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Jagnum’s Year in Review +How I Did on My 2016 Goals
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Jagnum’s Year in Review +How I Did on My 2016 Goals

2016 was a banner year.

Like the gym this year, I improved my numbers all around, but nothing earth-shattering like last year. Going from one rep on the bench at 135 to five reps at 155 over the entire year was small, but understate the gains.

Same with game. Went from 13 bangs last year to 17 bangs this year, but improved the mechanics all around—approach game, text game, date game, sex game. It was nothing like going from 2 bangs to 13 bangs the prior year.

Unlike last year, I didn’t achieve all the goals I set out. So while I’m disappointed, can’t dwell on it because the goals I did achieve, through a lot of hard work, were immensely satisfying.

My Year In Review

The high points:
- 17 new bangs this year
- Batting over .300 from first date to eventual bang
- Street approaches finally added to the arsenal
- Did 4x the revenues in my business I did last year (granted off a low base)
- Dressed better (white pants, boots - thanks HankMoody, cool shirts, bracelets)
- Annual hiking trip with buddies was awesome – Alaska this year
- First time having an “extended fling” in five years i.e. banging a girl more than three times - with two girls this year
- Repeat bangs more often (Last year only banged 1 girl twice; this year banged 8 girls twice or more)


The tough spots:
- The 8.0s+, the really hot girls, all slipped through my grasp
- Girls who’d I’d see for multiple dates, 3 or more, we’d finally have sex, then they’d ghost entirely
- Night game still a challenge
- Didn’t get to travel that much
- Never hit the lows like I did in 2015, but stretches of time in April and November where it felt like nothing was working


Assessing the goals I’d set this year:
- Bang three 8.0s+
Didn’t. Banged 6s and 7s. The 8s continue to elude me. Of the 133 phone numbers from this year, six were what I’d consider to be 8s or above. Had first dates with three of them. Had second dates with one of them. No bangs.

- Bang an 18 year old (mid-year I revised this to bang an 18 or 19 year old)
Didn’t. I did two days of approaches at universities near me in the Fall, but it wasn’t enough. I did bang a 20 year old though, see “Yoga First Date” in Game Highlights below.

- Establish a rotation of three women
Didn’t. Maybe I’m reading too much Kaotic [Image: smile.gif] I don’t know how you guys on this forum get your harems going. Most girls I'll have sex with once or twice and then they'll fade away. Those who I have sex with more than twice eventually tell me they want a monogamous, committed relationship. I’m open to a relationship, but it’d have to be open. And the two girls, both sexy librarian types, weren’t down for that.

Most advanced guys on this forum, I’m under the impression, have harems of girls they can text anytime to say “come over”. I’m not one of them. Unless the reality is more like the girls you sleep with once or twice you’re quickly replenishing with new girls, so that it’s like you have a harem going.

- Bang a woman with a kid
Didn’t. I got some laughs from the forum when I set this as a goal last year, but it’s something I’d like to get done. I got close with this Latina in her mid-30s with a cute little body I met at a club who was visiting from out of town. I’m sure I could have gotten it if I’d gotten her home, but despite making out with her for half the night, I couldn’t get her back. So no on this.

- One private game goal accomplished
I didn’t write this at the time last year, but one goal was to go with a girl I’m sleeping with to do something in nature outside of the city. I went hiking for the day mid-year with a girl I’d slept with twice.

- Dress better
Still have more work to do here. But this year did pick up some boots, white pants, cool shirts, bracelets.

And being dressed better HELPS in daygame. One girl gave me a very long look on the street while I was wearing my white shoes, white pants, an awesome big pattern blue paid I have, hair slicked back. I turned around and she'd already walked away. I hesitated to approach, but eventually decided I had to, and ran after her for four blocks to talk to her. It paid off. Banged her in my bed the very next day.

- Bat .300 first date to eventual bang
Yes. Accomplished. The prior year, in 2015, terrible results, sleeping with 1 out of every 10 girls whom I’d met on a first date. No matter how you analyze it, that is an awful conversion. This meant I had to go on 40 first dates to eventually sleep with 4 women. This was the #1 thing I wanted to improve this year, and I’m proud to say I have. I went on 32 first dates this year and ultimately slept with 11 of those women. So I batted .343. Even Mike Trout doesn’t hit .500. I’m happy with that.


2016 by the numbers:
- 133 phone numbers (63% daygame, 36% nightgame, <1% online)
- 32 first dates
- 11 bangs from these 32 first dates
- From January to June, 4 of the 6 girls took more than three dates. July onward, it did not take me more than three dates to bang a girl.

Compared to last year:
- Last year, 40 first dates led to 4 eventual bangs, which is 10% or 1 in 10.
-This year, 32 first dates led to 11 eventual bangs, which is 34% of 1 in 3.


Game highlights:
- Notched three new bangs in one month in July
- Banged one girl in her childhood bed, there was something satisfying about that
- Met two girls at a party in December and banged them both
- Got compliments from girls in the bedroom on my deep voice. Clearly back day at the gym is paying off (for anyone who’s followed me on this forum, I’m embarrassed but here’s the voice in early 2015)
- By year end, overcame LMR like a champ
- Improved efficiency on dates towards the end of the year
- Street approached a girl on a Thursday, banged her the next day
- Yoga first date with a vivacious red-haired 20-year old
- New flags captured: Romania, Germany, Colombia, and Bhutan (last year: Japan, Denmark, and Mexico; prior: China)


Goals for next year:
- Have a threesome. I know many guys talk about it, and many have done it. I’d like to in 2017.
- Bang an 8.0+. I think I can this year.
- Be a boss. I don’t mean figuratively. I mean I hire someone to do project work with me in my business for an external client.
- Do better on my approaches so a higher number of girls I meet during the day (and night) meet up for a first date.


Overall, it was a good year, not a great one.

I didn’t get to travel much this year. I didn’t bang an 8. But the things I did do—bang 17 new girls, bat .300, grow revenues in my business 4x—I’m extremely proud of.

Couldn’t have done this year without the help from Spider.

Anyway—I move to Mexico in 2 weeks. Growing tired of American girls…

Thanks amigos for your support this year on this forum. It means a lot.

Wishing you all a good 2017.

Quote: (07-13-2015 04:02 AM)Suits Wrote:  
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Jagnum’s Year in Review +How I Did on My 2016 Goals

I like your logical and pragmatic approach towards things.

This is going to sound like it's coming completely out of left field but I'll say it anyways:
You might be having issues with 8's and 9's and with retaining girls as fuckbuddies to text "come over" whenever you feel like maybe because you are not that "cool."
It's just a bit of a vibe I pick up from the way you talk on here. In my opinion, you seem like a solid dude and I'd love to grab a beer with you and discuss game if you were ever in my neck of the woods. But you don't give off a traditionally "cool" vibe. I think that vibe is needed for making girls stick around, especially for taking down an 8 or a 9.

I'm not by any means a master of doing these things, and I could be totally wrong on my impression of you.

This post, as much as I actually love it, comes across as maybe a little bit too over-analytical. But again, I could be totally wrong, and maybe you don't come across this way to girls and your "RooshV forum" persona might be different then your normal everyday persona.

Either way, congrats on the 17 bangs this year and congrats on making solid year-over-year improvement. My advice for you for 2017 is to try and make friends with some "naturals." The cool, good-looking, popular guys that seem to just "get it." Some of their mannerisms will rub-off on you and I think it will help give you the boost in an underdeveloped area for you to kill it in 2017.

Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference
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