Greetings gents, longtime lurker here
I will soon be taking a 3 weeks trip to Cape town, I have devised a strategy based on what I've read on this forum to improve my game during that trip. (and hopefully land a lay or two) Please take a minute or two to criticize or make suggestions based on my background and strategy:
Background: I nearing 30 years old. My waist size is 36 at 6ft tall. My looks are average, although I have received some compliments from women (and men, lamentably so). I dress poorly. My game is poor- I do not take shit from anybody and I do not try to please anyone, but the greatest obstacle I face in game is a fundamental disinterest in people- I can joke and converse with people that I do not find interesting for half an hour max, after which my disinterest becomes glaringly obvious.
I've recently made a move to financial freedom by taking a finance job on a minesite deep in Africa. There is nothing to do here but work and go to the gym. This means a tax free income, with zero expenses. Every 2 months I will be getting 3 weeks leave, during which I am extremely determined to use the time&money to learn game.
The strategy:
>move into a guesthouse centrally located near bars (can't stand clubs)
>buy new clothes- ditch the shorts, buy pants&stylish formal shoes. I have several well fitting suits, but how do you justify wearing these on holiday?
>during the day: enjoy myself- this mean hiking and reading. I am going to try mix with people while doing both: hiking with people rather than alone, reading at a coffee shop rather than at the guesthouse
>during the evening: Go out every night, drink sparingly, screen for a few minutes, direct cold approach any girl in the 5-6 range that show indicators of DTF.
>Focus on foreign girls (there are many european tourists hanging around cape town). My success rate with South African women have been.....poor.
>Make the attempt for same night lays- this is the only way I've ever reached success- I simply cannot be bothered to "perform" for someone over multiple days through dates/ messages.
Please tell me If I'm missing something here or whether you think I have the wrong approach here altogether.
I will soon be taking a 3 weeks trip to Cape town, I have devised a strategy based on what I've read on this forum to improve my game during that trip. (and hopefully land a lay or two) Please take a minute or two to criticize or make suggestions based on my background and strategy:
Background: I nearing 30 years old. My waist size is 36 at 6ft tall. My looks are average, although I have received some compliments from women (and men, lamentably so). I dress poorly. My game is poor- I do not take shit from anybody and I do not try to please anyone, but the greatest obstacle I face in game is a fundamental disinterest in people- I can joke and converse with people that I do not find interesting for half an hour max, after which my disinterest becomes glaringly obvious.
I've recently made a move to financial freedom by taking a finance job on a minesite deep in Africa. There is nothing to do here but work and go to the gym. This means a tax free income, with zero expenses. Every 2 months I will be getting 3 weeks leave, during which I am extremely determined to use the time&money to learn game.
The strategy:
>move into a guesthouse centrally located near bars (can't stand clubs)
>buy new clothes- ditch the shorts, buy pants&stylish formal shoes. I have several well fitting suits, but how do you justify wearing these on holiday?
>during the day: enjoy myself- this mean hiking and reading. I am going to try mix with people while doing both: hiking with people rather than alone, reading at a coffee shop rather than at the guesthouse
>during the evening: Go out every night, drink sparingly, screen for a few minutes, direct cold approach any girl in the 5-6 range that show indicators of DTF.
>Focus on foreign girls (there are many european tourists hanging around cape town). My success rate with South African women have been.....poor.
>Make the attempt for same night lays- this is the only way I've ever reached success- I simply cannot be bothered to "perform" for someone over multiple days through dates/ messages.
Please tell me If I'm missing something here or whether you think I have the wrong approach here altogether.