[Bycicleguy]

So there is this girl I dated some time ago I always suspected she was seeing another guys, last week I saw some pictures of her on social media, and she looked very good, so I started to talk to her again and invited her out, she told me she was kind of busy, I know she gets money from her parents and barely does anything so I was like "yeah I'm pretty sure that your life must be very exhausting" and she laughed invited me to her house the next day I couldn't make it because the next day I was really tired.

Today I called her, I barely heard her voice and suddenly a guy picked up and asked on an aggressive way "who is this?" "what do you want?" I know "they always have a guy" but this was the first time I got confronted by the other guy, I just said I must have called the wrong person and hung up I heard him say something like "yeah right...". How do you handle this situations? to be honest I don't care too much about her to get into a fight, I assume if the guy picked up the phone he has an LTR with her or at least is attempting it. Should I forget about her?

[LeoneVolpe]

(12-12-2016 06:44 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

So there is this girl I dated some time ago I always suspected she was seeing another guys, last week I saw some pictures of her on social media, and she looked very good, so I started to talk to her again and invited her out, she told me she was kind of busy, I know she gets money from her parents and barely does anything so I was like "yeah I'm pretty sure that your life must be very exhausting" and she laughed invited me to her house the next day I couldn't make it because the next day I was really tired.

Today I called her, I barely heard her voice and suddenly a guy picked up and asked on an aggressive way "who is this?" "what do you want?" I know "they always have a guy" but this was the first time I got confronted by the other guy, I just said I must have called the wrong person and hung up I heard him say something like "yeah right...". How do you handle this situations? to be honest I don't care too much about her to get into a fight, I assume if the guy picked up the phone he has an LTR with her or at least is attempting it. Should I forget about her?

Let's say you were successful at being able to get her out for drinks or something, what happens when this guy shows up unexpectedly because it turns out he's been secretly following her around town. This isn't about being "alpha" or "beta," it's about not having to potentially deal with some fucking unhinged douche just to try and snag some poon.

This is a disaster waiting to happen, forget about her and pursue some new prospects instead.

[Rocha]

(12-12-2016 06:44 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

So there is this girl I dated some time ago I always suspected she was seeing another guys, last week I saw some pictures of her on social media, and she looked very good, so I started to talk to her again and invited her out, she told me she was kind of busy, I know she gets money from her parents and barely does anything so I was like "yeah I'm pretty sure that your life must be very exhausting" and she laughed invited me to her house the next day I couldn't make it because the next day I was really tired.

Today I called her, I barely heard her voice and suddenly a guy picked up and asked on an aggressive way "who is this?" "what do you want?" I know "they always have a guy" but this was the first time I got confronted by the other guy, I just said I must have called the wrong person and hung up I heard him say something like "yeah right...". How do you handle this situations? to be honest I don't care too much about her to get into a fight, I assume if the guy picked up the phone he has an LTR with her or at least is attempting it. Should I forget about her?

Almost certainly is her boyfriend. A guy attempting it would not answer her phone.
You handled it good, do no insist in calling. Wait a few days and ask if she has boyfriend, just to confirm.

[Mufasa]

(12-12-2016 06:44 PM)Bycicleguy Wrote:  

Today I called her, I barely heard her voice and suddenly a guy picked up and asked on an aggressive way "who is this?" "what do you want?" I know "they always have a guy" but this was the first time I got confronted by the other guy, I just said I must have called the wrong person and hung up I heard him say something like "yeah right...". How do you handle this situations? to be honest I don't care too much about her to get into a fight, I assume if the guy picked up the phone he has an LTR with her or at least is attempting it. Should I forget about her?

Throw some gasoline in that fire man..

[Travesty]

Just text her:

"hey some fag answered your phone"

And see what happens...

[kaotic]

Send her a dick pic - works like a charm


For reals though, ignore this bitch and move on.

Why are you hitting up chicks you formerly dated anyways ?

[Leonard D Neubache]

"This is Ray from Ray's Plumbing. I'm calling about some pipe that needs to be laid."

[LeoneVolpe]

(12-13-2016 12:35 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

"This is Ray from Ray's Plumbing. I'm calling about some pipe that needs to be laid."

On a somewhat related note, if someone ever calls your phone by mistake or on purpose and asks to talk some girl's name, say "Oh, I'm sorry she can't come to the phone right now. She's got my dick in her mouth."

[Rawmeo]

Just next her. Letting another guy take the phone while you try to call her is plain disrespect and you shouldn't put up with that shit.

There are people paid to answer other people's phones, they are called secretaries.

[Suits]

Tell him that you just got your test results back from the STD clinic and you really need to talk to her as soon as possible.

[Snowplow]

Depending on the day of the week.

"Uh oh! I must have had my days mixed up. You must be her Thursday guy. I'll call her back on my day."

It's a bit on the cuckish side, but I bet it will get him thinking.

[Latan]

Next her.
Plenty of girls without a dude waiting to draw you a new face, and who has your name and phone number.

[Euphoria]

What kind of man text/calls his former gf? Desperate one.

You have to talk atleast 5 girls at the same time. This will reduce your desperation and improve her will to have sex with you. Trust me she will sense it if she is the only girl you are talking to. And women never give sex to those who most need it.

And final thing. Never think about what to text next. Her brain is small and fulled with emotions. She will never respond well to your carefully constructed text.

[Bycicleguy]

(12-13-2016 06:43 AM)Euphoria Wrote:  

What kind of man text/calls his former gf? Desperate one.

I guess it depends, I really never got into a fight with her, so I didn't have a strong reason to not call her, we just stopped hanging out because we worked at different hours which made really difficult for us to meet, since I just got free from some responsibility this days I figured "why not?" I guess I have a reason to not do it now, I don't really care about her that much, I was just curious about how most guys handle this kind of situations.

(12-12-2016 09:54 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  

Let's say you were successful at being able to get her out for drinks or something, what happens when this guy shows up unexpectedly because it turns out he's been secretly following her around town. This isn't about being "alpha" or "beta," it's about not having to potentially deal with some fucking unhinged douche just to try and snag some poon.

This is a disaster waiting to happen, forget about her and pursue some new prospects instead.

I think you are completely right, I haven't come across a jelous boyfriend before, I know if it was me I would just leave her and find another one, but I must always remember that there are some thirsty angry guys out there, who can't just talk to a new girl on the street.

[Uhondo]

Quote:

Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
"This is Ray from Ray's Plumbing. I'm calling about some pipe that needs to be laid."

Classic

[El Padrone]

This is Prince Harambe Chacho from Nigeria. The $50B is ready to be transferred to your GF's account. Please send the details and a 'processing fee' of $10,000.

[Steve McQueen]

I say forget her, that type of girl will never be someone your going to 100% trust. If shes lying to him about you, who knows how many others there have been or are likely to be in the future. Its not worth the headache or the heartache.

IMO it defo sounds like a boyfriend being lied to and cheated on, you should feel sorry for him and be thankful you aint him. He did you a favor.

[cbased]

Why did you hung up? if he is her boyfriend, she should tell you by herself, but since you hung up you lost your frame so move on.