[Nascimento]

Holy shit this story is crazy. Hard to believe it's all completely true (if it is). But stranger things have happened. Good on you for filming her on the balcony... In such a moment few guys would do something so necessary due to being shocked by the alarming circumstances.

Split from this chick while you can.

[Gunner]

Now I guess that this is Chile (due to the earthquake), which is actually not a third world country...

Next part please!

[Palo_alto]

PART IV: THE FINAL CHAPTER

8:30am, Christmas day. I wake up, my head hurts, I am alone in my locked room. Scared that all my shit is out the window, broken or everything teared apart.

I opened the door, there she is. In a thong and BRA sitting on the floor begin for my forgiveness. She wants to fuck, she wants to forget about that crazy night. She wants to do anything I wanted.

I call the doorman. He tells me Police left half an hour after I left to my room, she also went to sleep on my couch after they left. All my apartment is untouched. She is calmed.

I told her to put some clothes on and please leave. She says she will not leave until things get better between us. She proceeds to move to my bed in a very sexual position. She tells me she just need a hug.

I hug her tight, grub her and take her to the door. I opened the door and kicked her out. I grubbed all her stuff and throw them out.

She screams that I was the worst person in the world, that I never loved her and that I cannot treat her like that. I told her to FUCK OFF and never contact me again. Door close.

SHE IS GONE.

I go back to my room, call my best bud and tell him everything. He tells me to tell the police what happen, also told me to check out my new car, if it was fine and that I need to get out of there and visit him right on the spot.

I checked the car, FINE. Drove away and will stay away from my place for a while.

She texted me after she left:

¨You cannot treat women, that´s why you are alone now, and you will be alone forever. Do not contact me because i will not. BYE¨

I proceed to block everything the proper way. WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook,etc...

I guess it did not turned out that bad after all.

Conclusion:

One part of me feels relief. I did not have kids with this women. I made sure I broke things up after her last period to avoid possible pregnancy claims. I did not fucked her that last time and we were not married. All my material stuff are fine.

Other part of me still thinks she will come back. Stalk me at my office or whatever. I will move from that apartment just in case and filed a Police report for her suicidal threat. I also put a claim on the building administration for the fucking concierges.

Even though i knew in my gut everything was wrong from the very beginning, I am glad I can know speak about this because of my own experience and not something somebody else lived.

I need to learn how to say NO. How agree and amplify women´s bullshit and how to screen for healthy girls when it comes to relationships.

Please always

1. Trust your gut
2. Watch all red flags
3. Screen, Screen, Screen.
4. Do not get attached woman/people you barely know

Thank you for the support. I feel relief that I could have my catharsis and offer my experience with you fine people.

Now, she left her watch and a jacket at my place. At this point I want to burn this shit.

Questions to the gurus:

How do you kick a crazy girl out of your place? (By not letting any crazy girls come to your spot right?)

[Schlep]

@ Palo

You need to buy a plane ticket and get awhile from this crazy bitch asap. She's going to start poking holes in your condoms or something alot worse. The last thing you want is to knock this whack job up.

Get out now while you still have your sanity left.

[Ogunn]

(12-26-2016 07:23 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  

PART IV: THE FINAL CHAPTER

8:30am, Christmas day. I wake up, my head hurts, I am alone in my locked room. Scared that all my shit is out the window, broken or everything teared apart.

I opened the door, there she is. In a thong and BRA sitting on the floor begin for my forgiveness. She wants to fuck, she wants to forget about that crazy night. She wants to do anything I wanted.

I call the doorman. He tells me Police left half an hour after I left to my room, she also went to sleep on my couch after they left. All my apartment is untouched. She is calmed.

I told her to put some clothes on and please leave. She says she will not leave until things get better between us. She proceeds to move to my bed in a very sexual position. She tells me she just need a hug.

I hug her tight, grub her and take her to the door. I opened the door and kicked her out. I grubbed all her stuff and throw them out.

She screams that I was the worst person in the world, that I never loved her and that I cannot treat her like that. I told her to FUCK OFF and never contact me again. Door close.

SHE IS GONE.

I go back to my room, call my best bud and tell him everything. He tells me to tell the police what happen, also told me to check out my new car, if it was fine and that I need to get out of there and visit him right on the spot.

I checked the car, FINE. Drove away and will stay away from my place for a while.

She texted me after she left:

¨You cannot treat women, that´s why you are alone now, and you will be alone forever. Do not contact me because i will not. BYE¨

I proceed to block everything the proper way. WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook,etc...

I guess it did not turned out that bad after all.

Conclusion:

One part of me feels relief. I did not have kids with this women. I made sure I broke things up after her last period to avoid possible pregnancy claims. I did not fucked her that last time and we were not married. All my material stuff are fine.

Other part of me still thinks she will come back. Stalk me at my office or whatever. I will move from that apartment just in case and filed a Police report for her suicidal threat. I also put a claim on the building administration for the fucking concierges.

Even though i knew in my gut everything was wrong from the very beginning, I am glad I can know speak about this because of my own experience and not something somebody else lived.

I need to learn how to say NO. How agree and amplify women´s bullshit and how to screen for healthy girls when it comes to relationships.

Please always

1. Trust your gut
2. Watch all red flags
3. Screen, Screen, Screen.
4. Do not get attached woman/people you barely know

Thank you for the support. I feel relief that I could have my catharsis and offer my experience with you fine people.

Now, she left her watch and a jacket at my place. At this point I want to burn this shit.

Questions to the gurus:

How do you kick a crazy girl out of your place? (By not letting any crazy girls come to your spot right?)

This is the craziest shit I have heard in almost two decades!!! And I live Miami! AKA Home of the crazy chicas!!!

The craziest chicks always seem to be the best in bed. Dont ask me why because I dont know. But that has been my experience!! Maybe it has something to do with the cycle of they all seem to be on which is. Fight --> Drama --> You call her out on her shit--> Make up--> Unbelievably hot make up sex --> Mini honeymoon period everything seems fine --> She goes nuclear over minor issue --> Fight. There is no winning with these girls.

Even if you maintain a strong Alpha frame all you will end up accomplishing is repeating this cycle over and over. Over time her fights and drama will intensify. This will eventually lead to mutual destruction.

If you go beta she will try to punish and humiliate you every opportunity she gets. She will push your buttons in ways only she can. She needs a strong Alpha to call her out on her shit! Putting her in her place is part of her drama! She will do crazier things to get you to call her out on her shit. She may start flirting heavy in front of you with other guys. She may even suggest to other guys she will go home with them and that you are a pussy she needs rescuing from. Her hope is that you wont let her do it and will go as far as getting into a fight to prove your feelings for her. I have seen this type of shit go down before.

A relationship with girls like this usually ends very badly IE somebody ends up going to jail or she gets pregnant only to use the kids as pawns to manipulate the guy. Or the guy or the girl ends up killing themselves!

Palo I dont know if you believe in God or a higher power. But it seems to me someone upstairs was trying to send you a message before it was too late!!!

Bro run as far and as fast as you can from this chica!!! Use this experience as reasons why you need to drop a chick quick. Soon as you start seeing to many red flags, NO MATTER HOW GOOD THE PUSSY IS!

[robreke]

Ahhh Latina women...

[Merenguero]

O.P., I didn't read the whole story, but do you think that the guy on your avatar would have even thought about doing anything remotely close to what you did? Hell no. Telly would be out deflowering more thirteen year old Dominican virgins and beating more guys to near death in Washington Square Park. No need for any girls from any South American countries in Costa Rica. The locals are the sluttiest I have ever seen and San Jose has some of the best quality in Latin America.

[RatInTheWoods]

Kudos to you mate.

If I got a very hot girl in bra and panties begging me that "she will do ANYTHING" on my bed, I am going to fuck her before I throw her out.

I respect your iron will.

Also, sack your doorman.

[Travesty]

Met on Happn, drank a bunch of wine afternoon date 2.

Seems strict, for taking a girl seriously she'd be off my list starting there.

I think I'd only take an online girl seriously from an app like that if she didn't ever drink and was a homebody bookworm.

I just read OP has DUI on record. All my friends that have had DUI's got too far into drugs, alcohol, and slut drama. His life is a runway towards this.

He lacks Gorilla Mindset!

[Dalaran1991]

Wow, I cant even. How can somebody with 80+ notch count keep making these kinds of errors of judgement?

Either OP is bullshitting, or he's a fucking dumbass, or he secretly loves the drama she's giving him (which also means he's a dumbass).

Some people just like to live dangerously.

Either way OP will have a better story to tell than most people.

[Leonard D Neubache]

Substitute "hot, crazy girl" for "cocaine, meth or heroin" and you have the story of many a recovering addict.

Good luck staying on the wagon, OP.

[Bigfoot]

that calendar with all the days that you did not hang out marked... man, that`s not a flag thats a giant crowd surfer

[asdfk]

Super entertaining topic.

I had my fair share of crazy. Here is my asdfk-sheet on how to get them out of your apartment.

1. Tell her very calm she needs to leave.
2. If she starts pouring or making a scene, stay just as calm as before. No emotional response whatsoever. (Emotional responses condition her to continue the crazy)
3. Tell her to leave again, just as calm.
4. If she doesn't respond favorably, calmly open the door, pick her up, put her outside and lock your door.
5. Put on Netflix, kick back and grab open your favorite alcoholic beverage while Crazy goes nuts behind the door. Ignore it completely. If you open the door despite my instructions, you deserve everything you get.
6. Do not under any circumstances respond to anything she says or other attempts of making contact. If you speak with her despite this amount of crazy, you will make yourself a target.

For legal issues, you could choose to start recording audio from step 1. Before you pick her up, you can earn her (again, for legal reasons). Say: "I can see you are upset, but this is my house and you need to leave. If you don't leave within 30 seconds on your own, i will pick you up and put you outside." Be a 100% calm and don't respond to any emotion on her part.

--

[Leonard D Neubache]

If you want to be legally in the clear, at least in most Western nations, you need to specifically tell them "as the lawful occupant of this building I am issuing you with a notice of trespass and require you to leave immediately".

If you say something like "you need to leave" then it might not hold up in court. She can just say "no, I didn't need to leave, not by definition."

Be aware though that unless she's physically attacking you then in most cucked nations you're not lawfully allowed to pick her up and toss her out. You would literally have to wait for the police to arrive and hope they didn't take her side.

Again, the key is to be professional. "I am the lawful and sole occupant of this dwelling. I have issued this woman with a trespass notice. I called you because she refuses to leave. Please remove her from these premises".

Don't allow them to confuse the situation with "who, why, when, where" etc. Tell them you will be happy to answer their questions once the offending person is removed from your dwelling, but not before.

With any luck referring to her as if she were a stranger will send her bat-shit and the coppers will have no choice but to act against her.

But in 3rdworldistan? What the heck is the problem? Toss her out!

[Palo_alto]

(12-29-2016 07:59 AM)asdfk Wrote:  

Super entertaining topic.

I had my fair share of crazy. Here is my asdfk-sheet on how to get them out of your apartment.

1. Tell her very calm she needs to leave.
2. If she starts pouring or making a scene, stay just as calm as before. No emotional response whatsoever. (Emotional responses condition her to continue the crazy)
3. Tell her to leave again, just as calm.
4. If she doesn't respond favorably, calmly open the door, pick her up, put her outside and lock your door.
5. Put on Netflix, kick back and grab open your favorite alcoholic beverage while Crazy goes nuts behind the door. Ignore it completely. If you open the door despite my instructions, you deserve everything you get.
6. Do not under any circumstances respond to anything she says or other attempts of making contact. If you speak with her despite this amount of crazy, you will make yourself a target.

For legal issues, you could choose to start recording audio from step 1. Before you pick her up, you can earn her (again, for legal reasons). Say: "I can see you are upset, but this is my house and you need to leave. If you don't leave within 30 seconds on your own, i will pick you up and put you outside." Be a 100% calm and don't respond to any emotion on her part.

--

Thank you for the input.
My fault here was getting angry when she was making the scene. In the end I only added more fuel to the fire i guess.

[brick tamland]

There's no part 5 . Excellent writing and suspense and pacing.
Laughed hard. Confirmed - yeah the girl is very sexy that's why concierge had a brain freeze.

OP you turned the tables on her when she found out about your side chicks. She didn't expect that. Hence her reaction.
The two of you were a toxic mix.

[cascadecombo]

Those hot BPD girls are an addictive poison.

Reading that makes a guy remember his own experiences with that, something that has caused more than a few of us to find places like this.

[XXL]

(12-26-2016 07:23 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  

Please always

1. Trust your gut
2. Watch all red flags
3. Screen, Screen, Screen.
4. Do not get attached woman/people you barely know

This is hard. Those BPD girls have some kind of power over me as if I had Achilles' heel. I still tend to ignore all the signals. I guess that should be my new year resolution.

(12-26-2016 07:23 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  

How do you kick a crazy girl out of your place? (By not letting any crazy girls come to your spot right?)

First and foremost stay calm at all times. It's hard but if you want to make it as quick as possible you have to fight the urge.

Do not bite any topic. She's likely to throw everything she has at you to provoke you. Do not do it. Just keep repeating she needs to leave now.

In extreme cases tell her you can talk to her outside and then you orchestrate things to leave her somewhere outside and bail.

[Captain Gh]

Sht this kinda reminded me of some old school Tucker tales! OP's the definition of a True Natural: Having this many Bitches, and all this Drama, is the norm for him! Just be careful my man.

[aar0nmaxw3ll]

When I see shit like this I can't help but laugh. There's a simple trick to take care of this. When you decide the first time you want her out of your life, you tell her flat out (or anyone for that matter), then you proceed to ignore them. That's it. Ignore the fucking hell out of them. If you give them literally 0 attention, they get bored and go away. They find someone else to project their bullshit on. Even if they are hitting you up for a month straight. You have to stay firm and grounded, ignore the ever living fuck out of them. When you learn how to do this, negative people will literally disappear from your life.