Quote: (07-26-2016 01:49 PM)Travesty Wrote:
^ You can keep them around. I have kept pure fuck buddies around for years on the side so have many others.
Why does he know her roommate? Either the old or new? He should NEVER spend enough time to know them. In fact try to act distant. He helped with buying her clothes? Are you kidding? On a fuck buddy the most is buying a $20 pair of sexy panties maybe once a year for her. That's it!
If you want a pure fuck buddy for long periods --- avoid their social circle at all costs for all time. You should be a ghost and a mystery and a name her few close friends can barely remember.
Otherwise questions and comparisons come up.
Her entire social circle will try to sabotage you if they know you well and you aren't investing in her.
Be a fucking shadow.
For instance if you have ever taken a picture together in public you have already lost. If she asks for one at some point it is time to act distant and keep away from her for a week or more.
This whole thread is filled with tons of wisdom but I wanted to highlight this.
This is how I roll.
1. No pictures of me.
2. No pictures together.
3. Hang out in residence only; maybe the odd movie or something where I want company and some eye candy with me. Very rare. No walking me to the parking lot or whatever.
4. I don't ever buy them shit. In fact, I often drive to a chicks place (sometimes up to an hour away) and I'm offended if food isn't prepared/offered to me if I'm staying over. Some chicks don't seem to realize that a proper bang session eats up a lot of fuel as a man.
5. No meeting social circles - Did this before. Went great the first time but when things got a bit dicey with the chick, the social circle turned and made things worse.
And when I mean meeting, I mean ZERO face to face contact. I've had sneaky bitches try to being a friend "over for a minute to pick things up" - NOPE. Bring the shit they need outside or I'm leaving.
As far as anyone is concerned, I don't exist.
I will say I do bend or break the aforementioned guidelines a bit depending on the chick and how cool she is with FWB status. Some chicks are fairly content being FWBs and you can do more stuff with them and sometimes even mimic a LTR. However, some (I would say most) other chicks are always angling for a serious LTR and you must run a tight ship or they will do crazy shit like lash out at you on a dating website.