I think how a girl flakes matters. I have had situations were a girl has cancelled but they gave me as much advanced notice as possible and had a seemingly genuine sounding excuse (it could be true or it might be bullshit but the effort they put into the lie matters) and actually genuinely apologized and seemed remorseful and quickly and readily agreed to another time and date to meet.
Compare that to the "I don't give a fuck" flake where you can just tell that a girl just has contempt for you. If its the first case I say reschedule and give the girl a second chance (while as always having a plan B and being ready for her to flake again) whereas if its the second case I then just ignore her and delete her number. Arguing with her or telling her she is a cunt, etc is a waste of mental energy. Besides don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know you are angry. By ignoring her it hurts her feelings because it signals that you don't give a fuck about her and she ain't worth chasing or raging over. Also, deep down she probably already knows she is a worthless narcissistic cunt.
Also another important point to mention is that even if you do not have enough girls in your pipeline to double book a date still have a plan b and never schedule a date at a place where there is nothing to do. For example if its good weather schedule the date at the beach and if the girl doesn't come go for a walk along the beach and go for a swim or game some girls at the beach. Or for example speak to your friend the day before and say "I am supposed to meet this girl at 11:00 a.m. tomorrow but if she flakes on me I will give you a call and we can play some tennis?"
Never schedule a date that interferes with other important things in your life and always have a plan B.
I have called girls out for flaking in the past it never achieved anything. Especially in Western countries where women have zero sense of guilt or shame or empathy and their narcissistic hamsters are running on overdrive.
Not replying to their texts and deleting their number when they flake is the biggest insult you can give them. A second option is if you think the girl is likely to actually turn up if you reschedule the date, then reschedule the date (without calling out her behavior) and flake on her last minute or better yet pull a no show on her and ignore her texts. That will give her a taste of her own medicine.
Compare that to the "I don't give a fuck" flake where you can just tell that a girl just has contempt for you. If its the first case I say reschedule and give the girl a second chance (while as always having a plan B and being ready for her to flake again) whereas if its the second case I then just ignore her and delete her number. Arguing with her or telling her she is a cunt, etc is a waste of mental energy. Besides don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know you are angry. By ignoring her it hurts her feelings because it signals that you don't give a fuck about her and she ain't worth chasing or raging over. Also, deep down she probably already knows she is a worthless narcissistic cunt.
Also another important point to mention is that even if you do not have enough girls in your pipeline to double book a date still have a plan b and never schedule a date at a place where there is nothing to do. For example if its good weather schedule the date at the beach and if the girl doesn't come go for a walk along the beach and go for a swim or game some girls at the beach. Or for example speak to your friend the day before and say "I am supposed to meet this girl at 11:00 a.m. tomorrow but if she flakes on me I will give you a call and we can play some tennis?"
Never schedule a date that interferes with other important things in your life and always have a plan B.
I have called girls out for flaking in the past it never achieved anything. Especially in Western countries where women have zero sense of guilt or shame or empathy and their narcissistic hamsters are running on overdrive.
Not replying to their texts and deleting their number when they flake is the biggest insult you can give them. A second option is if you think the girl is likely to actually turn up if you reschedule the date, then reschedule the date (without calling out her behavior) and flake on her last minute or better yet pull a no show on her and ignore her texts. That will give her a taste of her own medicine.