[El Chinito loco]

(07-20-2016 02:29 AM)HOD Wrote:  

Why is it always PC okay for Asian women to date white guys, but when an Asian guys does it, he gets a hatefull stare from a Asian girl who is dating a white guy.

I don't think I have ever seen an Asian guy cockblock an Asian girl in LAX, or in China or Korea, its mostly Asian girls constantly cockblocking and putting down asian dudes, for no apparent reason.

I think we've talked about female psychology at length before and the cockblocking mentality. They want to be considered the only option because it boosts their own self esteem. Female vanity is such that it often involves tearing someone else down. Women do this shit to each other all the time. It's basic bitch behavior.

However I don't recall many asian women in person giving me any looks for dating non-asian. I do remember one fob asian girl I was seeing was very interested in asking me about the non-asian girls I dated prior. It was almost always sex related questions.

I have a feeling she secretly got off on my non-asian girl experiences. Like the girl version of cuckold.

[Hell_Is_Like_Newark]

The brown and smelly stereotype is pretty pervasive. Plus the FOB IRT types have mostly ruined the image of Indians abroad in SEA. Historically, non assimilated Indians in Thailand have always been viewed with the utmost suspicion. Familiarity breeds contempt and nothing breeds more contempt in SEA history than historical familiarity. Indian religion and culture has influenced SEA but the transmission stops when it comes to actual ancestry.

A friend from Thailand told me a few weeks ago that in Thailand the saying is if you see an Indian and a snake, you kill the Indian - at least you know what the snake will try to do.

A lot of the behaviour of Indian/South Asian FOBs in SE Asia makes me fucking cringe. Sometimes their shitty behaviour has even influenced people's opinions of Indians in the US. I've had a few Chinese women ask my why Indians rape so much.

I have had similar experiences with the Thais. Thais are pretty much open to anyone except Indians (Thais don't have the Xenophobia that many Asian cultures are famous for), whom the Thais express a lot of animosity towards. The primary complaint is that the Indians are viewed extremely dishonest. Especially when dealing with them in business, as they are considered liars and thieves.

A bit of irony is that the Thais do have their cultured influenced by India. However, the Thais tend to put their own spin on it. An example is the practice of 'Sin Sod' (bride price). In India, the bride's family pays the groom for taking over the burden of having a daughter. In Thailand, you PAY the bride's family to compensate them for the LOSS of their daughter.

Note: If you marry a Thai, the Sin Sod tends to be a major sticking point with westerners. The amount, in particular if the girl in question comes from an upper class Chinese-Thai (Chi-Thai) household can get REALLY steep. You maybe required to pay some of the Sin Sod in actual gold.

[Brosemite]

(07-20-2016 02:01 AM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

My LTR is an European mix with Polish in it (what's with Viets and Polish girls? ), and she gets a lot of hateful stares from this type of Viet chicks when she goes to Vietnamese areas for shopping or at her university. You think girls like the OP hate it and write lengthy blogs when white guys dump them for white girls? They might actually go home and slit their writs when Asian guys go for prettier white girls. One at her university had a melt down upon learning that my LTR speaks Vietnamese, cooks traditional foods and dresses in traditional ao dai on formal occasions.

This is quite interesting. On average, I've seen more WM-AF couples in the West. One of the areas where I've seen much greater amounts of AM-WF couples are in Vietnamese Shopping Centers in my city. Well done bro!

(07-20-2016 01:28 AM)WalterBlack Wrote:  

A friend from Thailand told me a few weeks ago that in Thailand the saying is if you see an Indian and a snake, you kill the Indian - at least you know what the snake will try to do.

A lot of the behaviour of Indian/South Asian FOBs in SE Asia makes me fucking cringe. Sometimes their shitty behaviour has even influenced people's opinions of Indians in the US. I've had a few Chinese women ask my why Indians rape so much.

I can say thats true..I 've worked with many in the Home/Textiles Import & Export industry; some of those guys can be such bullies who act like the world owes them something. Coming from a guy who's waited tables at a few restaurants during my time, would say that was my experience as well.

(07-18-2016 09:38 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

I do think that asian guys have it hard, but I have noticed that a lot of guys from SEA are pretty good players despite coming from tougher backgrounds, whereas a lot of my wealthier East asian bros have it pretty tough. I've seen Filipino dudes killing it with girls all through high school, college and beyond, for example.

Never could figure out what it was. They just seem to have fewer hang ups around sex and girls.

Yeah..have met several white girls that gave me IOIs only for them to respond with.."oh wait..have a boyfriend..he's Korean." Well off Korean guys in my city however seem to have it tough with girls in their own race and outside of it, which is weird.

For SE Asians/Filipinos, the fearlessness, confidence, and alpha vibe are key. They're communication abilities however are quite solid in that they're able to exert their game & converse with western women (& many other people) on "their level." That's exactly why white chicks come up telling me "hey I know how you (insert SE Asians) roll"

I watch Youtube videos from the Fung Brothers as they're pretty good at conveying certain subtleties about Asian culture for people with short-attention spans like myself. However, there are still many communication barriers with Asians & Westerners outside of their Cali A-Z-N circles.

One example is...they essentially indicated Asian professionals only care about the NBA & disregard other sports. That's bullshit. Asian exchange students at my university talk about soccer all the time. Lot of the Vietnamese & Filipinos talk about NFL/NCAA football consistently as they even bet money on those games.

Not ironically, these tools always complain about Asian girls dating White guys and how White girls aren't interested in Asian guys. Confidence is very important yes. You're ability to adapt to the current environment & communicate accordingly to women on their levels cannot be understated as well.

(07-20-2016 02:29 AM)HOD Wrote:  

Why is it always PC okay for Asian women to date white guys, but when an Asian guys does it, he gets a hatefull stare from a Asian girl who is dating a white guy.

I don't think I have ever seen an Asian guy cockblock an Asian girl in LAX, or in China or Korea, its mostly Asian girls constantly cockblocking and putting down asian dudes, for no apparent reason.

Its like they enjoy putting Asian dudes in thirst mode. Simply because they can.

I never care who dates who, I'm just happy they found someone. The California dating racket is a tough game for the average dude. Its a feminist paradise in terms of jobs and sexual partners. Its a night mare for the average man.

Agreed with being happy that others can find a high quality partner. Good grief Western Asian chicks can be so fucking hateful.

(06-22-2015 08:47 AM)262 Wrote:  

Here's an accidental example of how telling people your relocation plan can be sweet vengeance, especially if you're a minority-American:

So a few weeks ago, I went out with a buddy and his girlfriend to meet another another couple we knew - a short but busty Vietnamese-American girl and her cool and ripped white boyfriend. I'm just chillin, observing, drinking my beer, and not saying much, so my buddy decides to get me involved, and lets slip that I'm retiring to Poland - not that I mind, since I'm ready for the usual questions after earlier bombardments by family and friends. Among them though, the Vietnamese-American girl asks me a new one:

"Why not Vietnam?"

Without thinking, I'm pretty sure I said something along the likes of, "I think I'll like Polish girls more," and instantly, her face goes a little sad. The conversation then resumed without skipping a beat to something related but different, but looking back at it, I realized what happened.

For possibly the first time in her life, she probably felt, by association with her Vietnamese heritage, for a brief moment at least, what most minority-American males feel for their entire lives - being passed on by some just for their race.

What's also ironic is that the same girl has said in the past that she doesn't like Asian males. But she's still curious as to why, as an Asian-American male, I didn't choose Asian females off the bat. lol

I know vengeance is ultimately a negative and self-destructive emotion, but this accidental example of it sure felt good.

I justified my time in Brazil as "professional & academic," which wasn't really a lie.

If I ever moved abroad again, I'd use that same concise reasoning (true or not) just to avoid any sort of awkward moment of silence as exemplified in your situation Haha.

[Brosemite]

^ HOD - Last tidbit is many western white chicks also do get upset when their "white men" date foreign women or Asian chicks too.

[StrikeBack]

(07-20-2016 06:47 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

This is quite interesting. On average, I've seen more WM-AF couples in the West. One of the areas where I've seen much greater amounts of AM-WF couples are in Vietnamese Shopping Centers in my city. Well done bro!

Cheers I've always dated mostly white girls, and plenty from my family also did: my grandfathers had affairs with French women (one was with his professor's daughter!), grandfather's brother had a kid with a French woman, two uncles married Eastern Europeans, and also banged plenty etc. It's normal for us, so I never got the limiting beliefs that seem to affect other Asian guys here.

Also, in Vietnam, there are quite a lot of AM-WF or AM-LF (Latinas) couples now. Some are popular in their media, and even in my parents' old neighbourhood, I met plenty of their old friends whose sons have married a foreign girl. They weren't surprised when I introduced my LTR because she's white, only complimenting on how nice and pretty she is.

There's something to be said about Vietnamese and other South East Asians like the Filipinos (those guys do well with white or latinas too) not having much sexual hangups compared to the Koreans and Chinese. The latter ones that I know often carry a lot of inhibitions and sexual shames caused by their own families and culture.

[HOD]

(07-20-2016 08:30 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

^ HOD - Last tidbit is many western white chicks also do get upset when their "white men" date foreign women or Asian chicks too.

Maybe for a second, no asian chick is going to phase a white chick.

She can reload, and find an army of beta box to reboost her low self esteem.

There sense of abundance and self entitlement is unmatch in terms of the sexual market.

The white chick created the IRT. White chicks = PC dialogue.

White chicks, have total monopoly on the dating market. There totally protected and back 110 percent by the Western media, the elites, gays, and etc.

There, the only group that has true free speech, everyone else is fair game. Any dude that talk shit about a white chick, will be fire from his corporate job, label a rapist and a misygonist.

Prior to my travels, I use to work in a dead end corporate job, I made it a point to avoid white chicks at work, they can get you fire, just because you didn't say hi. Some admin white chick have more power than mid level managers. Thats the truth.

They have total immunity and zero responsiblity.

[Brosemite]

^ My only point is that all girls want guys within their closest proximity to acknowledge them as the only dating options they should have....

There are honestly white chicks who have told my sister/female relatives they're envious bc they don't like blending in as just another white girl in the pack.

You are right in the sense that there are still quite a few white chicks who know their sense of power as a Caucasian female in society & will leverage it accordingly.

[StrikeBack]

(07-21-2016 02:06 AM)HOD Wrote:  

(07-20-2016 08:30 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

^ HOD - Last tidbit is many western white chicks also do get upset when their "white men" date foreign women or Asian chicks too.

Maybe for a second, no asian chick is going to phase a white chick.

She can reload, and find an army of beta box to reboost her low self esteem.

You very much underestimate the insecurities of women, in this case white ones.

Look at their faces as you walk down the streets. Do you see an abundance of happiness? Or do you see deeply stressed, defensive, depressed, scowling people?

No amount of beta attention will make them feel better after getting rejected by the men they think they deserve.

Make no mistake, they will be threatened by Asian women (or other women) who are pretty and feminine, if the men they are interested in show appreciation for such women. As mentioned, I've dated mostly white girls, and all of them, upon meeting Asian women who show interest in me, have communicated to me in some way that they feel insecure for not being as slender, or feminine, or pretty.

The only exception is my LTR who rejoices in competing against Asian women for my attention, as she's also slender (with bigger boobs ) and feminine. She still gets mighty jealous though when Asian (or white, latina etc.) girls come up to flirt with me or ask me for a dance. She herself gets hit on a lot, even while other girls chat me up, but none of that even registers.

Women are women, they don't comprehend abundance of options like men do. The so-called self-esteem boost from betas does not last beyond maybe 5 seconds.

[HOD]

(07-21-2016 09:57 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

(07-21-2016 02:06 AM)HOD Wrote:  

(07-20-2016 08:30 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

^ HOD - Last tidbit is many western white chicks also do get upset when their "white men" date foreign women or Asian chicks too.

Maybe for a second, no asian chick is going to phase a white chick.

She can reload, and find an army of beta box to reboost her low self esteem.

You very much underestimate the insecurities of women, in this case white ones.

Look at their faces as you walk down the streets. Do you see an abundance of happiness? Or do you see deeply stressed, defensive, depressed, scowling people?

No amount of beta attention will make them feel better after getting rejected by the men they think they deserve.

Make no mistake, they will be threatened by Asian women (or other women) who are pretty and feminine, if the men they are interested in show appreciation for such women. As mentioned, I've dated mostly white girls, and all of them, upon meeting Asian women who show interest in me, have communicated to me in some way that they feel insecure for not being as slender, or feminine, or pretty.

The only exception is my LTR who rejoices in competing against Asian women for my attention, as she's also slender (with bigger boobs ) and feminine. She still gets mighty jealous though when Asian (or white, latina etc.) girls come up to flirt with me or ask me for a dance. She herself gets hit on a lot, even while other girls chat me up, but none of that even registers.

Women are women, they don't comprehend abundance of options like men do. The so-called self-esteem boost from betas does not last beyond maybe 5 seconds.

True,

I hear what your saying,

But, that's like saying I'm beautiful and its hard to meet guys.

Seems like she is clueless.

Men speak: I have a Master's in Mechanical Engineering from Cal Berkeley, and I can't find a job. I have a friend that's in this scenario. He simply is clueless about the job market, and is unwilling to network, hustle and apply himself, he wants his famous school to carry him.

It has more has to do with incompetence versus competence.

"In my hand a sword is a weapon of success, in another man's hand its a toy. "

[Brosemite]

^ Strikeback is correct. If all semi-attractive white women in the Anglo world felt like queens of the jungle, then why do a lot of them resort to stringing along betas via guy friends opposed to being around other good looking chicks? Insecurity.

[Leonard D Neubache]

(07-21-2016 02:06 AM)HOD Wrote:  

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Prior to my travels, I use to work in a dead end corporate job, I made it a point to avoid white chicks at work, they can get you fire, just because you didn't say hi. Some admin white chick have more power than mid level managers. Thats the truth.

They have total immunity and zero responsiblity.

A reasonably good looking guy with some game in a female dominated workforce can completely own that shit.

You flirt with all of them so subtly that they're not sure if you want to fuck them or you're just a carefree homo.

I played this game during a long term security gig and as long as you never fuck any of them (don't shit where you eat) you will enjoy the attention of many a hamster.

[UnW]

lol in Asia she would be getting a ton of hate for being a white-chaser. She's too westernised and entitled to be with dudes of her own race, and not good enough to be anything more than smash and dash leftovers for white dudes.

[262]

^ Hadn't heard "smash and dash" before. Made me Google this gem:

(07-14-2015 08:50 PM)Aquiles_Baesta_Parada Wrote:  

(03-13-2015 05:14 AM)Paracelsus Wrote:  

(03-13-2015 04:32 AM)Pride male Wrote:  

Cant make an ex-playboy playmate into a housewife. Fuck and chuck. Use and refuse. Pump and dump. Sex and next. Get laid and evade. Have fun and run.

Pounce and bounce. Dick and flick. Boom and zoom. Penetrate and evacuate. Slam and lam.

Hit it and quit it. smash and dash. ride and hide. nail and bail. pull out and roll out. wham, bam and thank you ma'am.

[kikuyu1]

This bitch pisses me off on so any levels for 2 reasons:
-pseudo intellectual meandering
-fake moralizing
What amuses me is how women will always be women. Her vanity can't accept that some men just don't want her pussy. Any noobs in here should use this as an example of the power of ignore game.

[Shoubuliao]

Another scorned Asian cunt to add to the mix:

She got pumped and dumped by some US Army guy in Korea that she admitted to cheating on yet feels slighted that he didn't want to stick around.

Here's another vid from her channel where she says that every white guy in Asia is a loser: