[asdfk]

Can someone who picks up a few girls a week in bars shine some light on the practical implications of all the media discussions on consent? Are there practical issues and cultural differences compared to Europe I should be aware of?

I define consent as a willingness to participate in whatever we doing. Pretty common sense if you ask me. When I hear "no", "stop" or she pushes me away, that's when I stop. (but the last time this happened before sex is a long time ago, if she wants to reject me she does within the first ten minutes of talking)

Is this modus operandi enough to avoid legal problems? Especially dealing with impulsive girls in bar crowds who may regret their decisions or behaviour the next morning? Is audio recording a part of the interaction where she clearly states consent recommended? Are there other precautions I should take?

Take note that I don't do harm whatsoever, but I also want to be aware of cultural norms which are different then in Europe as to not run into trouble.

I'm looking for responses from guys who pickup around 2 girls a week in bars in the US, or guys with a legal background who have worked on this issue.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-17-2016 02:46 PM)asdfk Wrote:  

Can someone who picks up a few girls a week in bars shine some light on the practical implications of all the media discussions on consent? Are there practical issues and cultural differences compared to Europe I should be aware of?

I define consent as a willingness to participate in whatever we doing. Pretty common sense if you ask me. When I hear "no", "stop" or she pushes me away, that's when I stop. (but the last time this happened before sex is a long time ago, if she wants to reject me she does within the first ten minutes of talking)

Is this modus operandi enough to avoid legal problems? Especially dealing with impulsive girls in bar crowds who may regret their decisions or behaviour the next morning? Is audio recording a part of the interaction where she clearly states consent recommended? Are there other precautions I should take?

Take note that I don't do harm whatsoever, but I also want to be aware of cultural norms which are different then in Europe as to not run into trouble.

I'm looking for responses from guys who pickup around 2 girls a week in bars in the US, or guys with a legal background who have worked on this issue.

I guess it is an interesting question to figure out whether guys have changed their behavior.

I would be surprised if guys really change their behavior very much regarding this, except maybe to incorporate some pick up lines to play around with the topic. The audio recording could be made a bit funny, but who knows whether it would give sufficient protection? Sometimes certain actions and behaviors can create protections even when they are not legally binding because they kind of ensure folks are, more or less, on the same page.

Like you said, just from the interaction, you can get a pretty good sense regarding whether women are consenting or if they are being tricky with you.

[NapoleonDynamighty]

I am a bit paranoid on this topic especially after reading about the recent incidents regarding a couple of footballers in England who both although morally redundant were no criminals by any stretch.
I always save the chicks pre date slutty flirty texts and send / provoke confirmation texts right after on my way back via WhatsApp and then mail the entire conversation saved on my email. WhatsApp does a one click service for it.
Most of the times when the bitch flakes to get you into trouble is often a day or so after when the social pressure or guilt sinks in. So a nice ego massage text right after a ons always come in handy and help diffuses any tension. Let things fade and run its natural course without being a dick about anything.

[NapoleonDynamighty]

While audio proof might hold up in some courts of law given how ridiculously biased the judicial system is in favour of women in these cases and circumstances, shooting video proof with small hidden cameras might be worth considering. A small go pro hidden under a decorational camouflage in the flat does the trick and can secure audio and video alibi. However you risk getting done for filming without consent in that case which is still better and a less punishable offence.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-17-2016 06:27 PM)NapoleonDynamighty Wrote:  

While audio proof might hold up in some courts of law given how ridiculously biased the judicial system is in favour of women in these cases and circumstances, shooting video proof with small hidden cameras might be worth considering. A small go pro hidden under a decorational camouflage in the flat does the trick and can secure audio and video alibi. However you risk getting done for filming without consent in that case which is still better and a less punishable offence.

Yeah, but you can have fun with it too, no? Just get the girl to say that she is fully consenting to have sex with you and she has not been coerced in any way...

I understand that could screw up the vibe too, but it could also be fun... but would likely not apply in all circumstances to be able to fit something like that in to the foreplay.

[Ogunn]

Dude I wouldn't worry about this. My only advice is not to take a girl home that is drunk. By Drunk I mean slurring speech, having problems standing unassisted, etc. She may not remember how she got to your place or what you guys did the next morning.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-19-2016 05:04 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

Dude I wouldn't worry about this. My only advice is not to take a girl home that is drunk. By Drunk I mean slurring speech, having problems standing unassisted, etc. She may not remember how she got to your place or what you guys did the next morning.

There may be circumstances in which the facts seem that a girl is too drunk to consent, but I would not place a blanket rule upon myself regarding such situations. Maybe also an appropriate question would be whether you met the chick as she is already stumbling over drunk or if she willingly put herself into such a drunken status while in your presence? There are several other factors too, including her age, whether she is with friends, and maybe some of her behavior at various lucid moments..and maybe even your drunken state is likely going to be a factor, even though some of these legal entities seem to selectively forget that probably half of the population of rural america came from drunken states of being of both parties.

I also don't want to poo poo the whole idea regarding a chick's ability to consent, but many of us already know that some girls are not going to give it up, unless you get a few drinks in them. And, many of us know that some of these new legal developments regarding ability to consent seem to be going quite over the top in their nonsense ability to be arbitrarily enforced.

In the end, each of us will need to determine the extent to which we believe that we are taking too many chances because a girl appears that she might not be capable of consenting due to her drunkeness.. I would hate to miss an opportunity, merely because I had imposed some kind of nonsense blanket rule upon myself in internalizing too much of these unrealistic standards.

[Robert Plant]

I just talk sexy to girls. They give their verbal consent back. No problems. Just be cool and lead.

[asdfk]

I'm not talking about a lack of (verbal) consent, nor am I talking about girls who are shitfaced drunk.

I only bang girls who are not too drunk and let them verbally consent in some way or another before touching them. Also, if you have seen me in the field, you know I always lean back and game her until she starts escalating me. It looks like I'm getting picked up, not the other way around. This amount of compliance also limits buyers remorse the next day.

However. My concern is that when I fuck a girl, she gains tremendous legal powers in a state where you can convicted for merely the suggestion of rape.

Even if a girl goes with me in front of her friends, makes out with me in front of strangers and then asking me "to fuck her hard".... She could lliterally come around the day after and claim I forced myself on her. With not a lot of critical inquiry.

Yes, I have severe trust issues and yes, I'm paranoid on the brink of having a mental disorder. However, while noticing he unlikelihood of an event like this happening, when fucking 2 new girls a week thus 100 girls a year I'm bound to shoot my super juice in some bitches who are batshit crazy.

So my question is still which precautions I should take. Don't say "quit fucking" or other options that are out of the question. I'm looking for a legal standpoint as how to protect myself, or advice from someone who has the same hobby as me.

[DarkTriad]

Send text afterwards "Did u get home safe?"

After she answers (and establishes that she isn't under any kind of duress) ask her if she had as good a time as you did (establishes that she was an enthusiastic participant). SHE knows she wrote these things, she knows you have them, she'll be a lot less likely to cave into social pressure to hurt you.

One of my dear friends, nice as pie, made a blatantly false rape allegation against another friend of mine. Fucked his life/career for years even though it was obviously not true. Don't leave room for it to happen to you.

[iknowexactly]

(07-19-2016 11:39 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

Send text afterwards "Did u get home safe?"
....

One of my dear friends, nice as pie, made a blatantly false rape allegation against another friend of mine. Fucked his life/career for years even though it was obviously not true. Don't leave room for it to happen to you.

Wow , this story sound like something we could all benefit from hearing more detail about.

The close calls I've had were with girls who :

1) Mentioned being abused or raped in the past.
2) Just seemed very eccentric, over or under reacting emotionally to various stimuli/situations.
3) Hed Short hair ( Thanks to Roosh for pointing out this one.)
4) Discuss turbulent, on-and-off or conflicted relationships in their life.
5) Suddenly mention very early how you are special, others haven't understood her etc.. bond too early.

One time one sent me a text "Don't contact me again and delete my pictures." That sent a chill up my spine.

[Gpx90210]

Actually I've consulted an attorney who is my friend. He specializes in rape and self defense cases. A good guy to have in your phone book.

You have to be careful. I usually record at least a 30 second clip with the girl telling me to fuck her or something like that. That is probably your safest bet. He did state that the conditions for rape have to be there and have to be clear to a detective for charges to be brought. Did she text you after? What did it say? What time did she go to your place? Were there any witnesses? Did you stop by a store with cameras that saw her clearly holding on to you.

Or cameras in your house. I haven't had any problems yet and have been in some crazy situations. To be safe, get a video of you and her having a good time with it being clear she can leave whenever she wants.

[The Black Knight]

1. Avoid High Risk Women:

-Liberal American women are BY FAR the most likely to accuse you of something; especially liberal white women. These women buy into the whole false rape/DV hysteria non-sense and are devout feminists always looking to be a martyr to get attention. American liberal women are often perpetual victims and are often raised to blame others for their own failings and mistakes. While they get off on men who act like men in a sense, their twisted beliefs and upbringing ultimately compels them to act in disgust when confronted with a dominant politically incorrect male. She might bang you initially but partially regret it later because her feminist programming told her to do so.

-Any liberal women in particular that seems to be very political active or aware are to be avoided. Also pay attention to dress, demeanor, and how they carry themselves. If you need help on what to look for: Go watch YouTube videos of Bernie Sanders and Hillary Clinton rallies. You will see clear patterns.

-If you hear ANY talking points that sound like its from a Jezebel article (1 and 5 statistic, mentions of whatever the false accusation hysteria of the month is, etc): run away. If you pay attention to recent forum postings, you can get a solid sense on what the Jezebel types are recently raging out about.

-Avoid ANY women with a husband or boyfriend. If she mentions it, implies she has one, or you suspect she has one: walk away. TONS of women post-sex will claim rape to save face socially in front of their bf/husbands, family, social circle, etc.

-ANY mention of rape or "abuse" in the past. "I was in an abusive relationship", "He was abusive", etc and so forth: Run. As I alluded to, a lot of liberal American women are perpetual victims and have victimhood complexes; constantly defining themselves via their "struggles" in life. These people LOOK for problems and often make-up problems out of thin air for attention and to instigate drama. Any woman who tells you about how she has been "abused" or raped early on is very dangerous; even if it is only mentioned for 2 seconds and only one time. Trust me on this one.

-Any with signs of NPD, BPD, or other mental disorders. If she seems a bit out there, incoherent (not alcohol related), or just weird (she while 100% sober talks about the lizard people who live in a alternative plane of existence that we can't see but they are all around us and ultimately control us - true story), DO NOT FUCK THESE WOMEN. Forget false accusations; even chancing having a kid with these women is a thousand times worse.

2. Cover Your Ass:

-Pre and post-bang text records. Save them. E-mail them to yourself. Screen cap them (make sure phone number is visible on both ends).

-A lot chicks might not be down with video recording a bang (it also telegraphs the time period you are recording which isn't good; more on that in a second...). But you can audio record the bang covertly very easily these days.

Start voice recorder on phone and set on nightstand. As long as you don't have a shitty phone, it should pick up plenty of clear audio (test your phone prior if needed). Let it run a bit post-sex and you should be in the clear no problem. Hell, run it the whole time until the woman leaves your sight if your phone memory/software can handle it.

Key thing: DO NOT tell her you are recording. Ever. If she knows what time period you have hard evidence, she could just say: "Well, he raped me later in the day during round 2" or during a bang session you didn't record. She can tailor her story to fit the evidence.

The point of the audio recording is to destroy her credibility with overwhelming force EARLY ON so that the cops blow her off and this shit never even gets to a DA. Once your case gets to a DA and they charge you, you are looking at a 3 to 18 month costly legal nightmare potentially. DO NOT assume the cops/DA will thoroughly investigate a woman's claim before charging you, they usually won't. You CAN get charged on VERY THIN or virtually NO EVIDENCE. You must DESTROY ANY doubt as early as possible before the accusation gets ANY chance to grow some legs and run. Post bang texts and a audio recording of the evening should do the job.

-Do not cum inside the woman OR on her in any capacity. Do not let her get access to ANY of your jizz. I know... no cumshots to the face? Yes, I do mean NO cumshots to the face. A woman in possession of your jizz can essentially make up whatever story she wants. If you have no texts, no recording, and she is caked in your jizz when she goes to the cops, it is clearly obvious you had some sort of sexual relations with her and she can fill in the blanks however she likes (Monica Lewinsky ring a bell?). Then you have to PROVE you didn't do whatever bullshit thing she came up with. If you got the recording and texts, you are good (still should be careful with jizz in general though; women always looking for that pay day).

But if you forget to do the recording, didn't get the number (no texts), and did nut all over her, you could have a potential fight on your hands. Just something to keep in mind when blowing your load outside a condom.

Bottom Line:

No pussy is worth having going to jail and being professional/personally ruined for.

Generally, if you avoid high risk women, you should be fine on that account alone. Since we are talking a bar setting with alcohol involved, it might be a bit more difficult to sort out if a chick is high risk or not. So, you do shit to cover your ass. Cover your ass like how I described while keeping an eye out for high risk factors and you should be good to go.

Just always be thinking with your big head at all times.

[Gustavus Adolphus]

I'm of the philosophy that it doesn't really matter what happens before sex (assuming she is alert, eager and willing), it's how you handle it the next day. The last thing you want is her to feel bad about having sex with you. Basically you can say anything you want to girls as long as the last thing you leave them with makes them feel like they are in a limo at prom.

[John Quincy]

Black Knight:

Amazing post. It should be a sticky on the forum or you should expand it into an RoK article. A follow up question for you:

Does it make sense to set up a hidden camera in your apartment/bedroom that records all your bangs? You save them on a flash drive or a micro chip card and store them in a bank locker or something like that. (I wouldn't risk storing files in a cloud).

If you are seeking water tight evidence, isn't this the best way to go? Cops show up to your door 6 months after you've banged a girl and say "Hey, you raped this person." And you say, "No, I have video evidence that exonerates me. Let me call my lawyer and he'll retrieve it and meet us at the station." Boom. You are released in 2 hours. And the chick is arrested the same night.

Obviously it can't be a CCTV-type camera. She'll see it and run. But a tiny camera, strategically placed somewhere and a ordinary looking switch (similar to a standard household switch) that turns it on?

Or am I being unrealistic here?

These types of safeguards are new to me.

It saddens me to write this post, but these are the times we live in.

[The Black Knight]

(07-20-2016 03:47 PM)John Quincy Wrote:  

Black Knight:

Does it make sense to set up a hidden camera in your apartment/bedroom that records all your bangs? You save them on a flash drive or a micro chip card and store them in a bank locker or something like that. (I wouldn't risk storing files in a cloud).

If you are seeking water tight evidence, isn't this the best way to go?

You can set-up a hidden camera easily in your bedroom that auto uploads to a secured personal server.

One key thing you need to be aware of is that video recordings legally can be viewed in a different light as oppose to audio recordings. Even audio recordings in some places in your home without consent is illegal but you have to weigh the cost/benefit with regards to what you are comfortable with.

With an video recording, you also run the risk of yourself, your junks, and the woman you bang being easily identified in case of a video leak; which will be on the internet FOREVER. A woman is also more likely to sue you if you banged her out and a video of her getting railed by you (that she didn't know about) shows her naked body ends up on the internet for whatever reason. She can't save face or hide easily from it. It's a lot easier to hide away from an audio recording. Legally, people suggest putting a sign at a home entrance way having some language that says, "By entering you consent to being video recorded..." blah blah blah but now you:

1) Risk scaring potential bangs away with the notice.
2) Lose the covert monitoring advantage (now the woman could wait until she is out of your recording zone to claim rape in the car, her house, etc).
3) Increase your legal liability without (in my opinion) much upside.

High quality audio also takes up WAY less storage space than high quality video. Way, WAY less.

One idea is to audio bug your room and your main doorway. Get the bang on audio record and get saying goodbye/them leaving/"I had a fun time" on audio record as well. You could set that up easily, cheaply, and covertly no problem, and having it run 24/7 or constantly when you are home without much effort.

Quote:

Cops show up to your door 6 months after you've banged a girl and say "Hey, you raped this person." And you say, "No, I have video evidence that exonerates me. Let me call my lawyer and he'll retrieve it and meet us at the station." Boom. You are released in 2 hours. And the chick is arrested the same night.

Any cop that shows up asking about ANY potential crime, you shut the fuck up. I wouldn't even say you have video evidence; you might have just admitted to committing a crime. Good job.

You'd be AMAZED at how the most innocent shit said to the police can you fuck you up.

One last disclaimer: I'm NOT a lawyer. Double and triple check with a lawyer in your specific jurisdiction before doing anything.

[WestIndianArchie]

You can't prevent every bad thing that could happen to you.

You could be alone in a room with a girl and she can claim that you molested her. The charge might not stick, but she can make your life a living hell if she's so inclined.

You could marry the girl and still go to jail for rape.

Keep in mind, Rape and false rape accusations are actually rare. The merchants of fear will have you believing that every American chick is out there to screw over hard working American men for some feminist dystopia.

But standard protocol
- chicks that are clearly of age
- no drunk or high chicks. Let them sober up. There are 3.5 billion women out there. And less than 1% of the 3.5 billion men have even heard of game.

- look for red flags before you stick your dick in her
- condoms
- keep your bdsm fantasies for later
- no means no
- run solid comfort game post bang so as not to trigger buyer's remorse. Snuggle up, pillow talk, take her to breakfast. Have her send you I got home safe text.

WIA

[John Quincy]

@ Black Knight: Thanks for the reply. And a double thanks for setting me straight about not talking to the police if they show up to my door. That video is gold. I repped you for your first post in this thread and would do it again if I could.

[As you can tell, the police have never come to my home so I am clearly green in this area. My "law-breaking" amounts to a couple of parking tickets, a seatbelt violation, and one speeding ticket that was due to a slimy speed trap].

I would never record anything and put in on a server. There are too many variables with doing that which are out of my control. I would do everything off-line if it was legal where I live.

@WIA: I agree that the probability of being falsely accused is very low (probably less than 1%) and that the precautions you outline are necessary. However, the consequences of being accused are astronomical. Hence the concern. In this respect, a false rape charge is not too different from terrorism. The probability of being the victim of a terrorist attack is miniscule; but when it happens to you, there is a good chance that you will be finished. And in both cases, if you survive, you will most certainly be shaken to the core for a long time.

I hope the Columbia University guy writes a tell-all book one day.

[Captain Gh]

But at least you admit that this shit is making you paranoid a bit much! This thread, in terms of fear, is similar to your police extortion in Thailand thread. Of course you have to be vigilant, but at the same time you have to let things flow a certain way when gaming to convince these chicks that it's just happening thanks to good faith. If you're too much in your head in order to avoid a rape case, a woman will smell you being contrived from a mile away.

Screening chicks to the best of your ability is really THE thing that you can do. Just like WIA and others have mentioned, avoid drunk chicks and chicks on drugs, and avoid messing with certified tramps/trailerpark/hoodrat chicks since these women will smell your fearful nature and abuse you. Anyway I'm sure you already find them disgusting... but pussy is pussy so you never know!

[RBerkley]

(07-19-2016 11:45 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(07-19-2016 11:39 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

Send text afterwards "Did u get home safe?"
....

One of my dear friends, nice as pie, made a blatantly false rape allegation against another friend of mine. Fucked his life/career for years even though it was obviously not true. Don't leave room for it to happen to you.

Wow , this story sound like something we could all benefit from hearing more detail about.

The close calls I've had were with girls who :

1) Mentioned being abused or raped in the past.
2) Just seemed very eccentric, over or under reacting emotionally to various stimuli/situations.
3) Hed Short hair ( Thanks to Roosh for pointing out this one.)
4) Discuss turbulent, on-and-off or conflicted relationships in their life.
5) Suddenly mention very early how you are special, others haven't understood her etc.. bond too early.

One time one sent me a text "Don't contact me again and delete my pictures." That sent a chill up my spine.

Girls who disclosed that were childhood sexually abused with short hair and keeps on talking about their ex-boyfriend all the time?



With the femityrant false hysteria industry, the chick can even identify herself as a perpetual victim, making the usual false accusations of sexual assault to "empower" herself and her feminist organizations.

[The Black Knight]

(07-20-2016 06:08 PM)Captain Gh Wrote:  

But at least you admit that this shit is making you paranoid a bit much! This thread, in terms of fear, is similar to your police extortion in Thailand thread. Of course you have to be vigilant, but at the same time you have to let things flow a certain way when gaming to convince these chicks that it's just happening thanks to good faith. If you're too much in your head in order to avoid a rape case, a woman will smell you being contrived from a mile away.

Screening chicks to the best of your ability is really THE thing that you can do. Just like WIA and others have mentioned, avoid drunk chicks and chicks on drugs, and avoid messing with certified tramps/trailerpark/hoodrat chicks since these women will smell your fearful nature and abuse you. Anyway I'm sure you already find them disgusting... but pussy is pussy so you never know!

First, there is NOTHING wrong with covering your ass that goes beyond just screening chicks. That one time you cover your ass could save your professional and personal life. With modern technology, it's super easy and cheap to protect yourself.

If you are chasing chicks in a bar (which the OP said he planned on doing), screening a chick effectively could be difficult given the limited time table to filter (the OP isn't going on a full date with a chick sober), if you and/or the other person is intoxicated a bit, and you are not experienced or familiar with what to look for (the OP implied he wasn't experienced with the target culture).

Also, the precautions I listed are not only applicable to false rape accusations (which are rare) but more common stuff like false DV/assault charges. The latter charges can still be very devastating to one's professional and personal life. Even a MISDEMEANOR conviction of domestic violence can strip you of your right to own a gun FOR LIFE.

Furthermore, good luck getting a job involving children (teacher), working in sensitive positions (like nursing, police, military), or a visa to certain countries (Canada) with a DV/assault conviction.

Shit, just the CHARGE can screw you out of a job these days since companies, governments, and people are are scared shitless of getting sued because they hired the guy with DV/assault charge in his background. They rather not take the risk.

One should avoid living in fear and being constantly paranoid but let's not deny and downplay the current reality. It's a harsh and dangerous world for the modern player in the west; especially for the inexperienced player or player in-training who isn't adept at screening women.

Believe me, you don't want to learn how this shit really works the hard way.

[asdfk]

The reason I started this thread that I have had situations lately were I:
- Had a really fast bang. Basically a chick making out with me, me instigating foreplay (not genital petting or boobs, but more platonic area till she's very horny), her opening my pants and then us fucking within a very short period of meeting her. If I go out a lot about 25% of the days a chick will start making out with me out of the blue (at least in Europe). Every now and then this turns into a bang. There is no screening. Quite a few will be drunk.
- Changed my mind when taking a chick home. If she says something that pisses me off, I just want her to leave. But I keep acting nice as I don't know her and don't want to take any risks.

Yes, I fulheartedly admit that this is paranoid like the getting harassed by cops in Thailand thing.
Generally scammy girls leave me alone, and when they don't I sniff them out and we have a nice laugh about it.

"Once your case gets to a DA and they charge you, you are looking at a 3 to 18 month costly legal nightmare potentially. DO NOT assume the cops/DA will thoroughly investigate a woman's claim before charging you, they usually won't. You CAN get charged on VERY THIN or virtually NO EVIDENCE. You must DESTROY ANY doubt as early as possible before the accusation gets ANY chance to grow some legs and run. Post bang texts and a audio recording of the evening should do the job."

Is this how it actually works when a cop is on your doorstep? How to handle the exact situation that a cop knocks on your door?

[laq8ty]

One of the most important things you can do is screen chicks as someone mentioned already:

- any hx of an abusive ex or several abusive exes. run.
- any mention of abuse, rape. run
- crazy feminisim. run
- doesn't ask you to put on a condom first time...RUN fast
- has condoms in her drawers, prob don't hit it
- caution with chicks over 32- why are they still single?
- eating disorders. run
- she's crazy into you after just a date or too... run
- she buys you gifts after a few dates...run
- do not mess with a chick who is drunk or high
- pay attention to neurotic or compulsive behavior
- if you can meet her friends first its even better. get a sense of who they are and if they might stir trouble
- ask a chick about her ex casually. A mature chick won't badmouth her ex, she might say something like "...it didn't work out..." If she calls her exes horrible names, profanity- she is likely crazy
- short hair, weird dressing, odd colored hair/piercing/excessive tats
- i never ONS a girl. Its cool when you are in college but after the price is too high to pay if shit goes sour
- research on borderline personality disorder, this is very prevalent and odds are you will run into a girl who has it. it is very difficult to diagnose but if you see common traits and themes resonating with what you have read prob best to move on
- avoid girls that are drama-prone. for some reason drama seems to follow certain people. avoid them

As someone mentioned- no chicks are worth the hassle and the stress no matter how hot. The odds of this happening is rather low IF you screen well

[JayJuanGee]

(07-21-2016 09:07 PM)laq8ty Wrote:  

One of the most important things you can do is screen chicks as someone mentioned already:

- any hx of an abusive ex or several abusive exes. run.
- any mention of abuse, rape. run
- crazy feminisim. run
- doesn't ask you to put on a condom first time...RUN fast
- has condoms in her drawers, prob don't hit it
- caution with chicks over 32- why are they still single?
- eating disorders. run
- she's crazy into you after just a date or too... run
- she buys you gifts after a few dates...run
- do not mess with a chick who is drunk or high
- pay attention to neurotic or compulsive behavior
- if you can meet her friends first its even better. get a sense of who they are and if they might stir trouble
- ask a chick about her ex casually. A mature chick won't badmouth her ex, she might say something like "...it didn't work out..." If she calls her exes horrible names, profanity- she is likely crazy
- short hair, weird dressing, odd colored hair/piercing/excessive tats
- i never ONS a girl. Its cool when you are in college but after the price is too high to pay if shit goes sour
- research on borderline personality disorder, this is very prevalent and odds are you will run into a girl who has it. it is very difficult to diagnose but if you see common traits and themes resonating with what you have read prob best to move on
- avoid girls that are drama-prone. for some reason drama seems to follow certain people. avoid them

As someone mentioned- no chicks are worth the hassle and the stress no matter how hot. The odds of this happening is rather low IF you screen well

With that checklist, I would be so busy running that I would never get laid, maybe like Forest Gump.