I got my 4th instant date just today during my EE trip. The first 3.
1) Ukrainian girl who was on a one day trip to Vilnius. We made out but no lay as logistics were bad
2) A Bulgarian Jewish girl. Very smart. She outplayed me in my own game. Nothing happened but I learned a lot from it.
3) A Slovakian girl when I was in Bratislava. She had to go to work early the next day so I did not push for the venue change. My mistake for not taking it further despite her signs of interest. I kissed her quickly in the end.
And just this evening I met a Dutch-Swiss girl in Belgrade who is traveling just like me. She was in the restaurant I was eating and we started chatting and making some connections. I built a lot of comfort. Once I finished eating we moved to another bar. She compiled. We started drinking and I decided to escalate physically. She was a bit repulsive. Then she explained abotu her experience of being harassed in Sri Lanka and how it makes her think of that when I touch her(I am a dark skinned guy of Indian origins). She told she would feel ok if some other guy touches her like that.
In the end, we decided to leave the bar as she was tired. She gave me her number and we said we can meet tomorrow. We started walking to my room holding hands.Her grip was tight which I take as a good sign. She even came to the reception of my hostel to see if there is any place for the next night(I booked a private room to make things easy). I decided not to escalate any further as I have no experience in this kind of situation. She even asked me whether I want her number and checked my msg in watsaap to confirm my number. We hugged when she was about to leave and I decided to kiss her. She giggled and turned her face, so I kissed her cheeks. I said see you tomorrow and she left.
Here are my questions(If I do see her again tomorrow which I think has a 50/50 chance):
1) How do I escalate her despite her experience? Do I do more verbal escalations? If yes any ideas or examples?
2)I never been on a 2nd date with a girl? Do I start all over again?
3) Any ideas on physical escalation and how subtle I can do it? I haven't had this kind of problem on the previous dates I had.
P/S : I didn't meant this to be seen as a racist post or thread. But we know that race matters in pick up. Any help will be appreciated.
Thanks
1) Ukrainian girl who was on a one day trip to Vilnius. We made out but no lay as logistics were bad
2) A Bulgarian Jewish girl. Very smart. She outplayed me in my own game. Nothing happened but I learned a lot from it.
3) A Slovakian girl when I was in Bratislava. She had to go to work early the next day so I did not push for the venue change. My mistake for not taking it further despite her signs of interest. I kissed her quickly in the end.
And just this evening I met a Dutch-Swiss girl in Belgrade who is traveling just like me. She was in the restaurant I was eating and we started chatting and making some connections. I built a lot of comfort. Once I finished eating we moved to another bar. She compiled. We started drinking and I decided to escalate physically. She was a bit repulsive. Then she explained abotu her experience of being harassed in Sri Lanka and how it makes her think of that when I touch her(I am a dark skinned guy of Indian origins). She told she would feel ok if some other guy touches her like that.
In the end, we decided to leave the bar as she was tired. She gave me her number and we said we can meet tomorrow. We started walking to my room holding hands.Her grip was tight which I take as a good sign. She even came to the reception of my hostel to see if there is any place for the next night(I booked a private room to make things easy). I decided not to escalate any further as I have no experience in this kind of situation. She even asked me whether I want her number and checked my msg in watsaap to confirm my number. We hugged when she was about to leave and I decided to kiss her. She giggled and turned her face, so I kissed her cheeks. I said see you tomorrow and she left.
Here are my questions(If I do see her again tomorrow which I think has a 50/50 chance):
1) How do I escalate her despite her experience? Do I do more verbal escalations? If yes any ideas or examples?
2)I never been on a 2nd date with a girl? Do I start all over again?
3) Any ideas on physical escalation and how subtle I can do it? I haven't had this kind of problem on the previous dates I had.
P/S : I didn't meant this to be seen as a racist post or thread. But we know that race matters in pick up. Any help will be appreciated.
Thanks