[Kukku]

So i really hope someone helps me about this. Im no expert on women thats why i came here for advice. Im only 18years old and in my country im legally ok to drink alcohol.

This week me and two of my friends met 3 girls in a club , one AUS, BRIT and the POL, and i decided to game the POL she was very teasey at first but on the second encounter that is today she completely set loose, im talking about making out with her while she rubs my c0ck, biting stuff like that. After a while i told her straight and plainly that i didnt want anything serious i just wanted to have fun. Couple hours later we were at my friends place and we ended up in the bedroom. I started (after some resistance) to undress her , foreplay etc.. exactly when i got my c0ck inside it hadnt been 5 sec she told me "i dont wanna be another bitch u just fuck at the first day" and i told her "you said you just wanted to have fun no relationships no love stuff" after that she kept on talking and all i could hear was blah blah blah. I dressed up again and just got out and went home.

i recieved these texts

Text 1 : POL: "wtf is your problem only cause im not like another bitch who fucks just like that , if that was your point just to fuck me then go on :*"

I didnt respond

Text 2: POL: "just talk to me dont be childish i stayed in XYZ for you coz i thought you were a nice guy i could have gone to ABC with the other one dont be an asshole text me"

as i was gonna text her she calls and says

POL: wanna come to EFG and talk it out ? i just dont want to be a bitch
ME : you told me a hundred times that u just wanted to have fun and u didnt give a fuck about me i accepted that and i told you that i wanted to just have fun
POL: so u dont wanna talk?
ME: Ill call u tomorow im not in the mood for talking right now

Text 3: Sorry but i thought u liked me more then a fuck but if u wanted just to fuck a girl then sorry for destroying your night u dont need to call me tomorrow.

And this was supposed to be my first foreign flag -.- now what?

[boxwino]

Quote:

Text 1 : POL: "wtf is your problem only cause im not like another bitch who fucks just like that , if that was your point just to fuck me then go on :*"

To this, off the top, I'd probably respond with something like: Perfect. Im not just another disposable piece of dick.

But its more attitude than response. Start laughing off crappy attitudes, regardless of what you think your mindset might be, you are coming off like a wounded animal which is just bad fucking news dude. Also don't hit her with logic during the LMR phase, that is some guaranteed nuclear powered failure level stuff, all you are doing is giving her excuses a valid reality. Agree verbally (logically), keep pushing physically. Pull the emotional escalation card if need be. Still an issue then just start doing something else or go cold on her. The problem is not her, it's you. She just needed a little push, a little help from you to make things happen. You have now become a representation of every single excuse she had logically and you validated every reason she had in her head for not sleeping with you.

[Samseau]

Naw there is an easy fix to this,

Ignore what she says,

Game her so she meets up with you,

Fuck her relentlessly no matter what bullshit she pulls.

Quote:

exactly when i got my c0ck inside it hadnt been 5 sec she told me "i dont wanna be another bitch u just fuck at the first day" and i told her "you said you just wanted to have fun no relationships no love stuff" after that she kept on talking and all i could hear was blah blah blah.

Right here you should have just started kissing her and kept fucking her. Don't listen to these girls, you're falling for the illusion that she is special or something. Nope, she's just another hole for your dick.

Quote:

POL: wanna come to EFG and talk it out ? i just dont want to be a bitch
ME : you told me a hundred times that u just wanted to have fun and u didnt give a fuck about me i accepted that and i told you that i wanted to just have fun
POL: so u dont wanna talk?

And right here you should have responded, "We can talk but I don't want to deal with any more issues."

[Roosh]

She just wanted assurance that you don't see her as a slut. You did not give her that assurance.

Quote:

"i dont wanna be another bitch u just fuck at the first day"

1. Say "You're not."
2. Enjoy the bang.

[Kukku]

i tried roosh but she continued talkin :/

thx samseau im gonna meet her this week so that i can teach her how to "dance"

thx for the advice very much appreciated.

[Gmac]

(08-09-2011 05:20 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

She just wanted assurance that you don't see her as a slut. You did not give her that assurance.

Quote:

"i dont wanna be another bitch u just fuck at the first day"

1. Say "You're not."
2. Enjoy the bang.

It's as easy as that. Sometimes it takes a bit of back and forth.

[Roosh]

In your report it doesn't appear you did that. You kept reiterating that you just wanted to have "fun", which is the same as saying "I see you as a slut."

[Kukku]

(08-10-2011 12:34 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

In your report it doesn't appear you did that. You kept reiterating that you just wanted to have "fun", which is the same as saying "I see you as a slut."

you are right roosh even my father said i was stupid for telling her that

[wi30]

(08-08-2011 10:26 PM)Kukku Wrote:  

exactly when i got my c0ck inside it hadnt been 5 sec

And this was supposed to be my first foreign flag -.- now what?

You technically got the flag.

Just go back and earn it.