Quote: (11-02-2016 02:11 PM)John_Galt Wrote:
The bottom line is what I and others have said: Netflix and chill is the new "dinner and a movie". It's the chode date. Worse, it doesn't even give plausible deniability to her.
It's played out. If you're still using it, expect this to keep happening.
It had a good run. Just like peacocking had a good run. It's not to say it will NEVER work, but by continuing to use a played out tactic, you will notice a diminishing success rate.
In short, it's not the girl. It's not your game. It's the approach you took for the "date".
I don't agree that it's a chode date. Because it really isn't a date, you're literally meeting up, sitting on a bed or couch then smashing.
It's no dinner and a movie because, totally different vibe, that's comparing apples to oranges.
The right guy can still pull this off, especially if he's got amazing pictures and is a stud.
He might say it jokingly and the girl might jump on it.
But yeah, the average guy isn't pulling this off in a long shot.
I DO agree that it is played out and using has very low and diminishing returns.
The whole premise is about HOW you handle her response when she scoffs.
Rarely do you get a chick who will block you or not responde, most will take it as a joke, then the real game begins on how you respond, then reframe the meet up.