Posts: 486
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2016
Reputation:
11
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 01:35 AM
I hooked up with a girl I met on online (met her in the ROK comments section, believe it or not) last summer. Solid 9. I had been talking to her for several months before driving out to meet her. We hooked up but she would not let me go all the way (which honestly was my fault for not pressuring her enough).
For about a week after we hooked up, we would text back and forth until late at night, with her initiating the convo the first 3 or 4 times (she was into ROK and red-pill stuff). However, one morning she abruptly gets pissed at me for “keeping her up too late.” The next day she says she feels “weird” about hooking up and that she doesn’t want to talk anymore. I (stupidly) text her again a few days later, and she surprisingly responds well and stays up late talking to me again, only to get pissed again the next morning and block my number. I told her over facebook that I didn’t need this BS, and that I would leave her alone and maybe text her in a few months, to which she replied “you should do that.”
I fully admit that I failed to keep a good frame the last couple times we talked, due to me being confused by her sudden erratic behavior.
It’s been 3 months, and she kept me as a friend on facebook throughout the whole time. However, she abruptly deleted me at some point within the last week or so. Would it even be worth messaging her again at this point, or would I just end up looking stupid?
Posts: 95
Threads: 0
Joined: Apr 2014
Reputation:
3
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 02:27 AM
No. In general, if you are thinking if you should message a girl or not, you shouldn't.
Posts: 2,981
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2016
Reputation:
24
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 02:30 AM
So you met over Disqus? How did that work, there is no private messages there, all can see them?
Posts: 2,981
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2016
Reputation:
24
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 02:54 AM
Interesting as you put your email in the comments section, anybody could see it and message you instead of her. Doesn't really matter as it clearly she was "real".
Posts: 486
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2016
Reputation:
11
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 04:27 AM
It is not under "rob banks" it is under "dick johnson."
PS did you seriously post all my disqus posts on here? can you get rid of that?
Posts: 2,981
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2016
Reputation:
24
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 04:46 AM
Jesus, why copy all that here
Posts: 486
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2016
Reputation:
11
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 05:14 AM
That picture is OBVIOUSLY not her. That picture is obviously shot by a professional photographer.
I would post a picture of her, but I'm not trying to have people from here do a reverse image look-up, find this girl's facebook, and start messaging her saying that some RVF guy is talking about her. Plus, I don't exactly want to look at her face right now.
You want to think I'm a troll? Go right ahead. I literally just proved that my story adds up, and you're still looking to poke holes in it by pointing out that her fucking disqus avatar is a famous model.
You really think I was talking to some supermodel in the comments section of an ROK article, and then just decided to lie and say I hooked up with her?
I'm gonna be pissed if I get banned over this shit. I'm not fucking trolling and I just proved it.
Posts: 486
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2016
Reputation:
11
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 05:38 AM
I would appreciate if you would at least take down the image with the girl's disqus handle and avatar. I really don't want people from here going and messaging her on disqus about this thread.
Posts: 66
Threads: 0
Joined: Jul 2016
Reputation:
0
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 02:06 PM
Hmm.
She heard Roosh through media, then found ROK. She started reading articles, and wanted to take a bite of '' red pill guy(s) ''. She wondered what would the outcome with these ''Red pill guy(s)''. So wanted to meet one of them(?) through comment section. And you, become her plaything easily. Failied all of her shit-test. Even specially designed shit-test. She then ghosted with the huge confidence boost comes from playing with ''red pill guy(s) '' like cat does with mouse.
TL;DR
She wanted to try ''red pillage guy(s)'' , found you, disliked you, ghosted. Then your further efforts convinced her to make you one of her orbiters.
Posts: 989
Threads: 0
Joined: Jul 2014
Reputation:
9
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 06:08 PM
OP, you spent time texting her late at night, instead of only arranging meetings.
Texts are not usefull to seduce, you must do that in person.
To me, you put yourself into the "best gay friend" role.
After that, she blocked your number and you continued talking to her on Facebook.
Bad combinaison of scarcity mentality and pedestralisation.
She has lost all attraction towards you, at this point.
Move on to the next prospect, don't repeat the same mistakes.
Posts: 686
Threads: 0
Joined: Oct 2014
Reputation:
4
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 09:55 PM
OP, it was all the way downhill after meeting in person. As another poster said, what do you think can happen now? A bang? Get real.
You should have tried to meet her sooner. After not getting the bang, you should have pulled back and reassessed. Since it took so long for the first meeting to happen, what were the prospects of seeing her again anytime soon? The long text exchanges were never a good idea. Later she she told you she wasn't keen on texting anymore and then BOOM! she blocks your number (were you paying attention?), then later deletes you on Facebook. Too much disrespect from one chick.
You are nothing in her eyes at this point - that's just how chicks see the world.
You should have moved on after her first tantrum.
Posts: 4,464
Threads: 0
Joined: Jul 2014
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-25-2016, 10:37 PM
Eagerly awaiting OP's datasheet on Discus Game.
Posts: 561
Threads: 0
Joined: Aug 2015
Reputation:
2
Should I even bother messaging this girl?
10-26-2016, 02:07 PM
OP "by hooked up", did you mean you banged her or didn't bang her?
If you banged her, plus the rest of the story (talking a lot for a week) it kinda sounds like she might have some feelings and came to the conclusion you didn't have feelings.