[Nineteen84]

London isn't the problem. I get laid here just fine and often the girls never even see my place - I go back to theirs. Maybe your life situation is affecting your confidence?

[subterfuge]

(11-02-2016 07:24 AM)Nineteen84 Wrote:  

London isn't the problem. I get laid here just fine and often the girls never even see my place - I go back to theirs. Maybe your life situation is affecting your confidence?

Tinder? And is it mainly with tourists?

I live a little outside London but I never get laid either, lol

[Nineteen84]

(11-02-2016 07:29 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

(11-02-2016 07:24 AM)Nineteen84 Wrote:  

London isn't the problem. I get laid here just fine and often the girls never even see my place - I go back to theirs. Maybe your life situation is affecting your confidence?

Tinder? And is it mainly with tourists?

I live a little outside London but I never get laid either, lol

Right now both Tinder and real world. The girls are British girls, tourists, au pairs, whatever (24-31). I'm definitely having to play the numbers game.

Tinder:
I gave up on Tinder for a while but decided to give it another shot. I try to move it offline asap to filter out time wasters looking just to chat. Previously, I didn't push for the date/meet soon enough. Anyway these girls get easier to spot over time and you can just get rid of once you cut to the chase and stop bullshitting yourself.

I've met a couple of decent girls off Tinder during the last month or so. Others included a flake, one obviously using Tinder for freebies, a girl which didn't match her profile at all and another one I messed up the vibe with a moment of bad game. You live and you learn. So 2 out of 6 or so tinder dates turned out well which I'm happy with.

Logistics - I'm happy for them to come to mine but I prefer to push for their place to reduce potential future drama. Don't make not having your own place an excuse.

Tinder is a lazy game but good ROI once you meet.

Still prefer offline as it's one less layer of BS to deal with and you're not the 'Guy from Tinder'.


How many new girls are you talking to a week? Online? Offline?