few things I've done.

I have been manipulative about where I've traveled in order to create a connection, but that's a secondary manipulation.

I have created dating accounts with a younger age, but my age never comes up, and if it ever does - I always tell them truth. I never lost a woman this way.

Everything else about me is legitimate, I try to keep it as real as I get, as I bang more girls and get older, the less I care about impressing a girl and more importantly trying to fuck her mind and get a strong connection.

How many women out there thinks she is your girlfriend ?

At one point I had 1 girlfriend, and 2 mini relationships with girls who thought I was the only one who I was talking to.

When the conversation came up about "what are we" I ended both those relationships.

As of right now, biker girl is the only that I'm semi serious with, I let go of the former virgin.

It's a new year and I don't intend on creating any other relationships.


Politics:

The last 2 years I didn't talk much about politics, honestly I was focused on mostly game while putting my foot in the deep pool of the Everything Else/Political Thread.

I'd be ignoring the elephant in the room if I didn't mention it.

I admit, I had my doubts in the beginning about trump.

(06-16-2015 02:06 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

The republicans are continually splintering their vote, this is a fucking joke.

It's turning into a circus, there needs to reformation in the party.

Fuck him and the 2 party joke of a system.

Admittedly I became a YUGE! fan of his during his primary run.

He just didn't give a shit, said what he wanted, and DIDN'T BACK DOWN.

I started donating to his campaign, started posting memes and news articles about Trump on my social media, I started becoming more bold and not backing down on wanting him as POTUS.

I started meeting likeminded people and forum members who all were pro Trump.

It ended in the culmination of an election night watch party where I met Mike Cernovich, Baked Alaska, Eradicator, and went with our tribe.

It was a fantastic time, I was heavily on the Donald Trump thread as well.

As for the split post election with the alt right/alt light deal, I've decided I'm going my own way as a patriot who loves this country.

My family came here legally from Muslim country, chased the American dream, where I was born and raised.

I voted for Trump and I have no regrets about it.


Other Thoughts/Summary:

I've change in how I treat girls, I used to be super by the book paper alpha bra theory shit.

Now I find myself more fluid and just enjoy the woman, for the moment, or for the months.

I find myself more relaxed and stress free, as compare to myself being neurotic and analyzing every little thing before.

This DOES NOT mean I'm lax, lazy, or denying game theory. It just means I have a pretty strong foundation and subconsciously already do most those things.

My dating/banging strategy hasn't changed much - I find myself shooting more pool, bowling more, and throwing darts.

I find myself on more interactive dates than ever before, I try to make it more fun, since talking gets old.

In the 3 years I've done write ups, I've never taken a single first date to dinner, or a movie.

Not my style, to me it's boring and isn't interactive much, I don't mind going to dinner after banging a girl though.


As for dating apps, OK Cupid and POF are basically dead, and are literally a joke at this point.

Bumble was absolutely on fire for me this year and Tinder came second.


Resources:

You can read about my date/bang logistics here. (Scroll down)

Some key sources for tips about texting are in this thread.

Need help with dating apps like Tinder? Go here.

I highly advise creating your own log for approaches and even logging your own dates in the Player's Log/Lounge.

If you get flaked on or want to know how to reset or restart plans go to this thread.

Want to grow your Social Media presence ? Instagram Data Sheet is fantastic !

Please use the goddamn search function before posting a newbie question


In Closing:

2016 was probably the best of the 3 years that I've been on here.

I learned alot about myself and what I want and the women I want around me.

One of my biggest goals in 2017 is to focus on helping newbies and giving advice out as much as I can.

This forum gave me so much and I can't even begin to give back, I got alot of love for all you fuckers.

Here's to 2017 !



Please ask any questions you want on this thread, or PM me.

I'd appreciate any feedback, advice, constructive criticism as well.

[General Stalin]

2016 was about getting swole, stacking cash, and smashing gash. Sounds like you've got all three in spades homie.

When we meetup:



Great review here kaotic. Looks like you've been making great progress with yourself as far as women and personal pursuits are concerned. One thing I think is interesting is how a lot of the Asians you banged were fuckin old. I mean, Asians age really well so they may have looked great, but thats an interesting piece of data considering I'm pretty sure you are in your late 20's/early 30's no?

Good stuff comrade.

[Genghis Khan]

Great write-up. I didn't realize you could get older women (35y+) off of Bumble. Definitely need to try that. Out of the 28, how many were from online and how many from day game? You said your day game results weren't as good as you'd like.

[kaotic]

(01-06-2017 07:46 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

2016 was about getting swole, stacking cash, and smashing gash. Sounds like you've got all three in spades homie.

When we meetup:



Great review here kaotic. Looks like you've been making great progress with yourself as far as women and personal pursuits are concerned. One thing I think is interesting is how a lot of the Asians you banged were fuckin old. I mean, Asians age really well so they may have looked great, but thats an interesting piece of data considering I'm pretty sure you are in your late 20's/early 30's no?

Good stuff comrade.

Thanks man, absolutely we will !!

Yeah I noticed that also, I'm around 30, so 35 was no biggie, the 40~ girls had some amazing head game for sure and the sex was good as well.

That hottie 22 year old was my great white buffalo this year, even reaching out to her with week pauses felt needy, trying to get her out was tooth and nail. Gotta charge that to the game.

[kaotic]

(01-06-2017 07:54 PM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

Great write-up. I didn't realize you could get older women (35y+) off of Bumble. Definitely need to try that. Out of the 28, how many were from online and how many from day game? You said your day game results weren't as good as you'd like.

You'd be surprised how many older ladies are on it.

I think 2-3 in person pulls were night game through social circle. I got I think 2 other girls through social circle got them home but couldn't bang them, heavy LMR.

To be honest I relied heavily on Bumble/Tinder.

To me it's about convenience and time, online game is easy to farm and set up dates, takes less time, time which I don't really have.

I'm up at 6am and I'm not done with my day (work, gym, shower, food) until about 8PM.

After 8p, I'm usually banging plates, with the main girl, or on new dates which doesn't give me much time to roll out and approach.

I do make efforts to approach and hit up girls at bars or with friends.

[Kona]

That's one trophy for each negative hepres test!

I did not know you banged a 40 year old sHawaiian surfer girl.

The is a chance, since I am a forty year old Hawaiian surfing man, that I hit that 20 years ago. It is an island.

Aloha!

[ballsyamog]

Curious... your stats look like you banged more than 28 girls

"The Break Down:

15 were first date bangs
17 were one night stands
8 were 2nd date bangs
3 were 3rd date bangs
2 were straight come over to my house bangs
12 were girls I rebanged at least twice
6 were new plates at one point during this year"

[_Dumb_Genius]

(01-06-2017 07:20 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

-Got my motorcycle license and bought a Harley, I love riding

Epic post!

Going back to the theme of making dates more interactive, do you think getting the Harley helped your game? Meaning were women turned on by riding with you on it or even just you talking about it and referring to it?

[robreke]

(01-07-2017 01:27 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  

Curious... your stats look like you banged more than 28 girls

"The Break Down:

15 were first date bangs
17 were one night stands
8 were 2nd date bangs
3 were 3rd date bangs
2 were straight come over to my house bangs
12 were girls I rebanged at least twice
6 were new plates at one point during this year"

Nah, his numbers add up.

Some are overlaps like first date bangs and one night stands, etc.

[kaotic]

(12-04-2016 09:20 PM)ivansirko Wrote:  

Interesting it seems while your quantity has decreased your quality has improved. Keep it up guys.

Quote:

I still advocate that dating apps SHOULD BE SUPPLEMENTARY to regular approaching/circle game/etc.

This. It was the case even 15 years ago when online dating was a new thing. To me nothing has changed except the tech.

(01-06-2017 08:24 PM)Kona Wrote:  



That's one trophy for each negative hepres test!

I did not know you banged a 40 year old sHawaiian surfer girl.

The is a chance, since I am a forty year old Hawaiian surfing man, that I hit that 20 years ago. It is an island.

Aloha!

Yeah man, those Hi Life girls are fun, I had short stint where I lived on Oahu for a bit.

My biggest mistake was not moving there after I graduated college - I had a place, a job lined up, and I threw it away because I got in a relationship.

Biggest mistake of my life. At least I had fun on the island - I'll never forget that.

(01-07-2017 10:15 AM)_Dumb_Genius Wrote:  

(01-06-2017 07:20 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

-Got my motorcycle license and bought a Harley, I love riding

Epic post!

Going back to the theme of making dates more interactive, do you think getting the Harley helped your game? Meaning were women turned on by riding with you on it or even just you talking about it and referring to it?

I've ridden dirtbikes since I was a kid, but a Harley is special. I would say yes- it has sort of a bad boy view of you, mines black and chrome, every single girl that's made a comment about it thought it was sexy or hot.

It's a great convo opener.

(01-07-2017 10:19 AM)robreke Wrote:  

(01-07-2017 01:27 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  

Curious... your stats look like you banged more than 28 girls

"The Break Down:

15 were first date bangs
17 were one night stands
8 were 2nd date bangs
3 were 3rd date bangs
2 were straight come over to my house bangs
12 were girls I rebanged at least twice
6 were new plates at one point during this year"

Nah, his numbers add up.

Some are overlaps like first date bangs and one night stands, etc.

Rob is correct, there is overlap.

[Vienna]

Awesome write-up kaotic. Congratulations on your 2016!

Do you have any travel plans for 2017?

[Leonard D Neubache]

You're rrrrrEPPED!

[DonnyGately]

Great stuff, brotha!

[bgbusiness]

Really interested to see you perform more in the future and they are super helpful.
I couldn't found any info on your stats.
What is your height and how would you rate yourself on aesthetics?
What is your age and race?

Thanks man. Your posts helped me a lot. Super inspirational.

[kaotic]

I'll DM you.

[Thrill Jackson]

Looking forward to the 2017

[kaotic]

(01-10-2018 06:47 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

Looking forward to the 2017

Hah man honestly maybe when I get some time - been pretty lazy with the forum.

I've got some decent stats I'll post once the work week calms down.

[subterfuge]

How old are you out of interest?
And am I right in thinking that you're a handsome SOB! (Someone told me you were in a message ages ago lol - certainly makes sense if you're always banging! )

keep it up!

[General Stalin]

^ looks like subterfuge has a crush

[kaotic]

(01-10-2018 03:48 PM)subterfuge Wrote:  

How old are you out of interest?
And am I right in thinking that you're a handsome SOB! (Someone told me you were in a message ages ago lol - certainly makes sense if you're always banging! )

keep it up!

I'm in my early 30's.

[Vill@in]

(01-10-2018 03:48 PM)subterfuge Wrote:  

How old are you out of interest?
And am I right in thinking that you're a handsome SOB! (Someone told me you were in a message ages ago lol - certainly makes sense if you're always banging! )

keep it up!

Keep "what" up exactly, subterfuge?

[Thrill Jackson]

(01-10-2018 01:42 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(01-10-2018 06:47 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  

Looking forward to the 2017

Hah man honestly maybe when I get some time - been pretty lazy with the forum.

I've got some decent stats I'll post once the work week calms down.

Damn bro looks like 2017 is not coming :/

[kaotic]

It's been a busy few months man, getting shit done at work and tightening finances.

Honestly it shouldn't be that long since most of it was repetitive from the last year.

I'll do my best to post something soon or draft it bit by bit.