Quote: (07-07-2016 11:05 AM)Rocha Wrote:
Quote: (07-07-2016 09:42 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
He's playing white knight. The girl wants to fuck him, he wants to fuck her.
He's not doing what he wants to do because of social programming.
Definition of blue pill.
WIA
Why white knight? He is not defending her. He just wants to avoid potential timewasting and negative drama.
And in what part of OP post you read that she wants to fuck him?
Also, his rationale for nexting her may be or seem bluepill. But food for thought, s it redpill to try to bang her given the circumstances?
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She was into me, sitting next to me on a table and paying attention to everything I say. She then texts me on the weekend, asks how my weekend is. "
That's her basically blowing him a kiss and pulling open her skirt.
So this is what OP does
"We exchange a few texts I ask her out for a drink."
I didn't put words in his mouth.
He went for the kill.
But then he wusses out over imagined social fall out.
Not because he doesn't want to fuck the girl, or that he screened her.
But it might interrupt how an acquaintance feel some type of way.
The "red pill" lesson here is that when you take away the social programming, the blue pill propaganda - women are sexual beings and will make themselves available to men who they perceive to be alpha.
Whether or not she's looking at him for provisioning, or some other excuse is not material to his side of the game. Who gives a fuck what she wants.
What does he want?
His true self asked for the date.
But then the self that is in control brought up all these complications about social circle and other bullshit. And feigning ignorance about what her motivations might have been, bringing in extra details to protect his ego.
No one should give a fuck what I say, or what I think. WIA is some clown on the internet who has too much time at work and way too much experience with women.
A man should care about what *he* thinks.
He's not going to see it. A lot of guys don't see it. They get on this treadmill of looking for the next guy to tell them how to live, what to think - when the whole point of the red pill, of the game, is getting to the core of what you really want.
When you get that grounding, then you come at the situation, XXL says this, WIA says this, Kaotic says this, Roberke says this, Gio says that, XPQ22 has this to add, Linux says this. There's value in what they say, and either it jives with my own experiences or it departs from my own. Why is that? Is there something deeper? Something I'm missing? Is there a pattern, or is this a departure from the pattern? What can i take from what they say and apply? What can I disregard?
This scenario as described and then amended shows me a guy that is not clear about what he wants, but he cares a lot about how he appears to others.
That's okay, it's a newbie board post. Guys here are starting to figure out what it is they're truly after. I'd say at the beginning, it's pussy. But before long it's about validation, ego stroking, getting back at bitches for all that time you spent in the dark. And cats end up on the other side of that, plenty of notches, and the realization that "flesh is not the answer".
Then we can really start the work of deprogramming. So guys can spot a the idiocy of thinking a religious virgin would make a good wife.
WIA