[Lunostrelki]

The principles that govern a communist movement hold true for the female psyche. On the surface they have this seductive, lofty ideology that just seems so correct and wonderful. They enlist followers to build powerful institutions to serve this ideology and bash anyone down who expresses doubt or disagreement. They maintain the appearance of a monolithic united front while secretly conspiring behind each others' backs to gain unspoken advantage. And in the end when everything comes down they are never at fault, only the flawed men who could not make the dream come true.

Just communists enslave and then abandon easy targets (starting with their founding constituents, the farmers and workers), but fail to destroy strong long-term rivals, a woman's deceptive pleas and complaints don't work against a man who sees through her and doesn't depend on her. By being unaffected, the man and his message become that much more attractive.

Following this, women can have intense empathy for men, but only so long as the circumstances make it seem like it's a good idea, like if she's watching a sad drama and there's sad music in the background while the male hero is being killed/beaten/betrayed, or if she's being directly exposed to the consequences of her man suffering and she feels a need to stick with him. In this case her man's misfortune becomes her own.

[armenia4ever]

Some pretty insightful posts on this thread.

My theory is that it has something to do with the effect emotions have on women and how it shapes their perspective of the world around them - specifically gender relations and responsibilities.

If we men aren't going through as much emotional stress, pain, etc than we apparently don't have it has hard as they do. Whoops. Since I'll never be pregnant, my crises and troubles in life just aren't as bad. It's a very innate set of "glasses" that they don't realize they wear, thus it's hard for them to realize what men face.

Also realize women primarily use far more words then men do on a daily basis - on average. This means that they are able to describe their problems in various and repeated ways to emphasize just how bad their plight may be at a specific time.

Men often don't gripe about their plights as much - speaking generally - and don't use as many words or even talk about it. Women however constantly talk to their friends and family about their situations in the most emotionally stirring ways possible. We refer to this often as "gossip", but forget the negative connotation.

It's more of a rite of passage where they reveal "secret" details of their problems in life and therefore create a kind of trust with other women and people who are moved by trouble that create an emotional response. I'd say it simply nature at work.

[John Michael Kane]

Weak women (if pleasant and/or hot enough) engender a man's desire to be the hero or rescuer. Weak men just piss off other men, because they drag down the tribe and risk the safety of the other men.

Simply put, society has always, and will always tolerate some level of weakness in women that they can't afford to in men. All the complaining in the world won't change that. What really matters is that the men keep the women from using emotional outbursts when it isn't called for.

[wi30]

Does your dog know that women are swiping left on you all day? Does your dog care about how an engine functions or how a website is built? No, it only cares about being with you and getting your love and affection. It assumes you're the greatest person in the world and everyone else agrees. It doesn't see the blood, sweat, or tears you've put into your development as a man. It thinks you always were and always will be the coolest dude ever.

Same with a girl that falls for you. Girls don't want to know what moves the world or which policies will improve the economy. She thinks along the lines of your dog. She just wants to be with you and receive your affection. She thinks every chick out there is begging for your seed and sees you in the same light she sees you in. She doesn't know that you went through a 4 month dryspell or minor depression last winter. When she's smitten, she assumes you're the greatest guy ever and every girl that you walk past is fawning over you.

I sometimes get approached by women when the girl I'm with goes to the bathroom. It confirms my girl's thought that every girl wants me. I rarely get approached when I'm by myself or out with buddies. If you're in a relationship, the dread game is built in by going out in public with your girl.

Don't show her the man behind the curtain, let her keep her fantasy. It will make both of you happier.

(12-06-2016 07:07 AM)Suits Wrote:  

While I'm not ugly, I'm also not particularly good looking.

Boy, you can say that again.

[Delta]

^Agreed on all points. Still, deep down I wish there was some way to convey just how much struggle and rejection you've been through without permanently drying up the girl's pussy. It leaves an empty spot when the person you're in a relationship with hardly knows the real you, and just sees the character you play of the cool, carefree guy who's effortlessly successful.

Aside from that, the shock on her face if she were to truly see the mind-boggling volume of rejection that even a successful, fit, attractive and likable (to her at least) man must slog through would be worth it alone. If girls were forced to appreciate this, their worldview would have to change at least a little.

[John Michael Kane]

Delta, if you must share a struggle, do it with a trusted male friend. He's been there and done that. He can understand your struggles. A woman is not the proper outlet for frequent showings of weakness or struggle. Men grow in strength in the shadow of good men.

[wi30]

Unfortunately, they will never comprehend a man's struggle. It's not in their nature. Continuing with the dog analogy, your yellow lab will never learn algebra no matter how bad you want it to. It just can't understand it.

Same with women. Instead of feeling resentful because you've struggled with chicks in the past, take up the mindset of being happy that you can land them. Most average dudes rarely get laid. Be excited that you're part of the minority of men who take what they want and live life on their own terms.

I can tell you're struggling with the last remnants of the blue pill. You want a broad to acknowledge the hard work you've put in. I've been there, I've been jaded, I've experienced exactly what you're talking about.

But right now, I'm seeing a girl who's foreign and feminine. She takes care of all my needs. I'm also meeting up with girls on tinder on the side. Whenever I'm out with my main girl, chicks happen to hit on me when she runs to the bathroom. Pre-selection and what not. I'll admit I don't cold approach as much as I should, but I have a fulfilling sex life and no longer have that "struggle". I have a ways to go but this forum has definitely pushed me in the right direction.

[Travesty]

Said this a long time ago.

Women don't want to know you improved. They hate that.

Remember the perfect man to mate with has amazing genes, and comes from amazing genes.

This means the ideal man to is ripped without working out or dieting, tall, athletic, and from a rich powerful family.

By having to struggle and improve you are showing just how weak your genes and family lineage are.

Cold hard razor sharp truth.

Hide your work and struggle as much as you can.

"Guess I been lucky girls have always been after me and life's always on Easy Street"

[StrikeBack]

(12-21-2016 01:50 AM)Delta Wrote:  

^Agreed on all points. Still, deep down I wish there was some way to convey just how much struggle and rejection you've been through without permanently drying up the girl's pussy. It leaves an empty spot when the person you're in a relationship with hardly knows the real you, and just sees the character you play of the cool, carefree guy who's effortlessly successful.

Aside from that, the shock on her face if she were to truly see the mind-boggling volume of rejection that even a successful, fit, attractive and likable (to her at least) man must slog through would be worth it alone. If girls were forced to appreciate this, their worldview would have to change at least a little.

Is it really about knowing "the real you" or is it about you still wanting women's approval and pat on the back?