[adamf133]

Hey just thought I'd post this as I've noticed that since I've come back to my home city of London(travelled Peru and brazil - got laid a lot of course) it's becoming a joke to get laid.
I've been on about 12 dates since I've been back and not laid a single girl - granted I'm at my mums place so logistics are shit but the 8 i kiss closed they have their own place and never offer the sex even after 2,3,4,5,6 date. Also noticed a lot more bitchiness and less femininity with the women - was wondering if you find the same? I'm in good shape and easily kiss sexy women in clubs etc here and anywhere just wondering what's wrong with getting the bang = i personally think if i had my place would be sorted but fuck spending £1500 a month for a shitty studio in london - that pays for endless escorts and a return flight to Amsterdam every month!
fuck i wonder what i'm doing here!

[Mr. Ripley]

Read the forum rules bro.

[Valentine]

Yes London generally has less feminine women compared to South America but not being able to get laid after 6 dates is completely down to you.

You need to take yourself to the newbie forum, use the search button vigorously and read Bang.

[kmhour]

I feel like the trolls aren't really even trying anymore. It's disappointing.

[adamf133]

(10-31-2016 11:50 PM)Mr. Ripley Wrote:  

Read the forum rules bro.

sure - what are the rules / do wrong?

[GlobalMan]

(10-31-2016 11:37 PM)adamf133 Wrote:  

granted I'm at my mums place so logistics are shit

Indeed that is going to cause problems.

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but the 8 i kiss closed they have their own place and never offer the sex even after 2,3,4,5,6 date.

What do mean by never offer? If you're waiting for a girl to ask if you want to go back to her place and bang you're not going to get very far. You need to make it happen.

6 dates and nothing isn't normal, especially multiple instances of it. If a girl is meeting up with you 3,4,5,6 times it means she has interest. How did the situations play out? What were you saying and doing? How did you lead the interactions, if you did at all? Something isn't adding up.

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i personally think if i had my place would be sorted

Well you are answering your own question, this is part of the problems you face and until you change that situation it will continue to hinder you to a degree.

The other part of the problem is whatever you're saying/doing on these dates, because those results are abnormal anywhere, including London.

[Cattle Rustler]

All these guys that say "[X hot city*] sucks!!!" makes me questions them.

You have tons of prime options, fine bitches, yet people complain. If it sucks it's probably because you** suck.

I can't imagine some dude at fine dining spots who lives in a prime spot having a bad time with sluts. Peru is better than London? LOL, that's all I needed to hear. Say no more homie. I'll take London over Peru anytime.

* - LA, NYC, London, MIA
** - Your bankroll, game, frame, logistics

[adamf133]

(11-01-2016 12:18 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(10-31-2016 11:37 PM)adamf133 Wrote:  

granted I'm at my mums place so logistics are shit

Indeed that is going to cause problems.

Quote:

but the 8 i kiss closed they have their own place and never offer the sex even after 2,3,4,5,6 date.

What do mean by never offer? If you're waiting for a girl to ask if you want to go back to her place and bang you're not going to get very far. You need to make it happen.

well i'm kissing them touching their ass tits etc and ask them to go back to thier place but no.. this carries on until the 3rd 4th or even 5th then i either end it or them!
6 dates and nothing isn't normal, especially multiple instances of it. How did the situations play out? What were you saying and doing? How did you lead the interactions, if you did at all?
loads of sexual energy etc

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i personally think if i had my place would be sorted

Well you are answering your own question, this is part of the problems you face and until you change that situation it will continue to hinder you to a degree.
yea i guess and can agree - just a shame i'm living in the most expensive place on earth and simply not willing to spend 2 thousand dollers to live in a small apartment
The other part of the problem is whatever you're saying/doing on these dates, because those results are abnormal anywhere, including London.

[adamf133]

(11-01-2016 12:22 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

All these guys that say "[X hot city*] sucks!!!" makes me questions them.

You have tons of prime options, fine bitches, yet people complain. If it sucks it's probably because you** suck.

I'm trying to get laid while not paying £1500 a month to live in a box = yea at my mums place!! and i kiss close endless fit women here butnot on the same level as s america or easyness

I can't imagine some dude at fine dining spots who lives in a prime spot having a bad time with sluts. Peru is better than London? LOL, that's all I needed to hear. Say no more homie. I'll take London over Peru anytime.


* - LA, NYC, London, MIA
** - Your bankroll, game, frame, logistics

[adamf133]

I guess it comes down to mainly logistics - but there's no question london women play the long game for less quality/ i really can't see the benefit in paying crazy money for a small apartment to get laid here when that money pays for a return flight to Medellin - rent and drinks for over a month.

[GlobalMan]

Something isn't adding up.

[Lagavulin]

Without stating the obvious - if you refuse to pay / can't afford your own place in London you need to move. Finding somewhere you can have a better quality of life should be your first priority.

If you like London you need to figure out a way to earn more money. If you don't like London consider your options. When you become a man living with your parents ceases to be an option.

Sort your shit out then worry about girls.

How old are you?

What do you do for a living?

[Cattle Rustler]

Have you tried meeting up near their home? What is their living situation? When is mom not around? Can you get a place on airbnb?

Ask them where they live and then try to set up something nearby. If you can't do that I'd do a quick first date, get them hot and bothered, then leave. That way they'll want you and they'll be okay with you coming over.

Saying "i really can't see the benefit in paying crazy money for a small apartment to get laid here when that money pays for a return flight to Medellin"....is not what a guy in Medellin would say. They wouldn't say "Fuck this, I can go to Bolivia or Caracas instead of dishing out drinks like the gringos". Do you think your situation could be better if you had a home? Like Lagavulin said, move...but don't say London is a nightmare because it's not.

[Suits]

OP, how many targets have you hug-closed since moving back into your mom's spare closet?

[Lagavulin]

(11-01-2016 12:50 AM)Suits Wrote:  

OP, how many targets have you hug-closed since moving back into your mom's spare closet?

[sterling_archer]

Can't believe what is with these guys saying their MEGALOPOLIS sucks. Really? So much opportunity for everything and still complaining.

[Kieran]

I'd probably just stop the physical escalation while you're out, and just say whatever it takes to get back to her place without a sexual context. Then once back you can escalate physically.

[Alick]

(10-31-2016 11:37 PM)adamf133 Wrote:  

(travelled Peru and brazil - got laid a lot of course) it's becoming a joke to get laid.

My observation after reading your post:

1) You are financially not stable (bcoz you living with mum). That's a big no no for any girl who is after a relation or even for a casual hookup.
2) You complained you didn't get laid after so many dates. I can see the problem miles away. Problem is in you. Rather than complaining, do something to change.
3) You brag about getting laid in South America. I am sure with this attitude, you didn't get laid even there. Most you did was banged some hookers.

[Mercenary]

(10-31-2016 11:37 PM)adamf133 Wrote:  

I've been on about 12 dates since I've been back and not laid a single girl - granted I'm at my mums place so logistics are shit but the 8 i kiss closed they have their own place and never offer the sex even after 2,3,4,5,6 date.

Offer ?






OFFER ?!



No girl in history ever "offers" sex the first few times she dates a new guy.
She might give you a million different types of subtle opportunities for you to isolate her and escalate further on her body, but she will NEVER, EVER offer directly.


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[Kieran]

His financial situation isn't ideal but London is full of people living at home that are getting laid. It's obviously mainly a game issue not a financial issue.

[Cattle Rustler]

Where are you from OP? I just noticed you wrote "offer the sex".

[Phoenix]

I'd like to visit this place where women offer the sex. Please PM.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(11-01-2016 12:17 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Where are you from OP? I just noticed you wrote "offer the sex".

[ivansirko]

OP,

I wonder what you are doing here too.

[TornadoByProxy]

(11-01-2016 12:15 AM)adamf133 Wrote:  

(10-31-2016 11:50 PM)Mr. Ripley Wrote:  

Read the forum rules bro.

sure - what are the rules / do wrong?

RVF is not a P4P site. Take your escorts somewhere else.

Use the search. Bitching about London does not require a new thread.

Spend 6 months in the newbie forum before you start another thread.

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