[Belantozorius]

Hey guys,

is there a compilation of the types of fuck ups a guy could make?


I think 50% of good game is simply not to fuck up. unfortunately I tend to fuck up sometimes..I don't have much experience gaming women, but enough to attract and comfort. But my calibration might be a little off, or sometimes just because I push a little too far in attraction phase (too much pushing, not enough pulling)

So before trying to push the enveloppe, i'd rather have an idea if it simply something I should drop or if I should go with it.

[NapoleonDynamighty]

Creating a thread asking others to list their fuck ups without listing one's own first is one fuck up I can readily think of .

[Belantozorius]

(08-09-2016 09:28 AM)NapoleonDynamighty Wrote:  

Creating a thread asking others to list their fuck ups without listing one's own first is one one fuck up I can readily think of .

allright then:

I almost had a lock on this girl on Tinder. She was ready to see me that night.

I was really funny cocky (it was my birthday and openend up like : Hey we need some chick in a bikini inside my birthday cake, you're late)

Anyhow, It was a good vibe. She was even starting to feel self-aware like (I had 2 kids, my belly might not be the prettiest) I told her to nevermind, The mother of my kid also had some belly flaws after she delivered, it didn'T prevent me to desire to fuck her.


I went to read her profile a little deeper and saw that she was Bisexual.

I mentioned this to her and was fine and all...until at some point in the conversation I pushed a little too far like:Hey I'm afraid you're gonna actually bite my dick off... since you like girls (something to that effect)

She told me; That's the stupidest thinkg I've ever heard. You must have huge blue balls throwing this kind of bullshit to girls.

Tinder match gone...




Another fuck up is when I actully talk about red pill stuff with girls...And show my blog... I'm quite pushing the Neo-reactionary narrative (no-abortion and traditional family values). To be pro-life is like being a nazi...


Another one was my trip to cuba.. was escalating with this polish girl. IT was getting late, I had my Kitesurfing course to attend in the morning, we had kissed (actually she said that I kissed her but that she didn't kiss me.. funny)

Anyhow,. she was screening me at 2 am and I thought this was going to be a boring question and answer period.. drying up her pussy. So I just left and said, good nite, I don't have time for this.

The next days were quite dry with her...


Anyhow...

That's my 2 cents.

[Leonard D Neubache]

Starting threads without getting a few posts and reps under your belt is also a fuckup.

[Belantozorius]

(08-09-2016 09:50 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

Starting threads without getting a few posts and reps under your belt is also a fuckup.

We're in the newbie forum...And tried to find a similar thread without any luck.

So what's your point?

[Switch]

Belantozorius, a compilation of fuck-ups as an idea makes sense as a learning tool in theory, but in practice would be hard to actually gain much value from. This is because each mistake is very much contextual, and would be impossible to avoid because you would almost never find yourself in the same situation. Additionally, what may be a huge fuckup for one guy may have worked very well for another. Instead of trying to avoid individual fuckups that other people or yourself may have made, I recommend trying to focus on the macro issues in each situation.

For example about a year ago I had a girl over and she was giving me LMR and eventually said that she had to go home, and I asked her to please stay because I didn't have anything else to do that day. She proceeded to stand by the door waiting for me to take her home. I cringe about his now, but it was a learning experience. And it's not that I learned to not ask a girl to please stay because I had nothing else to do. I analyzed what went wrong, and realize I was acting needy and low-value. I basically told her "you are my only and best option right now." No girl wants to be your only and best option. So I took note of this for future interactions. "Don't ever let a girl think she is your only/best option, even if she is." This lesson will help me much more in the future than simply avoiding making the exact same mistake.

Also, realize that sometimes, even without a fuck-up, the girl is still going to be uninterested. Who knows, maybe there is no way you could have gotten with that Tinder chick? Make note of the mistake, and move on. Don't spend too much time dwelling on it.

TL;DR Analyze your mistakes to find the bigger issue (frame, neediness, etc) at hand, as this will have a much larger impact on your game ability than simply avoiding individual fuckups.

[Belantozorius]

all right found it

thread-42543.html

sorry guys.

[Saweeep]

I could write a book.

If you can't yet...get out there and learn/practice till you can!