Hey guys I'm klopzoid, I'm new here! After browsing the forums for the past two weeks awaiting activation, I finally found an opportunity to ask a serious question that I have had problems with before.
On Tuesday or Wednesday night, I will be getting high after work with a rather attractive female co-worker in her vehicle. Then we will go to my vehicle, and proceed to eat or whatever. My dilemma is that I have had situations like this before, and am not exactly sure how to escalate. There is no chance of going to my or her house, and I will be leaving soon for university. Therefore my goal, ultimately, would be to engage in some good old car sex
So, considering the logistics of this scenario, anyone have any thoughts? My main concerns are:
What would be the best way to make a direct sexual move, be it a makeout or some type of definitive physical contact?
What actions, both physical and verbal, should I aim for to set the tone or mood of our interaction?
When in the night would be the best time to make my move (While rolling the weed in her vehicle/ While smoking in her vehicle/ After smoking in her vehicle/ In parking lot while transitioning to my vehicle/ Before eating in my vehicle/ After Eating in my vehicle)?
I apologize if it seems I am over analyzing the scenario. It is just that this girl consistently flirts with me at work and I have done a pretty good job at maintaining a decent level of sexual tension between us. I can steer myself into scenarios similar to this quite often but have always been hindered when isolated by self-doubt, thus causing my vibe to change and making me afraid to escalate and worst of all not be the person that got me into such a pleasant situation. I decided that I would change that starting with this upcoming opportunity, especially since I more than likely won't see this girl at all anymore and will be going on to better things in college. Therefore it is not important to me if I get blown out/rejected/or if things go down south, I would simply like to have an idea of what my general game plan will be and start now to revert my fear of escalation.
Thank you guys in advance for the feedback, I will check here a few times in the upcoming days and post a report for analysis!
On Tuesday or Wednesday night, I will be getting high after work with a rather attractive female co-worker in her vehicle. Then we will go to my vehicle, and proceed to eat or whatever. My dilemma is that I have had situations like this before, and am not exactly sure how to escalate. There is no chance of going to my or her house, and I will be leaving soon for university. Therefore my goal, ultimately, would be to engage in some good old car sex
So, considering the logistics of this scenario, anyone have any thoughts? My main concerns are:
What would be the best way to make a direct sexual move, be it a makeout or some type of definitive physical contact?
What actions, both physical and verbal, should I aim for to set the tone or mood of our interaction?
When in the night would be the best time to make my move (While rolling the weed in her vehicle/ While smoking in her vehicle/ After smoking in her vehicle/ In parking lot while transitioning to my vehicle/ Before eating in my vehicle/ After Eating in my vehicle)?
I apologize if it seems I am over analyzing the scenario. It is just that this girl consistently flirts with me at work and I have done a pretty good job at maintaining a decent level of sexual tension between us. I can steer myself into scenarios similar to this quite often but have always been hindered when isolated by self-doubt, thus causing my vibe to change and making me afraid to escalate and worst of all not be the person that got me into such a pleasant situation. I decided that I would change that starting with this upcoming opportunity, especially since I more than likely won't see this girl at all anymore and will be going on to better things in college. Therefore it is not important to me if I get blown out/rejected/or if things go down south, I would simply like to have an idea of what my general game plan will be and start now to revert my fear of escalation.
Thank you guys in advance for the feedback, I will check here a few times in the upcoming days and post a report for analysis!