So I went out this saturday and joined a group of 2 good (male) friends, and 5 girls who I didn't know. Basically social circle.
I sat next to a girl (a 6, maybe 7 on her best day), whom I talked to casually throughout the night. She laughed at my shitty jokes. Wasn't really gaming her to be honest, didn't expect anything from it. I interacted more with my friends, because I hadn't seen them in quite a while.
Towards the end of the night, I ask for her instagram. She gave her instagram and I added her. Probably should have gone for the number, but figured this would be less direct. From what I could see quickly she didn't have many followers (sub 100), but did have a lot of pictures. Furthermore, she probably had a kid, which I'm fine with. When I looked again the next day I could tell she did a little cleaning up, as she had much less pictures and the kid wasn't there any longer.
Anyway, I had to go. So I got up and greeted her, told her I needed to go. Then she says: I hope we see each other again. That's when it hit me that she's actually interested and I probably should have gone for the number. I replied: I'll contact you on instagram. She smiled and knodded.
I let it cool down for a couple of days. Fast forward to last night, I message her through instagram: hey whats up. After that nothing but silence.
I was pretty confident I had this one in the bag. Where did I mess up?
I sat next to a girl (a 6, maybe 7 on her best day), whom I talked to casually throughout the night. She laughed at my shitty jokes. Wasn't really gaming her to be honest, didn't expect anything from it. I interacted more with my friends, because I hadn't seen them in quite a while.
Towards the end of the night, I ask for her instagram. She gave her instagram and I added her. Probably should have gone for the number, but figured this would be less direct. From what I could see quickly she didn't have many followers (sub 100), but did have a lot of pictures. Furthermore, she probably had a kid, which I'm fine with. When I looked again the next day I could tell she did a little cleaning up, as she had much less pictures and the kid wasn't there any longer.
Anyway, I had to go. So I got up and greeted her, told her I needed to go. Then she says: I hope we see each other again. That's when it hit me that she's actually interested and I probably should have gone for the number. I replied: I'll contact you on instagram. She smiled and knodded.
I let it cool down for a couple of days. Fast forward to last night, I message her through instagram: hey whats up. After that nothing but silence.
I was pretty confident I had this one in the bag. Where did I mess up?