I've been trying to up my social circle game in the past couple months, going out to concerts and events in the city each weekend that tend to attract the same regular crowd of people. Being the somewhat experienced player that I am, I do the things I've read here: find the "cool guys" who seem to have some status and engage with them, play the drama queens and losers to the left, and mostly ignore the girls.
Results have been pretty good and I've met a couple of guys I would legit consider friends where we'd probably come through for each other in a pinch, which is great as I've had trouble meeting people since I got back to this area (well, aside from flakey online dating sluts.)
I don't use it much, but unfortunately Facebook seems to have become a part of social circle game these days. But it seems my "relaxed cool mystery guy" game has paid off a bit there as well, as a few girls I seen around and maybe talked with once or twice have been stalking me down on the FB, sending me unsolicited friend requests and now solidly on team "like all the cool funny shit XPQ22 up to in his spare time, and who's that girl in the picture with him there, anyway? I've never seen her."
Not a whole lot, mind you, maybe three or four, but they're all solid WBs around ten years younger than I am. One cute thing in particular has been severely on my eDick in the past couple weeks, giving me the "+1" on every silly thing I post. Looks like she might have a little girl-oneitis.
It probably doesn't hurt that I've been in the best physical shape of my life recently and am dressing a lot better than I used to.
Like the good player that I am I've been ignoring it...at least for now. Scoped out her page and it looks like she's on the rebound from a crappy relationship. Some other chodes have been asking her out to dinner and shit on her wall but she's been blowing them out and still lists her status as "single." But we all know she's taking the D from someone when she's "single" for months. I don't see any reason it shouldn't be me.
Is the time ripe to "move on her like a bitch" as our fearless leader would say, and run my standard "Hey. I'm gonna be at xxx bar this weekend you should come" game on her, which has worked pretty well with many online randos? Well, I intend to give it a shot, anyway. I'd prefer to pitch the meet/venue change in person, but the few times I seen her out and about she's always with Team Orbiter and isolation is damn hard. I want to find out if she's down with the "secret society" as I've been doing my best to play the "chill non-judgemental drama-free guy" role in the circle, who lives far away, who's never going to tell off shit to her friends.
I plan on moving for it to set it up this weekend if she's down, any tips beyond what's to be found in the social circle game datasheet? She doesn't live anywhere near me, and I have little intel on what her logistics are like. Could be a problem, but nothing I haven't dealt with before. I wonder if the weekend after Thanksgiving is good or bad timing, I might want to wait until next. Will report back.
Oh, and I hope my main girl I met via online game doesn't find out - she'd probably be miffed (she gets miffed about a lot of things, including The Donald's election), but she knows we're not exclusive. Fortunately they're in completely different cliques, different areas of the city, and nobody knows each other. Scheduling issues, though.
Online game hitting up randos has really been in the fucking dumpster as of late. I'm definitely hoping to get some traction from my social circle efforts soon.
Results have been pretty good and I've met a couple of guys I would legit consider friends where we'd probably come through for each other in a pinch, which is great as I've had trouble meeting people since I got back to this area (well, aside from flakey online dating sluts.)
I don't use it much, but unfortunately Facebook seems to have become a part of social circle game these days. But it seems my "relaxed cool mystery guy" game has paid off a bit there as well, as a few girls I seen around and maybe talked with once or twice have been stalking me down on the FB, sending me unsolicited friend requests and now solidly on team "like all the cool funny shit XPQ22 up to in his spare time, and who's that girl in the picture with him there, anyway? I've never seen her."
Not a whole lot, mind you, maybe three or four, but they're all solid WBs around ten years younger than I am. One cute thing in particular has been severely on my eDick in the past couple weeks, giving me the "+1" on every silly thing I post. Looks like she might have a little girl-oneitis.
It probably doesn't hurt that I've been in the best physical shape of my life recently and am dressing a lot better than I used to.
Like the good player that I am I've been ignoring it...at least for now. Scoped out her page and it looks like she's on the rebound from a crappy relationship. Some other chodes have been asking her out to dinner and shit on her wall but she's been blowing them out and still lists her status as "single." But we all know she's taking the D from someone when she's "single" for months. I don't see any reason it shouldn't be me.
Is the time ripe to "move on her like a bitch" as our fearless leader would say, and run my standard "Hey. I'm gonna be at xxx bar this weekend you should come" game on her, which has worked pretty well with many online randos? Well, I intend to give it a shot, anyway. I'd prefer to pitch the meet/venue change in person, but the few times I seen her out and about she's always with Team Orbiter and isolation is damn hard. I want to find out if she's down with the "secret society" as I've been doing my best to play the "chill non-judgemental drama-free guy" role in the circle, who lives far away, who's never going to tell off shit to her friends.
I plan on moving for it to set it up this weekend if she's down, any tips beyond what's to be found in the social circle game datasheet? She doesn't live anywhere near me, and I have little intel on what her logistics are like. Could be a problem, but nothing I haven't dealt with before. I wonder if the weekend after Thanksgiving is good or bad timing, I might want to wait until next. Will report back.
Oh, and I hope my main girl I met via online game doesn't find out - she'd probably be miffed (she gets miffed about a lot of things, including The Donald's election), but she knows we're not exclusive. Fortunately they're in completely different cliques, different areas of the city, and nobody knows each other. Scheduling issues, though.
Online game hitting up randos has really been in the fucking dumpster as of late. I'm definitely hoping to get some traction from my social circle efforts soon.
