[BambiNotForLong]

I know this stuff is looked down a lot here but just hear me out.


For the past few months I've basically become a reclise and have been depressed for quite a while now.

I'm laying in bed, the time is 1:12. I have tissues next to me about to masturbate and I said fuck this shit. I looked up some escorts and exchanged pleasantries on the phone. As soon as I walked in my jaw dropped. Normally a £50 hooker here dont look as good as the pics and moody depressed or whatever. Id never had a good experience with a hooker before tonight. As I came through to her room she says or something like " I'll see you tomorrow as well sexy or something like that. As we are making small talk and jokes I feel like we are just connecting.i told her I'm pretty bad at sex and hoped she could so me some stuff as I wanna get better. She was doing all this sexy shit like changing the music by leaving over me with her juicy ass in front of my face. She blows me giving eye contact licking the tip she seemed into it as much as I was. After the sex she says i was normal actually, I didn't suck haha. We banter a bit and she asks about a tattoo I have and I say I'll tell you next time keep it a mystery. She gave me a big hug afterwards and I can't remember what she said after that but I left.

She text me after saying some stuff about gentlemen or something like that. I said I'll be back for longer next time.

Now the simple answer is that she put on a show for a client but it didn't mean anything to her.

My question is, if after a few sessions going like that (hypothetically) how would you go about making something like that turn into free sessions?

[kaotic]

She's going to squeze you for every dime you're worth. You're a John and a sucker.

Stop.

This isn't a pay to play forum.

If you feel that lonely and horny, start learning game and approaching woman.

Hookers aren't the answer to your girl problems.

[Captain Gh]

No disrespect my friend, but you simply ain't ready to Date a professional Ho. Mistake #1 is that you already like her too much! P4P is not to be discussed here, so I'll skip this part. The bottom line is that you had to go to a hooker to get some, so you need to work on yourself and get yourself right. This forum's the place for that. Read on!

[BambiNotForLong]

You guys are right I'm not in the right state of mind.

Please delete this thread.

[LINUX]

If you're going to fall in love with a hooker, at least fall in love with one with a 25 inch waist and 40+ inch ass.

[BambiNotForLong]

(07-15-2016 12:03 AM)LINUX Wrote:  

If you're going to fall in love with a hooker, at least fall in love with one with a 25 inch waist and 40+ inch ass.

Na not fall in love, I was thinking more of an angle to get free sex from a really hot escort.

It's fucking stupid and I always have stupid ideas during the night. No idea what is wrong with me

[kaotic]

She doesn't do shit for free, she see's you as a bank.

Captain has it right - you aren't even anywhere close to be able to run game on a pro.

Stay away from that shit man.

[BambiNotForLong]

(07-15-2016 12:14 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

She doesn't do shit for free, she see's you as a bank.

Captain has it right - you aren't even anywhere close to be able to run game on a pro.

Stay away from that shit man.

You're right you guys all are. I'm staying away.

[Fortis]

I hate to be that guy to bring up shit from outside the thread, but don't you have kids?

You should definitely consider where your money is going especially if others depend on you. Suddenly that 50 dollars looks a lot more important when you realize it can feed your kids.

I'd seriously work on cold approaching and other things. You sound like your confidence is low. You are exactly the type of customer she's looking for.

You are looking for a connection; she is looking for a wallet.

She'll connect with you as long as she gets to diddle your purse strings.

[Kona]

Since you are finished with this hooker, it should be a-ok if you posted some photos, or provided us with a backpage or other hooker site type of link.

And cheer up, or cheerio, since you are in England. Go outside and take a walk.

That seems to be standard advice on these threads where brothers have the blues. Its real though so take it.

You'll feel better.

Aloha!

[XPQ22]

(07-14-2016 11:45 PM)BambiNotForLong Wrote:  

For the past few months I've basically become a reclise and have been depressed for quite a while now.

I'm laying in bed, the time is 1:12. I have tissues next to me about to masturbate and I said fuck this shit.

Quote:

My question is, if after a few sessions going like that (hypothetically) how would you go about making something like that turn into free sessions?

Not from where you're at, no.

I'll admit, after I started feeling better during my recovering from a couple years of chronic illness, I banged a hooker. I wanted to see if I could still get shit to work.

She advertised herself on Backpages as a "Cute punk rocker chick." In person she was just a usual cute "6.5" girl-next-door lower middle class suburban girl, single mom, looking to make ends meet. We got pizza, sang along to songs on the radio in my car, and banged at my place...all in all it was a nice couple of hours. She said she charged $300, but only asked for $200 when I dropped her home.

We stayed in touch a little bit via text. I thought about hitting her up again.

But then I pulled myself together. Made an online dating account, read some tips about night game, got a new wardrobe, and started hitting the pavement both online and off. And deleted her number.

And that's made all the difference. No more lying in bed with jizz tissues. Let's get ready for the show.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

P2P is:

Good: If you've got other options, but don't have the time to deal with women. You pay them to go away. Works great for Wall St. types who are too busy making money to have actual human relationships.

Bad: If this is your go-to way of getting women and you're not doing much else.

Good: For older guys who already had the car and saving taken away and don't want to spend another dime on a woman without a clear-cut return.

Bad: For lonely old men seeking companionship.

Good: When you can get a S.A. thing going with a younger woman you get along with.

Bad: When you get attached to such a women or taken advantage of by her.

Good: When you give a woman a house in exchange for sex and lifelong commitment.

Bad: When she takes the house but withholds the sex, then ditches the commitment.

Yes, that whole thing was a build-up to get to that last sentence. It's worth seriously thinking about what really constitutes P2P. At least one person I know recently had to beg for money from me to keep his wife happy. How this is different from paying a hooker I have no idea.

[BambiNotForLong]

Can't quote but Fortis you've got the wrong guy. I'm 21 never had a gf let alone kids haha.

Last night I wasn't thinking clearly. I woke up thinking wtf was I thinking last night. I think I had the most fun I've ever had with a woman (albeit paid for) and it almost felt real. The other times it was pretty bad but yesterday felt like the first time I had sex. Of course she's gonna put on a show its her job you moron (talking to myself). It feels good to have a girl in your bed making small talk and banging and I do want more and not with hookers. But at this point in my life, I'm looking at myself and my SMV is probably like 2/10 right now.

[Rhyme or Reason]

WIA said this in another thread, but it pertains here:

You aren't looking for sex, you're looking for validation.

It's good that you got some bang for your buck, literally.

It will be better when you actually seduce a chick.

[Roosh]

7 day ban. This isn't a p4p forum.